all the trust...then i thought that is what we should have in freidnship?i tired of this and do you i should trust no one anymore?is this normal when people break our trust?what do i gain from this lesson?shoul di not friend that person?ignore?isnt that bad?
2007-06-08 21:31:17 · 5 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You make a good friend, let us hope you will always remain just the way you are.
To trust is to risk. Risk trust.
Yes you will be hurt and betrayed, and used and abused, but my friend it is never always, and when oneday you find a friend, you will know him. And it will be a True friendship
2007-06-10 04:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can totally relate with you honey, cause there are times when people we trust do break our trust. I'm not gonna lie i believe that i too sometimes have broken someones trust and it hurts because I'm hurting the person I love because I can't control myself. But I've managed a way to sort it out. I talked with them and managed to make a solution. When our trust is broken throught friendship it is very hard to get back once it's lost, but I do think it happens to everyone. But you sound like this isn't like a 1 or 3 times thing, that it happens a lot. I'm really sorry that it happens to you. But I would either sugget to ignore them or upfront them about your thoughts and feelings on this situation. Don't give up hope. I don't think it's a good idea that you stop trusting people because not everyone's the same. I think it is normal but not when it happens a lot. Trust is a very delicate area and no-body's perfect. Don't worry about it too much, just ignore them. I would pick and choose the people I trust and the people i don't and stick with the ones that i do trust. I think from this you could learn that trust is something that you should becareful with because it can stab you in the back. I would look at this lesson and learnt who not to trust. Religiously speaking I would say it's a form of karma, that this is happening. (What goes around, comes around). I think you should talk to the people that break your trust and find out a way to resovle this. Good luck from teh bottom of my heart.
2007-06-09 15:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really unfortunate that someone has broken your trust but the fact is everyone is not the same. The only thing I can tell you i sthat dont have blind faith on anyone, that will heart you a lot.
Wishing you all the best to find a true friend
2007-06-09 04:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by Upal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to my world, I've learned now not to trust anyone, and I really do care what others think I've been hurt way to many times, so I keep everyone at a distance.
2007-06-09 09:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore
2007-06-09 04:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋