2007-06-08 17:20:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am currently going through a divorce, but I don't feel bitter or hurt. I feel more in touch with myself lately. There are things I'm focusing on now that I couldn't seem to get around to when I was with my ex. Get to know yourself and start enjoying the company of others. You learn a lot about yourself when you're single and you'll begin to realize a lot about the marriage you thought you couldn't do without. Its important for you to know that if you loved once, then you'll love again. Life's too short to hold on to such negative feelings. Once you release yourself from these emotions, you'll begin to feel free and open and self-assured again.
2007-06-08 17:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by verjentho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what all happened to result in divorce but you deserve happiness. You need to let go of the past and prepare for a great future. Learn from your past and look forward to meeting new people and having fun.
Don't hold onto the anger, hurt and bitterness cause while your at home dealing with that your X is probably out having a ball.
Maybe counseling will help you to deal with the divorce as well.
Best of Luck
2007-06-09 00:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Chipmunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider focusing on the here and now and the future.
Consider expanding your horizons, learn a new trade, a new skill, or a new sport/hobby. If you are busy taking care of the present and future you will not have time for the past.
If you still are having problems six months after the divorce, consider seeking out a therapist. Everyone in their life at some time will need the help of a mental therapist(no necessary a long period to time--sometimes a few sessions can help one get on track)
2007-06-09 00:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by oldcorps1947 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an epiphony and was able to forgive everything I was mad about. But it will just take getting on with life. Do something and meet someone.
2007-06-09 03:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with any relationship that end, it will take time to heal all the
wounds and feeling with a divorce. but as time go on it will
get better. just take one day at a time.
2007-06-09 00:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time doing things you want to do, indulge in new hobbies and improve yourself. In time, you will find the past is the past and you will be ready to move on. Keep busy!
2007-06-09 00:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what bitterness, what hurt
i wasa free and liberated man and moved on
there is no use in lingering suffering over a failed marriage
if anything you are thankful for any insights you gain from it
2007-06-09 00:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time just time.
2007-06-09 01:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You meet someone new.
2007-06-09 00:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋