Please be honest and please only serious answers.
2007-06-13 18:02:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't assume a bisexual man would be any more likely to cheat on me than a straight man so as long as he was committed to the relationship and wasn't looking to use his sexuality as an excuse to step outside our marriage I'd be fine. I wouldn't want any more details about his past relationships than I would ask from a straight partner and I would still expect us both to get tested for STDs and the like before we got married.
2007-06-13 18:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to answer a resounding "yes". The details of that answer depend on what the future man and wife in question have in mind as far as what a stable, healthy marriage relationship would look like with one or both spouse's bisexuality involved. Be sure to be thorough in this and pull no punches. The future of a marriage relationship is at stake!
There are many, many monogamous bisexual married couples, and they tend to enjoy their monogamy because they understand each other on the level of being bisexual. To bisexuals, I would warn against marrying a straight person for this reason: A straight person may one day use your bisexuality as an excuse to accuse you even if you are 100% faithful. This isn't to say that all straight people are like this, but it is common. Be careful of any red flags regarding your orientation.
This doesn't mean that bisexuals should hide thier orientation. A marriage relationship without honesty is doomed to failure. Be certain to find someone who accepts you for who you are.
2007-06-13 18:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a bisexual woman could find a bisexual man suitable easier than a straight woman could.
But I think the most important thing is that the man is upfront and honest about his sexuality.
A bisexual husband would be better than a cheating straight one, I think.
2007-06-13 18:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in complete monogamy in marriage so his sexuality is a moot point. I am bisexual, but if I fell in love with a man and committed my life to him, I would never look at anyone, male or female again and I would expect the same of my future spouse. My sexuality doesn't matter, and neither does his.
2007-06-13 18:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think it would cause problems down the road. What if the man starts wanting to be with men again, where does that leave the wife? I think the wife would always wonder in the back of her mind if he was fantasizing about men or whatever. I'm sure some women wouldn't mind, but I need something more concrete.
2007-06-13 18:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by TwyztedChyck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because what if he fairly is not basically bisexual, yet completely gay. when you marry and function 2 astounding toddlers, he comes to a decision that he ought to be with a guy. (which i guess in case you imagine of isn't any different than a guy leaving his spouse for yet another women human beings) Oh! Sorry theory i might want to help, now i'm perplexed!!!!!!!!
2016-11-23 19:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by mento 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm male, but I'm answering anyway.
In a word, no. A marriage to a bisexual is doomed.
Why do you wish to restrict your answer only to women? You might get a more accurate response if you asked divorced bisexual males, and their ex-wives, for their opinions.
2007-06-13 18:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by Pagan Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on the man, but I'm leaning toward no. I think it would be too hard for me to connect with someone that I really didn't understand.
2007-06-13 18:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I would not be willing to share my husband with anyone - gay or straight. Not only because of sexually transmitted diseases - but also because I have intimacy issues. I want whomever I am married to be committed to me and only me.
2007-06-13 18:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that is hard. not only do we get jealous when you look at other women, try doubling that! haha! if he is seriously commited yes, but be prepared if he has any sexual urges. maybe he married a sexually open woman?!
2007-06-13 18:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by tmcblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋