in addition to my previous Question .i have decided to leave him, even my parents also agree with my decision but ask me to wait.my husband and i applied to migrate to the west. according to my parents, i should wait so i can go that country were my sister also resides. mum says after the divorce atleast you and your sister will be together. plus you will have a better opportunity to move on with out the eventual societys mud slinging. i live in the gulf at the moment and i know the society here is very closed and look at a divorced woman very unkindly. i know i will face the same problem if i return to my native land. i have been living in the gulf since i was born. i cant find the strenght to return to my homeland and start afresh. my parents are old and worry about the time wen they would have passed on. that is why they want me to put up with my husband till the time i reach america. they say atleast you have a fighting chance over ther to start your life afresh
2007-06-13 22:49:32 · 3 answers · asked by chaos_infinity1982 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hi there sweetheart that is a brave decicion to come to and im not clued up on youre home land that well but i see youre point that we females do get a real hard time there ,look if you can stick it out til you get to america then i would do the same thing ,knowing that you will soon be free from him and getting ready to move on with youre life and starting afresh .......sweetheart i wish you all the happiness and find what youre looking for freedom and peace of mind .....good luck and take care xx
2007-06-13 23:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever makes you happy, dont listen to other peoples opinions - you will know what the right thing to do in your heart is
2007-06-13 22:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by josietheninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are so unhappy don't wait
2007-06-17 22:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋