2007-06-13 05:24:22 · 22 answers · asked by thestarhooligan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. Stay faithful to her.
2. Buy her flowers even when it's not a "special occasion."
3. Tell her you love her.
4. Write her a love letter and hide it in her underwear draw or night stand.
5. Surprise her with a date or overnight trip.
6. Get a tattoo with her name on it (or not)
7. Make a coupon book for her with things like (I do the dishes/laundry, Good for 1 banana split for 2, Dinner and a movie, Night out with the girls, etc.)
8. Send her a card in the mail with a note that says "I love you."
9. Bring her something from one of your favorite spots where you were when you first fell in love.
10. Make a baby together.
Great question!
2007-06-13 05:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by historybuff33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you love your wife very much. Try doing more romantic things for her. When the kids go to sleep try running a nice bubble bath for her let her relax. Afterward give her a full body massage. Try different things like this, I am not saying she will give "it" up every time. As for you "needing" it 2/3 times a week I don't think so. Think about her out in the job field she is tired and probably sex is the last thing on her mind. I'm not saying that a stay at home Dad isn't tired either. I am a stay at home mom I know how the day goes. At the end of the day we want to have grown up conversations and actions. But hey, a hug a kiss from my man suites me just fine.
2016-05-19 01:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by reina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The big one is to always treasure everyday with her and NOT take the marriage for granted. Most marriages end because of this simple mistake. It is true that changes occur after the honeymoon period is over. IT is not all about the roses and such. Ongoing support for her in what endeavors she pursues is good. One rule for the man: A woman will always feel wanted and special when her man is behind her. It is the cliche but you really do need to listen to her. Be sympathetic and empathetic with her. Show her that you are in the present with her. The simplest things such as giving her THE look that shows how attractive you still are to her can mean a great deal.
2007-06-13 05:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the simplest things are the best. Bring her a cup of tea/coffee/pop while she's laying on the couch watching TV. Or rub her back/feet/shoulders while you're watching a DVD. Or do the dishes/laundry/vacuuming without being asked to.
My wife loves it when I come home from work and take our son to the park so she can have some time to herself. She tells me that's better than any ring or whatever that I could buy in a store. Although she lieks that stuff too. ;)
2007-06-13 06:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by Randy M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes is the little things you do that show you still love her. If you know how to cook, make her favorite dish (nice candlelight dinner), when your watching the television massage her feet, her back or any other body part that hurts. You can also find or write a poem that get your point across to her. If she more on the material side buy her anything with diamonds. Booking an all inclusive trip to a romantic place. Good Luck!
2007-06-13 05:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Rafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel like she is the only thing you think about all day long, tell her she is beautiful every day, be affectionate, tell her thank you for at least one thing daily. Write her a love email telling her you couldn't get her off your mind (usually works REALLY well after a night of sex). Kiss her shoulders, hands or cheeks, mix it up. Tell her she is a wonderful mother and your children are very lucky (if you have any of course). If you have an arguement, let her say her piece, really listen and then ask her if you can tell her your opinions (of course she will say yes, a woman will always be agreeable if they feel truly heard). Don't try to fix all her problems/issues, listening is enough!!. Be tolerant of her emotions, even if you don't understand or agree. Be a friend to her. I could go on and on but I promise you she will know you love her if you do any of the above....GOOD LUCK! (oh and she's lucky to have someone willing to get a clue)
2007-06-13 05:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you the things my hubby of 19 years does that shows me he still loves me.
He fills my car up with gas.
He gets milk at the grocery store when he knows we're out at home.
He'll offer to pick kids up from their activities when he knows I have something else to do.
He'll bring me flowers for no reason.
He'll bring me chocolate during my period. :-) (this probably benefits him as well--but I sure like it!)
He calls me up during the day--just to talk.
He supports me in what I want to do.
He'll make a point to spend time with me every week on a date.
He'll listen to me.
OK, I could go on and on, but I hope you're getting the general idea. It's not the big, huge things that we do for each other that shows how much we care for another, it's those little, everyday things, that over a lifetime show those feelings.
Hope this helped you some!
2007-06-13 05:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plan some time together, perhaps a night out so she can dress up. Women enjoy the intimacy of a romantic evening out. Dinner & dancing: she'll love it. OR, surprise her with a romantic evening at home. Send the kids to grandmas. Then chill a couple of bottles of wine, play your favorite CDs while you grill a couple of juicy steaks (you do the grilling and let your wife enjoy). Coupled with great conversation, this is a wonderful way to express your love. Throw in a box of chocolates and the night is yours! Best wishes.
2007-06-13 05:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing you did 3 years ago when she feel in love with you. Tell her often show her more. Remember it's the little things that mean the most. A note on the mirrior in the morning, a card for no reason at all. Little things.
2007-06-13 05:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by formerly confusedmale 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a funny question because you haven't been married very long. I guess you're just trying to be a good husband. Do some things for her that you usually consider "her" jobs. Don't tell her you did them either and don't brag about how damn good you are either. Just do some quiet, kind things and don't expect anything in return. She will feel the love.
2007-06-13 05:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by Eric G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋