So lonely? For real, have you ever been so alone?
2007-06-08 18:01:09 · 14 answers · asked by jacah5 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All the time & I hate it! I think it should be illegal for husbands and wives to ever feel lonley!
2007-06-08 18:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by ChrZay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes I've felt lonely before. It's different than being alone. Solitude is something I enjoy. I cannot stand to be around anyone all the time. I think loneliness must have a deeper root than just being alone. Perhaps it's depression or some other stress in your life that you feel no one can relate to. I suggest you get out there and try again. Don't be afraid to seek professional help either.
2007-06-09 01:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do !
Everything I stand up for right and principle
Everytime I speak up declaring the Truth that hurts the hearer's conscience, I am made to look "wrong" for seeing what's is wrong with them. Majority are not always right. In fact, it's almost the opposite.
Everytime the majority cannot have their ways with me -they pull out the rugged beneath my feet and give me the "cold shoulders" treatment or withdrawal of approval by group pressure.
I can go on and on, but What the heck it's such a great and wonderful feeling and joy to be standing on God's side and feel free from the bondage of men. When you can be free to be your self without malice and ill-feeling towards anyone, but just act spontaneously in the moment - you are going to be truly happy and lonely at the same time as I don't seem to find many sharing this life-style apart from my wife who understood this thing as I.
2007-06-09 01:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you are so lonely is probably because the person you used to confide in and you have drifted apart, possibly due to one of you moving or who knows what. It is a lonely feeling not to have anyone to just feel completely in tune with and know whatever you say will go no further, nor be used against you.
2007-06-09 01:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's 1 of the worst feelings in the world :-( Sounds really bad but sometimes I'm more lonely (alone) when my husband is here than when he is away. Hope u feel better soon :-)
2007-06-09 07:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by maidmaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got to surrownd ur self with people and if u give it time u will find some one that will make u feel not alone eney more! i had a feeling that my mom was alone untill she found her now husband she married about 3 weeks ago and i am so happy for her b/c he is a wonderful man and i think that he was the best thing for her and my mom is 38 now! and for my moms new husband he may of felt lonly to but they found love and never are alone... trust me look at our cell fone bill lol!
2007-06-09 01:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have felt so very alone before. But, If you are a Christian Like I am. You are never truly alone. For God is always there with you, feeling the same pain as you. I will pray for you, that you may find happiness through God. Read your Bible. God says "I will NEVER leave nor forsake you" What a wonderful promise!!
May God bless you in all that you do and may he work in life to help you find true happiness.
2007-06-09 01:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What exactly are you talking about? Are you in a bad marriage, are you divorced, what is your situation?
You sound like you are depressed. Please reach out for counseling. Volunteer somewhere. I can't give you more info since I don't know more about why you feel lonely.
2007-06-09 01:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm away from my wife and kids for about 12-15 hours a day.. I feel your pain =(
2007-06-09 01:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by omfgorzorz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well actually you are never alone. God is always with you. He has never left you nor has he forsaken you. He just wants you to put all your trust and faith in Him, and he will bless you with everything you have ever needed. He is GREAT. I have tried God for myself. If it is love you are looking for Jesus is love. Come to him and all your problem will be resolved. You will so peaceful.
"But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us, Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved)"............ Ephesians 2: 4 and 5
"The Lord hath appeared of old unto me, saying, Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee."...........Jeremiah 31:3
God bless you.
2007-06-09 01:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Joy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋