Do you think that if your husband....................................?

Question

was given the opportunity to cheat, do you think he would?

Also,

have you ever tested him?

Those of you that said you wouldn't test him , think of it this way,

what if he works around a lot of women and they start making moves on him, wouldn't you want to know if he takes the bait?

Answer 1

There is suppose to be a thing called TRUST. If you are testing you husband then there is none. I believe my husband wouldn't cheat. I trust him. I would never test him. To get trust you must give trust. If there is a co-worker making their moves on your man then you have to trust that he loves you enough not to take the advances. If he does cheat then you move on. Testing him is only going to prove your insecurities and push him away.

Answer 2

I'm a male and although i was nevertested by my wife,I managed a restuarant/ night club,the sex would have been very easy and often I would shake in my boots,but I made a commitment and I would and did follow through.
Often people think of how were going to be violated,we dont find grattitude.
Any way we ended up getting a divorceafter 13 yrs ofmarriage.AND I SO BADLY WANT GET BACKIN TIME AND GO FOR IT. lol.Actually I'm proud that i was committed to a value.

Answer 3

No, I dont think that he would. My best friend lived with us when we first moved in together, and he had opportunity but nothing ever happened. I worry about a lot of things, but cheating hubby isn't one of them. Good Question though!!

Answer 4

If we pay close attention, are smart, and listen well all the time to the person we have married, we don't need testing to answer this question, because we already know who they are.

If, by chance, we have married a person of usually fine character who makes a mistake in judgment, they will come to us and tell us of their mistake.

If you marry anyone who doesn't fall into the above category, then you have married someone who isn't ready for marriage, because they don't understand the basics.

Answer 5

sadly cheaters...men or women rely on their spouses trust to make an affair work. Because a spouse who trusts completely...or as I like to say blindly, never suspects or thinks their spouse would cheat...thus enabling the cheater to continue playing their game. So I trust....but only so far, if my husband steps out of his routine or if I come accross information that he lies about of gets confrontational about...trust starts to break down fast. In other words I am always aware that there is temptation out there, and sometimes the most trusted person fails to resist.

Answer 6

You are a real sadist, just put yourself in that postion as what you have asked others to do, like you were surrounded by all men and some handsome man makes a move towards you and you end up in an extra marital affair......... in that case what would you do?? simply hide this from your hubby ???
Right

Answer 7

I don't think anyone should TEST thier husband. You help him avoid temptation not lead him to it.
And I don't know if he would or wouldn't.
I can say, if he ever did cheat and I found out......OH BOY would he get an earfull before I made him pack and leave.LOL

Answer 8

I think most men would, but testing them is ridiculous. If he passes, you'll never know if it's because the girl wasn't his type or he just wasn't feeling like doing it at the time. If he fails, YOU are the one who has doomed the relationship. Tests should be left in school. It's dirty, deceitful, and immature.

Answer 9

no he wouldn't, most know that it isn't worth it. I don't believe in testing.
If you still believe that you'd need to test him, it means you don't trust him and probably shouldn't be with him then. You are going to make yourself sick if you worry about him cheating because he's around women all day.

Answer 10

No- mine would not. He has done that when he was younger- in another relationship and he said it was a horrible situation.
I work very hard to make sure that he is happy at home- that is all you can do.