Money?. housekeeping"? who cooks ?????In laws?
2007-06-08 13:11:26 · 17 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
money is a big one but it all comes back to lack of communication and compromise.
2007-06-08 13:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by TTerrell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Money
2. In Laws
3. Housekeeping
2007-06-08 20:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by oops ok! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't do your homework before living together or getting married, the issues will always be the same. You need to discuss all the issues you mentioned and then some before embarking on a relationship you think is supposed to last. Waiting until after the fact and thinking these things will just somehow work out because you are "in love" is juvenile and ludicrous. Keep two important things in mind....honesty and open conversation.
2007-06-08 20:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people cause fights not money, cooking or whatever.
money is useually the base of a fight but before you get to that point think about what your going to get out of it? fighting over money doesn't make it appear in your pocket all you get is a silence treatment, restless night of sleep and in the morning your still broke. same with cleaning, and cooking, after fighting over it neither of you have the engery to do it and well the in laws are there till they die so suck it up and learn to like them. I don't always get a long with my in laws but their my husbands family and because i love him i RESPECT them. wether your married or living together a relationship is give n take. even if you win the fight and he cooks supper and cleans up the mess in the end if the marriage doesn't work out what did you win?
2007-06-08 20:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going to have to say money-living together. Only because it can get stressfull with all the bills and stuff. But not in every relationship. My bf and i never fight. We do disagree but never fight. But i think it's because we were brought up in not the richest families so you kearn to live with what you got. My bf also answered this question. he said: in laws-for both married and living together. Bc not everybody(parents) agree on the person your with. And instead of letting you live your life. some will try and live it for you. Hope it helps.
2007-06-08 20:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kristen P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money. Everything.
You just have to get used to each other, and just go with it. It gets better.
My husband and I lived together for a year before we married.
2007-06-08 20:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by Done 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Used to be the kids. And housework. We never fought over money.
But that was a long time ago. The last argument my husband and I had was four years ago.
2007-06-08 22:08:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe debt causes strife between husband and wife on the most part, along with poor communication and bad sex life.
2007-06-09 11:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money then in-laws. Those are BIG issues.
2007-06-08 20:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by Lila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
money and my crazy azz in-laws
2007-06-08 20:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋