can i stop a divorce that has already started if we decided to try again?

Question

i have already started divorce proceedings but my husband wants us to try agin .can i stop the divorce even though its already started

Answer 1

Sure you can! It's like deciding to go back to heaven again while you're driving towards hell. If it is LOVE, don't let it go! Goodluck!

Answer 2

I believe as long as the divorce is not final you can always stop it. Just keep in mind that you will not get any money back for the lawyer you spent money on. But, if you love him and are willing to try and work it out well, good luck. I wish you all the best. Make sure he's what you want, before you decide. Divorce is not cheap.

Answer 3

You may feel really angry right now because in your eyes your father has torn your world apart and looks selfish. While I don't excuse affairs happening, he left your mum because they were unhappy. If you sat down with your mum she would probably admit that to you too. He left because there was something lacking in the relationship with your mum and he no doubt knew it was something that he would never get back staying where he was. I understand divorce is hard and some kids don't take it well, but one of the best lessons you can learn is that by setting one free you are giving them the opportunity to a real happiness. If they had of stayed together it may have lead to affairs, to nasty regular spats, unbalanced family life and you in the end would feel all of it and possibly end up very sad yourself. So you see as upsetting as it is your Dad may have done both him and your mum a favor by moving on. He has given your mum the chance to find happiness with someone else and he too has found that thing he was lacking in another person. I know you are thinking you don't care and don't need to know this but you really do if you want to forgive and move on. If you love doing pageants that much and it has been a big part of your life, you should try to repair the relationship with your father. Not just because he is using it as bribery and you are using him to get what you want. But because it can be a starting point in you both learning to bond again. Dancing was your next best option not your passion. Take this point in your life to show how mature you are and repair things before it is too late and you wind up losing a father and never getting the chance to know him until it's on his death bed.

Answer 4

Yes

Answer 5

Yes, consult your solicitor and tell him/her. It might be a good idea to seek some advice together at relate so that you can try to repair your marriage and find ways of moving on- you don't want all the old problems to raise their ugly little heads in no time at all. Good Luck!

Answer 6

yes, just be totally sure that it is what you want not just your husband, he may have realized what it is going to cost him, some lawyers advise them to try and work it out, especially in the cases of adultery, because if you take them back even for just a few days, you can no longer use the same evidence for a divorce, so be sure.

Answer 7

Have aone year stipulation. If it fails then you are no worse off, but hopefully, with a little marriage counseling you 2 will work things out. It takes self honesty and being honest to one another no matter how it hurts and the willingness to change on both your parts to make it work.

Answer 8

Yes. My husband and I were a week away from ours and decided to try it again.

Answer 9

Yes you can and I did. You just file a motion to dismiss the case with the court house. You might want to leave the case open for a while like I did to make sure it will work.

Answer 10

If your spouse says "I have fallen out of love with you" don't panic. It doesn't mean your marriage is over. It doesn't even mean they don't love you. How to get your spouse to love you again https://tr.im/qtIhg

What it does mean is that your spouse has lost their way, or doesn't understand the many stages love and a relationship goes through.

You are being called to take charge of the situation, guide your spouse towards understanding this process, and even begin to rekindle your relationship.

The key to success is in understanding what is happening in your marriage and the role that love plays. It's very easy for us to connect losing the feelings of being in love with actual loving when it is not really the case.