OFCOURSE, i understand he has to be sweet, nice guy, treats you right, good personality...etc.
but as an attribute does money add to the whole package?
2007-06-13 11:40:24 · 14 answers · asked by varsfootball44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No money doesn't make a man attractive at all. Money is nice to have but for me what makes a man attractive is honesty and faithfulness.
2007-06-13 14:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It can make a guy more attractive, to the eye and to the mind. But the reality of it is money cannot buy happiness. It cannot replace anything. It should not be the foundation of any relationship. Because what if you start dating or marry this guy because of his status or how much money he has, and he becomes ill or loses that high paying job ... what then? Are you going to kick him to the curb because he's not what he was when you met him? I personally like a man that has a good personality. Someone that is nice and can treat me like a lady. Someone who adores me and loves me unconditionally.
2007-06-13 19:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some of us, who have been through really hard times, it might make all the difference, it's like an added bonus, but cannot be the focus of the relationship. It's best to be independent regardless of your partner financial situation, because whenever you put your well being in someone else hands, no matter how great they are, the relationship can turn into dictatorship very fast, as in the Golden Rule: He with the Gold, Rules.
2007-06-13 18:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Money is nice and adds, but as long as you make the same as the female you should be fine. People seem to be attracted to others with the same attributes.
Girls like attention and men express it better with money than words :)
2007-06-13 18:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by loverofmickeymouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it does. Not necessarily money per se, but the overall stability, financial responsibility and ability to make good decisions - which often results in having money around.
2007-06-13 18:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll just say this: Money doesn't buy happiness, but I'm a whole lot happier when I have money.
But the most important to me personality, and respect.
2007-06-13 18:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Impavidsoul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother is a multi millionaire. & I can honesly tell you he is lonley. He can't keep a woman. But he is also very anal. He has had some wonderful ladys in his life & they all left him. Money does not buy happiness!!
2007-06-13 18:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by the_kikione 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, especially if it is not your 1st marriage, if you are older you want someone who is going to be good to you and able to support you, love at 1st sight is not as important the second time around, I don't think.
2007-06-13 20:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by tannerlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does. And don't let anyone lie to you and say it doesn't. Women want someone who can protect them. Money is part of that security.
2007-06-13 18:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by jaclynridge 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
if he's a good guy who happens to have money then it's a plus but he doesn't have to have it.
2007-06-13 18:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋