She wanted to voice her concern about my mental state.Depression,grief etc. I felt like i was talking to Dr. Laura. Why would she do this.I know she doesn't give a dam anymore me anymore.She really doesn't.She told me she can never come back o me.I already knew that when she filed for divorce.She says she cares about me but its time to move on.Im trying ! but when ever she calls me it jerks me right back to all my feelings for her.She says this is the last time we will ever talk and then a week later she calls and it starts all over.She has my phone number,i don't want to change it.I don't have her number because she changed it and doesn't want me to call her.She calls from her work.And she has screened the calls when i had in the past.Its like a one way street with her.Why does she jek me around like this,its not fair.I guess i just stop answering my phone all together /
2007-06-13 12:49:42 · 6 answers · asked by Rodger M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She's mean!
Call your telephone company..they have a service called "call blocking". It can block her work number and her telephone number...I think up to 6 numbers. I don't know about where you live, but here it can't block cell phone call (yet).
If she's calling from a cell phone, then also get an answering machine and do not answer when her number comes across. She is not doing this out of the goodness of her heart. Unless you want to continue to be tormented by her, then you need to take these steps.
She not only divorced you but she's making sure you continue to suffer. She is NOT a nice person.
2007-06-13 13:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by LAL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One other reason why the ex stays in contact is because its their way of checking on you to see how your life is going and whether it has improved or gotten worse and as to whether she made the right decision in leaving you. Jealousy is a very ugly thing therefore if your life had improved greatly, she probably would of found a way to come back into your life. You need to either change your phone number or hang up when she calls. Cheers and good luck
2007-06-13 13:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple.....this is not about you but about her. The reason she calls you is because she feels bad for leaving you alone and miserable, when she calls you it`s to make herself feel better for doing something nice to you...not because she is concern about you! ( I know I did the same to my ex ) I felt so bad for leaving him I would of given him anything (and I did) Anyway the best thing to do is to tell her you do not want her to call you again because it interferes with your 'recovery' and you are more then capable to take care of yourself. If you must change your phone number. One more thing, do not think she does that because she still has 'love' feelings for you, she does that because she has 'pity' for you.
2007-06-13 12:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get and answering machine and never call her back. She is trying to control you.
2007-06-13 12:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by TillieDillie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
get an answering machine or caller id to monitor your calls.
2007-06-13 12:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by tannerlady 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have answered your own question... be strong, be patient... all will pass...
2007-06-13 12:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by ogg08 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋