I am currently a full-time college student who works full-time as well. He is constantly nagging me about getting a better job but I am in my last 8 weeks and think it is better to wait until I have my bachelors to get a better job. He complains about my pay and we bought a new car for me to drive that he constantly reminds me is HIS. I am tired of his abuse already yet we have only been married a month. What should I do???
2007-06-13 06:42:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By the way...he makes good money..so there is no stress on the financials and I work for my parents who own a business that will in a few years be mine. They don't pay me much now because they just paid for my whole college tuition and a wedding. So I work for them to in a way pay them back...he doesn't understand this that right now I am not rich but I will be!
2007-06-13 08:28:01 · update #1
Hold on until you get on your feet, then tell him to straighten up or get out!
2007-06-13 09:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever thought that every day you don't get a better paying job is another day he shoulders the burden of the finances?
You bought a new car which most likely put an additional strain on you money. Maybe its getting to him.
You and your husband have different OPINIONS on when is the best time to get a better paying job.
However, both of you do agree that you should get a better paying job.
That fight is only over timing. He may see you not getting a better paying job as a sign that you don't care about him.
What harm is there by looking for a job now? In all truth an employer is not going to hold 8 weeks against you and it will show that you want to pull you own weight in the relationship. In truth you are rescuing your husband from the feeling that everything is dependent on him.
I think you should start looking for a new job and realize stress about money can make people act mean.
2007-06-13 14:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that you made a mistake. He didn't marry you, he married a mother, a maid and a whore. It works out that way. I had a friend that got divorced and it was something I thought she would never do. I asked her when she new it was a mistake. By the time that they got to the airport on the way to their honeymoon. We are so good at setting you up. Nothing personal, its just that some guys are looking for second mothers.
2007-06-13 14:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get divorce.. make yourself a better life without him...
2007-06-13 13:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by back2future 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont like your spouse
2007-06-13 13:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by lizclairboring 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋