Marriage & Divorce - 13 June 2007

My man and i have been together for two years..i a m 25 he is 23.. i wanna settle down and get married because i have children. And i want a commitment with the ring! everytime i confront him about it...he gets really mad? should i just stop bringing it up?

2007-06-13 14:43:39 · 11 answers · asked by missymrocks 1

or maybe he never really did. Anyway, my question is what should I do? He's not sure if he wants a divorce, as we have two young children together. I'm not sure either, if we should stay together for our children or if we shoud just move on. I don't think it will be good for the kids if we divorce but I know that me and my husband being unhappy wont be good for them either. What is your opinion and advice?

2007-06-13 14:36:54 · 20 answers · asked by Violet 5

nothing sexual....just original

2007-06-13 14:16:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, I'm 21 and yesterday my dad and I found out that my mom is cheating on my dad. I'm very MAD at her. I fell so bad, because I never thought she would do something like that. I'm so angry at her. I dont even want to look at her.
help me what do I do? My mom said that since my dad had cheated on her three years ago she was doing the same thing to him. But my dad is very, very sad. :(

thanks for any advice.

2007-06-13 14:15:04 · 21 answers · asked by alma_ray2002 1

I have been married to my highschool sweatheart for 3 years we was both young when we married.I am 24 and he is 27 I love this man with all my heart we get along at times we have fun with each other the marrigae is not dull he has his moments sometimes we fight(but all couple do he not this bad man, but I have had my eyes on someone else I am obess with this other man and this other man is not a good man for me b/c he has been in trouble with the law he is on the run for the police as I speak, I have tried everything to contact him and I know I shouldn't do that this b/c this man is not good for me he has nothing to offer me, and I can't share this with my husband b/c he will never forgive me b/c he know this man, but I feel that there nobody to talk to. I find myself rinding by his house I just don't know what to do I feel that I can't seem to let this other man go I keep telling myself to forget him but I can't .I know you may say I crazy but I need serious advice.

2007-06-13 14:06:46 · 15 answers · asked by Lady J 2

The challenges, the frustrations, and the rewards. Did things change a way into the relationship, or was it the way things always were?

2007-06-13 14:06:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

who has had or has a relationship that was a result of an affair. either you or him or both were married and became involved for whatever reasons. i (we) have our own issue individually and have fallen in love. I know most people hate it when two commited people fall in love, they accuse them for being selfish and uncaring people and cast judgement upon those people, but situations happen. don't ever judge until you've walked in another's shoes. i've known two couple who have found each other's soulmates, while in not so good situations. i have known people who have come together in this situation and are still together after 20 years, are there any other positive stories?

2007-06-13 14:04:02 · 20 answers · asked by marge 2

I am really worried my ex husband is not the father of my child. I had sex with someone on the 3 of Dec. and had my period on the 12th. On the 23 all the way through until the 30th of Dec I had sex with my ex husband. Who could be the father? We are getting a divorce so please don't talk bad about me I am just concerned b/c I want it to be my ex husband's. My periods are regular every month so I am thinking it is my ex's.

2007-06-13 14:03:58 · 6 answers · asked by angie M 1

I need advice on whether I should get a divorce or not. My husband doesnt pay much attention too me unless he wants sex,food,or clean clothes. He spends most of his time playing video games (xbox360) chatting with everyone on there. When I ask him why he doesnt stop for a while and talk with me he only gets upset and either ignores me or blows up at me. He doesnt help at all around the house and complains all day if I dont get him something that he wants like food or He will want me to go and get him something to drink but be too lazy to get it himself. Also when we do get into fights he yells at me and calls me every name in the book in front of our children(we have three by the way) He either throws stuff at me or acts like he is going to hit me. He hasnt, but he has pushed me a few times. He makes me so mad and then the next day he acts like nothing happened and thinks I should do the same too. How can you forget about someone is suposedto love you act like they are gonna hit you?

2007-06-13 13:58:52 · 15 answers · asked by QTforlife 2

my husband and I have a 9 month old son and Im the only one working. Every time I mention getting a job to him he gets mad and always has an excuse why he cant work. I love him to death but I cant afford to do it by myself anymore. What should I do?

2007-06-13 13:42:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i got married this march. my husband had been asking me for awhile but i kept saying i wanted to put it off until he got his stuff together. he hurt his back 3 years ago and it has gotten progressivly worse. i know he is in som e serious pain he cannot stand longer than 15 mins without almost collapsing. he is on workmans comp but is not getting compensated the way he should. meanwhile im paying all the bills im only 25 so i dont make that much but lets just say i pay about 1200 in bills a month and i only make 1800 a month. i dont feel liek he is doing everything he should to get better. he has a car but it needs to be repaired and he has not gotten it fixed in almost a year and has to drive my car that i pay for. he always has an excuse why he cant fix it. oi dont know is my husband worht waiting for or should i just move on?

2007-06-13 13:36:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so im married recently, i know i love my husband he makes me laugh and he really knows how to make me feel special but.. he has a serious injury hes taking serious pain meds he cant work adn im paying all the bills. im only 25 and im begining to wonder why i got married. i met this guy and hes soo nice to me and i know everyone will think he just is using me but i told him my situation and he said whatever happens he will be there for me. we sleot together and i feel horrible about it. i don t know what i should do should i tell my husband? should i try and make this marriage work. i know al ot of you will say i made a commitment i should stick wiht but life is too short right but i dont know if this other guy is worth it, what should i do?

2007-06-13 13:20:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

he cheated, he is in jail getting out soon, he was violent , he lied, he had a horrible addiction. he swears losing me and his freedom has changed him. he swears he will not go back to using bgecause he sees how much it affected everyone around him. i have stood by his side for a long while. i am scared i may go through this all over again.

2007-06-13 13:11:02 · 17 answers · asked by DAWNNAMARIA 1

well, i am getting marrried on July 7th as some of you know...my fiancee has had some erectile disfunction because of diabetes and high blood pressure... the doctor saw him today and gave him a free sample of Viagra... i work in the medical field, (GYN/OB Nurse)... but i really dont know about Viagra. Anyone had good or bad personal experiences? This is serious, so please let me know... thanks!

2007-06-13 13:10:42 · 10 answers · asked by bronzebabekentucky 7

I keep myself very busy still he is my joy, love, comfort?

2007-06-13 13:09:13 · 15 answers · asked by lulu 1

committing their first crime?

In the Stranger Beside Me, Ann Rule said that the current thinking is that a 2 to 2 and 1/2 year old child forms his conscience for life, but that Ted Bundy was too terrified (of his grandfather) to have the calm needed in order to develop a conscience and develop empathy for others.
It seems that once that window of opportunity for forming a social conscience closes after age 2 1/2, those kids who failed to form a conscience could become sociopathic or at least never have normal empathy for others. This is especially true if they continue to be abused for years, although Ted Bundy apparently wasn't abused after the age of 4.
So what is society to do with these people? There is no cure, apparently. The die has been cast, the conscience doesn't form, and these people are uncaring and many times dangerous.
What do we do to protect ourselves as a society from these adults? And what do we do to stop the child abuse of very young kids?

2007-06-13 12:57:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i got married to my husband this march. i really think i should have waited i wanted to but then he kep t sayin ghow much he loved me and would chnage a lot of things after we were married and i was stupid enough to believe him. anyways he has had a back injury for 3 years now that has gotten progressivly worse. he cant work, he hasnt gotten his car fixed in a year and drives mine, i pay all the bills and its so hard. plus we never have sex, like once a month. so i met this guy at work, he is so nice to me and treats me like a princess. i know he doesnt just want me for sex bc i wanted to sleep with him befor ehe said anything. iknow it was so wrong but i was juts so depressed and he made me feel so muhc better and i wanted to forget everyhting now i think he is really falling for me he bought me a bracelet when he was on vaction and we work toether and hes always making plans ewiht me to go to the movies and stuff. i do love my husband but i dont know if i can live like th

2007-06-13 12:53:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

She wanted to voice her concern about my mental state.Depression,grief etc. I felt like i was talking to Dr. Laura. Why would she do this.I know she doesn't give a dam anymore me anymore.She really doesn't.She told me she can never come back o me.I already knew that when she filed for divorce.She says she cares about me but its time to move on.Im trying ! but when ever she calls me it jerks me right back to all my feelings for her.She says this is the last time we will ever talk and then a week later she calls and it starts all over.She has my phone number,i don't want to change it.I don't have her number because she changed it and doesn't want me to call her.She calls from her work.And she has screened the calls when i had in the past.Its like a one way street with her.Why does she jek me around like this,its not fair.I guess i just stop answering my phone all together /

2007-06-13 12:49:42 · 6 answers · asked by Rodger M 1

I would want to know this in the marriages of today.

2007-06-13 12:47:04 · 11 answers · asked by marilynsue08 1

a romantic nigth with my hubby our anniversary is coming up in a month and i would like to prepare something romanticfor the 2 of us .. I want to give him a special surprise by making up a fantasy but i have no idea what kid of fantasy ... Share any ideas that you have done or would like to be done .....We really need a braek to release our streess. I will have our 3 kids spend 2 day at grandma's house we will be spending those 2 days at a hotel in the beach ... so I need ideas on romantic & a fantasy ... THANKS IN ADVANCE !!!

2007-06-13 12:39:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have already started divorce proceedings but my husband wants us to try agin .can i stop the divorce even though its already started

2007-06-13 12:35:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just don't understand a woman. Why is it so hard to understand?

2007-06-13 12:19:59 · 14 answers · asked by Guy 1

Do I have to tell her that I need the money!!

2007-06-13 12:16:15 · 11 answers · asked by leontaurus 2

2007-06-13 12:02:18 · 8 answers · asked by rosco872 1

its been a couple months since my boyfriend broke up with me. I just can't find it to do my h/w in school or have fun. I just feel that if we can't be together I don't need to have fun at all. what am I doing wrong. need some advice on getting myself back to normal and getting away from personal problems on my ex. please help

2007-06-13 11:59:02 · 30 answers · asked by princess 2

2007-06-13 11:58:06 · 5 answers · asked by mauricewilliams123 1

Say you're a 29 year old woman, who has a 5 or 6 year old girl, and a 4 year old girl. You are very wealthy, bringing in maybe 15 million between you and your husband. You cheat on your husband; he physically and mentally abuses you. You love the man you cheated one with much more than you love your husband, and want to leave your husband for him. Since your husband is abusive, the court grants you (the woman) full custody of the two children. The children love their father very much, and he hasn't done anything to them. But since you're in love with another man, you immediately get married to him right after the divorce. How would the children deal with loosing their father like that, and immediately having a new man in their life?

2007-06-13 11:50:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-13 11:49:54 · 7 answers · asked by chuck074 1

If a person gets a divorce on the 28 th of july and there divorce from o nother person is not finallized until the 27th of july . Does this make there new married that took place on the 27th legal

2007-06-13 11:47:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

OFCOURSE, i understand he has to be sweet, nice guy, treats you right, good personality...etc.

but as an attribute does money add to the whole package?

2007-06-13 11:40:24 · 14 answers · asked by varsfootball44 1