If you broke up with your boyfriend and moved out of his house and got back together 3 mo later and now currently married would you tell him everything that happened while you are gone.
2007-05-31 13:10:46 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No... if you weren't with him, why hurt him... It will only torment him... If you are with him now, just be loyal... Good Luck
2007-05-31 13:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Oula 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oooo that is a tough question. I think I would. Honestly is the best policy. Keeping secrets from someone can be burdensome. If the secret involves the person directly (e.g. I slept with your brother etc) then it may not be wise... then again, it may be found out later and come back to haunt you.
Its best to become aware of how you feel. Do you feel uncomfortable telling them? Or would you feel worse not too? Do they even want to know?
Good Luck!
2007-05-31 20:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and even if he asks, that means he's insecure about what he thinks might have happened, hence making the argument even worse. You were not together, or so say not exclusive, at the time and so what happened, who you were with, and what you did is irrelevant. Not unless you're pregnant with another man's baby or something! LOL .... leave it in the past. You don't want to hear about what he did any more than he wants to hear what you did!
2007-05-31 20:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Impavidsoul 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think that you two should have had that discussion BEFORE you got married. It might be too late now. However if something that happened then, looks like it might effect you lives together now, then it may have to come out. Otherwise let sleeping dogs lie.
2007-05-31 20:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't together for those months and neither of you have to disclose what the other did while you were apart. All that's going to do is cause tension between you and make things more difficult, just keep it all in the past and focus on your future together.
2007-05-31 20:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi... of course not, you can't tell everything...you can give him a hint about it but no detailes, because it will make him nothing but jealious and worried that you may still remember and those details may come between you two
so the past is past, let it go and live your life, take care of your family and don't think about the past any more
good luck and i wish you happy marriage
2007-05-31 20:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would but at the same time i wouldnt cause since your married it could freally affect your marriage. But if ur girl is one of those that understand s things then yea.
2007-05-31 20:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jayvee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I wouldn't do that right away. As more time goes by, you can feel more comfortable telling your spouse about what you did before you were married.
2007-05-31 20:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by iridealone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on your boyfriend definately. I would take the safe road and say NO. There is always the potential to make him jealous. Just dont say anything but dont lie if he asks you about it.
2007-05-31 20:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by daschund delight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH KAY> heres the situation, Lauren got suspended and she cant have her yahoo answers sensation. She lost all her points and now shes mad, and if youd give her best answer shed be really glad.
durrr no. Id ruin my marriage if I said anything like that.
2007-05-31 20:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, so then he won't keep on asking me what I've been doing and so then we could remain open and close. That's what me and my boyfriend did. planning the wedding right now.
2007-05-31 20:15:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋