I am an Indian girl. My parents are looking for a suitablealliance. How should I prepare myself for my mariage

Question

Pre requisites for wedding.....

Answer 1

Your parents have not yet found the perfect match for you. So what are you worried about, so early? Marriage needs no special preparations. I suppose everything regarding the wedding ceremony and expenses thereof would be taken care of by your parents.
You can pick up tips on how to develop a loving relationship with your in-laws, what are the normal expectations of parents-in-law from their daughter-in-law etc. That is essentially personnel management practised at home.
You can also educate yourself on how to be adorable to your husband always, the usual things that turn a husband off etc. Needless to say that also includes the art of male seduction.
You must be tutored in the art of cooking and house keeping if you are still ignorant of such things. The stomach is not only the way to your husband's heart but your in-laws' hearts too.
Finally, Indian women traditionally don't have pre-marital sex. The thought of sex on the first night after marriage scares a lot of women and makes them nervous. You can try and learn as much about the art of sex (theoretically of course) as possible. That would not only make you more confident about sex but also make it more enjoyable for you. Remember that good sex with your husband will keep your marital relationship alive forever.

Answer 2

Hi ,
This is the only field in the world which nobody want any experience !!.
However apart from sex you need to do some thing for better married life .
Apart from Horoscope check the blood group ( This is to eliminate the +,- group complications and possible chances of HIV )
Try to learn base level of cooking since Indian always like homely meals .
Be economically independent and prepare yourself to withstand at any circumstances.
Keep yourself always happy and do some exercises (regularly) which is missing for most of the Indian Girls .
Don't worry about dating and love marriage . The success rate of Indian Marriage is still on the top and many couples are living for more than 50+ years
With Love

Answer 3

Okay - I am Pakistani so fully understand arranged marriage etc. So basically take some UBTAN and apply liberally over body for a couple of days - should clear up any spots etc. If you can't fnd ubtan, then mix turmeric and milk together.
To get rid of undereye circles -apply 1/2 a potato under eye everyday. For dark elbows, underarms and knees etc, use lemon juice - every night. Until darkness clears.
Next thing is hair: wash with COFFEE BEANS MIXED WITH yoghurt, and left to soak - or water, and apply, Hair should come out a nice chocolatey brown - looks good anyway.
Don't bite your nails.
To remove hair - permanantely - take besan and milk, make a paste and apply to hair. Let dry and rub off - do many times - growth of hair will stunt - and they probably won't come back.
Use rose petal powder for more pink lips.

That's probably it for the body.

For the mind: take a facial, and RELAX - no tension. Get to bed at the right TIME. Don't let relatives keep you up. You need the sleep unless you want to look like a hag ! ! !
Read a book or two.
Make sure you know how to cook SOMETHING - unless you want ke tumhaareee saas tumhaarey saath burra salook karey - YE hota hai.
Yeah so make sure ke saas ko annoy na karo. Keep smiling.
Han, pata to hoga ke humaarey (INDIAN AND PAKISTANI) kaisee baatein banaate hain - to shadi ke din aankhein JHUKAA ke rakhna - taakey SHARMEELEE dulhan lago.
By the way these tips only work on Pakistani and Indian skin - sorry guys


Last thing - PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE - try to marry when you are IN LOVE - COMPLETE SOUL GIVING LOVE - any other way is NOT worth it - trust me being in love is GREAT - especially when you CANNOT have sex with each other - coz of religion - it makes the love even STRONGER

Have a good marriage

Answer 4

MR, I surely disagree with my personal experience. I am an NRI, but my case is different as I moved to USA after getting married in India, but I have 100s of Indian friends in USA, UK, Australia, Singapore and Middle East. May be few somewhere else also but can't remember at this moment. I have not heard a single case such that where I see an abnormal fight like that does not happen in Indian families in India. What happens is, the media people take one or two cases and blow them out of proportion, thus we have to be very careful with these media reports.

Answer 5

The legal pre requisites for weddings I can tell which are followed by most of the religious as well civil marriage forms. These are age of bride should be at least 18 years & that of the bride groom at least 21 years, both should be unmarried or divorcee or widow or widower as the case may be, both should be mentally fit & should not be suffering from any mental dis-order, both should not be in relationship with each other under the degree of prohibition degrees i.e. they should not be either related to certain degrees by blood or uterine relationship. These are the main legal requirements you should know, rest it is always better to have both the partners getting their blood checked for any sexually transmitting diseases such as HIV or AIDS this can promise a safe matrimonial alliance from health point of view.

Answer 6

I don't know or really understand how your culture works, but it seems a great loss to me to have to marry for anything except love... But all I can say is respect each other, love will come over time and Good luck! I hope the husband they choose is at least good looking!

Answer 7

Save some money for your honeymoon.Take beauty treatment so that you look prettier.Develop confidence because you shall be moving to a new family.

Answer 8

prepare yourself by asking lots of questions, so you know what type of person he is. Ask him question that will affect your marriage later for example: does he like kids? is he a healty taking care of his body type of guy or a pig!

Answer 9

Many arranged marriages are very happy. Pray for guidance and have patience.

Answer 10

if u r ready to except what they think is the best, then no preparations needed.