I woke up this morning, and my husband wanted eggs. There were dishes in the sink from dessert last night, and I flipped and threw all the dishes out in the yard. Is this normal?
2007-06-09 02:49:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, no, not exactly. Listen Michele, we all react at times inappropriately as you did here. Things start to stack on our nerves, then as the old saying goes the final straw on the camels back makes us react without thinking. I would love to tell you that you have every right to throw plates. But, you already feel bad about it so we both know it wasn't O.K. However, sit down, relax, think about what happened, laugh at your reaction (I did) and go tell your husband to make his own damn eggs, in fact while he's doing it, make you an omelet! Then when he's done he can wash the dishes! Your on strike till 2pm! lol Time for a bubble bath!
2007-06-09 03:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not exactly normal.
It sounds as though something else has you really stressed out. I'm guessing it's not the dishes or the eggs.
Take a few minutes for yourself. Think about what the problem really is. Then talk to your husband about it.
Also, you are going to have to clean the mess in the yard. I'm sure you have enough to do without creating more work for yourself. Next time, you may want to consider taking your frustrations out on a pillow.
2007-06-09 03:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no, this is not normal to throw dishes in the front yard.
As far as getting frustrated, of course, that is normal.
It is just how you DEAL with the frustration that is key. If this is a recurring issue with you, meaning that you are constantly overreacting, maybe you should talk to your doc about anger management. There are many avenues available today that can help. Some people benefit from medication, others benefit from therapy.
But, if this is an ongoing thing, please seek help. Especially if you have children or intend to have children. You do not want them to think this is appropriate behavior or the right way to deal with frustration.
Good luck!
2007-06-09 03:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! First of all, it isn't the end of the world if the dishes don't get washed. I have been known to break some dishes as well. Stuff that irks me is they will put a bowl with spaghetti in it, inside of my dish water. It makes me sick. I can't stand someone telling me what to do. It is my house, I do it at my own pace. That is the main thing that upsets me. I don't like dishes dirty overnight bc it causes bugs but I am not washing every dish they decide to dirty. So, I keep plastic plates and utensils. I dont like styrofoam-the enviroment, but they are worth it.
2007-06-09 03:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal? no...can we say Psycho? Yes I agree with people here and think he should help out around the house but my question to you is this: Are you a stay at home mom or do you work a career? Why did you toss the dishes out in the yard? Do you consider the yard his responsibility? Do you help him with chores that are supposed to be classified as a mans job? I mean taking the garbage out,checking the oil in the car,fixing the electric socket in the living room because it needs replaced,mowing the lawn on a 95 degree and humid day.All this could lead up to why he neglected to clean the dessert dishes up.You are seeking answers here but adding very little details to help us.
2007-06-09 03:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by thejrzdevil 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is kinda weird. Were you mad that noone had done the dishes? Does this happen often where things only get done if you do them? Then it is kindof normal . . .but it still made a big mess in the yard that you are eventually gonna have to clean up. . .
2007-06-09 02:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by picns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am almost certain that all of us have dealt with stress and have felt like throwing the dishes in the yard. However, not something I would have done. Makes more work for you. Hope it gets better. God bless****
2007-06-09 03:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people do. Life is about changes and challenges. Sometimes you're up sometimes not. If you were up and happy all the time, you'd probably end up getting committed to some kind of institution by your friends and/or family.
If you really want to be happy, get a divorce and NEVER marry again. I've been separated from mine for over 3 years and I'm the happiest I've ever been in life.
2007-06-09 02:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's why I eat off paper plates. I think every one experiences stuff like this from time to time. But look on the bright side, it could be worse, could have been the hubby you threw out in the yard
2007-06-09 02:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by glbenner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, for me, it actaully relies upon on what else occurs. case in point, ur at school, u have been given an A on a quiz, even the on a daily basis ordinary is the same, yet that A actaully makes u happy. so yeah, verify it gradual table, see whilst do u have time, call some acquaintances to observe a action picture or something. Plus, attempt to locate issues it is exciting customary, issues won't take place precisely the same, it is impossible, customary has issues which will make u happy or unhappy. i in my opinion particularly desire it facilitates, stable success :)
2016-11-27 19:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋