hi, ok heres the deal.. i met this guy at work about 2 months ago, we strated out as friends and took smoke breaks and lunch together. i have abf he knows and we are not getting along and heknows that i would break uo with my bf basically for him i told him i wish my bf was like him. so i hadnt had sex in a long time with my bf of 5 years so i told this guy i wanted to have sex with him just for fun and he agreed. we did it a few times and then he went on vacation. before he went to vacatio he alway said all thses sweet thingsa to me like im beautiful and he wants me to come over to his hot tub and that he doesnt want to leave me when he went on vacation. he bought me a bracelet on vacation and called me every day. when he came back we had sex but then he strated like ditchning me for lunch and we made plans for me to come over before work but i had to sneak bc i was still with my bf then he ditched me. he knowds thing r complicated with my bf but he knows i am going to dump him
2007-06-08 12:57:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He might like you, but look how easy you've made it for him to sleep with you. You only knew him for two months and cheated on your boyfriend to have sex "for fun." I'm not a guy, but I certainly wouldn't feel any need to win your affection because the deed has already been done. How can you expect him to respect you as a person after your actions? I'd have a hard time trusting someone like that. How would he know if you really liked him or just wanted a roll in the hay? He may very well be asking the same question about you or wondering if he's just another notch in your belt.
You need to talk to him about his feelings because I wouldn't be surprised if he just sees you as "easy."
2007-06-08 13:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kathryn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he ditched you because he know your not going to leave your boyfriend. If you are serious about this guy then you would have broken up with your boyfriend a long time ago. Hopefully your current boyfriend doesn't find out, and you are left all alone. Your not being fair to either of them, and your not being truly honest with yourself
2007-06-08 13:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably both, but only for sex; then again, what did you expect, you are the one who suggested sex to him, "just for fun" ... so you have exactly what you asked for ... don't try to change the rules now, because he will be gone for sure, but then again, maybe that's the best idea yet.
2007-06-08 13:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be ditching you because of his conscience. Who knows what he talked about and to whom on his vacation. Maybe someone told him that even though you are going to break up with your bf, its still not cool to do that to someone. He may be feeling guilty.
2007-06-08 13:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sex
2007-06-08 13:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only wants sex
2007-06-08 13:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take sex out of the equation and see what he does.
2007-06-08 13:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by allenbmeangene 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is tha DEAL here? You are cheating your BF and having sex... now asking "this guy" likes me or just want to sleep with you!!!!!!!! You are sleeping with him....... do you think "this guy" fool? you cheated you BF, and you CAN cheat "this guy" soon"
2007-06-08 13:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have waited until you were no longer with your boyfriend. You just proved to both men you are not to be trusted.
2007-06-08 13:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex
2007-06-08 13:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋