I know a girl by the name of Fay who has been dating a married man for some time know. But the man did'nt want his wife to find out about it. ofter Fay have been having sex with the married man for a while he started to drift away from her. He has 2 boys and a girl by his wife. He promise Fay that he will never break her heart because he would'nt want another man to break this daughters hearts. What do you all think??
2007-05-31 15:57:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Selfishness.
2007-05-31 16:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to see how long they can get by with it. And if she (Fay) did not want to get her heart broken, the she should not have started a relationship with this married man. There is no future in it for her....and you all can see, now that he is drifting away, this a really big sign that he no longer wants her, and has probably found another willing weak woman to sleep with. Your friend FAY needs to move on, and find a real man, because this married one is no man. Plus, if the wife does find out about the affair, depending on the laws in your state, the wife may be able to sue your friend for alienation of affection.....and then your friend will be out a pretty good chunk of change. does your friend want to pay this wife money for having sex with her husband?
2007-05-31 23:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, she should stop seeing this man. He is a liar. He cares nothing for his daughter or his sons, or he wouldn't treat their mother this way. Also, if he would cheat on his wife so easily, what makes her think he won't do it to her? Does she really want this type of man in her life? Hopefully she doesn't believe he will leave his wife and marry her. The only way a married man will leave his wife for the mistress, is if the wife finds out or dies.
As for reason why men cheat? There are many. Maybe he bored with his wife. Maybe he is having a mid-life crisis. Maybe his wife doesn't have sex with him. It could be he is looking for attention and does not get it from his wife. Maybe he is just an evil man. The "Maybes" are endless.
2007-05-31 23:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know the reason men or women cheat. I think there are probably lots of reasons. Some people just don't like having sex with one person all the time, I suppose. As for your friend, she should never have gotten involved with a married man, especially one with children. All she is , is a "booty-call", and nothing more. Just because your friend and this man are having sex, doesn't mean the man doesn't love his wife. Your friend needs to do a self-evaluation on herself. Why would you take a chance of destroying someones family? That's really messed up. Tell your friend to get her a single man, and leave this family man to his family.
2007-05-31 23:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by che_rae_gra53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that Fay is just crazy to be dating a married man. Men cheat because it make them thinking that they are a big person the are controlling two lives. And if the woman allow this then he has a Right to brag about it. We as women have to make a man respect us by not allowing him to cheat on his wife. You must find a man that can do the things that a man is supposed to do as the head of your family.
2007-05-31 23:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she's a home wrecker and a sorry excuse for a women. he's just a jerk and an a.. but if you went to know why a man cheats on his wife is because he's selfish, he thinks he god gift to women, he might be going through a mid life Cris too, he doesn't respect his wife, he feel out of love with his wife, and he doesn't went to work out his problems with his wife. if there are problems in the marriage then a guy thinks maybe if he's sees someone else they might be better then my wife and he wouldn't have to work out his problems with her. I think the wife should kick him to the curb and take the kids. she doesn't need him at all. if he loved her he wouldn't have cheated on her. she dissevers better then that. but Fay and the guy will get theirs though. it's called karma what goes around comes around.
2007-05-31 23:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by thydarknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One reason, is that his owe wife doesn't want to have sex with him. He still loves her but that part of the relationship that's missing. It's not a very good reason but it true with a lot of people. I know more girls that cheat on their partners just because the sex isn't in their relationship. weather it's caused be stress, physical or someother reason thats not their fault. On the other hand some guys are just dogs. But sounds like this guy got what he wanted and is leaving.
2007-05-31 23:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by Mackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of reason why married men cheat on their wife, some will say that they're not getting sex from home, some will say that they're having a problem, but mostly the reason why they end up cheating is they want to prove to themselves that they still can attract the opposite sex even though that they're married.
But from my own experience, all I did was asked him why he never showed me the attention, affection, and passion that a wife deserved.........but instead he joined a dating site and found him a married woman who also looking for affection and he gave it to her instead to me..........
2007-06-01 01:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes wrong in cheating and shes wrong in mesing with a married manas for why ask a thousand different ppl and you will get a thousand different answers.but to me if you love someone then you may look at others but that dont mean you will jump in bed with them.on what im fixing to say and yes i myself am a married female,there is more women than men that cheat,unfortunately.and no i have never did it.tell your friend get a life and leave him alone so maybe he and wife can be a family for there kids..
2007-05-31 23:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by mamanana9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married men cheat mostly because they can't get the satisfaction that they want at home. Their wives don't want to give them sex, or do things with them. They feel tired of doing the same thing over and over for years. People change the older they get.
2007-05-31 23:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by Theresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with some one who is married is adultery. If the guy is committing adultery on his wife he has already proved he is a dog. He cannot be trusted, he is a low life. He has no respect for his own wife, he won't have any respect for anyone else he commits adultery with either, probably less respect for them.
2007-05-31 23:03:35 · answer #11 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋