What are some good conversation starters so I won't cross the line?

Question

I Asked:

I just started dating this girl. She told me she is a very private person, and it takes a while to open up. She told me to try, and if anything I ask takes her to an uncomfortable place she would let me know that she did not want to talk about it.

The Answer I Got:

Give her some time to learn to trust you. Some people have emotional baggage that they may be having trouble getting rid of, and they'll talk about it when they are ready. Don't force the issue.

My Question:

What are some good conversation starters so I won't cross the line or make her feel uncomfortable?

Answer 1

She sounds like she's either way too uptight, not that in to you, or more trouble than she is worth.

1. Has any book had a major impact on you?

2. What was the best bargain you ever found?

3. What’s the most annoying thing one to do on a first date?

4. What's the most unusual thing you know how to do?

5. Is there anything you can’t say "no" to?

6. What food could they not pay you enough to eat?

7. Who are your cult heroes? Why?

8. What was the craziest thing you en you were a kid?

9. If you could have any job in the world, what would it be?

10. What would be the title of your biography?

Answer 2

try to find something that make her talk. if you talk about the weather ask her why she likes the winter and let her talk. so in that way she is going to realize you are a good listener and she will feel comfy with you. just make everything slow
good luck

Answer 3

Start off the conversation talking about cats or dogs....everyone loves a pet.

Answer 4

movies, music, school, work, the usual. try politics if you want to bump it up a notch, but be careful because she might not have the same views and it could get an arguement going.

Answer 5

The point is not to make her feel uncomfortable, but to make her feel comfortable enough to answer.

Answer 6

Your question has nothing to do with marriage & divorce.