I have gone to the cops...they do nothing. I have gone to the local government...they do nothing. I went to local crime watch...they do nothing.
2007-05-31 14:01:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what is she doing?
2007-05-31 14:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by kc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wife could be beautiful and the best lover to her husband in the world and some men will still take up with a hooker. Some are just philanders or sex addicts and want variety without the attachment. So don't ever let him or anyone else say that you are not taking care of your husband. Some men are just sick in the head and they have to be in order to catch std's and risk their life to a whore!!! To be honest though there would not be prostitution if men did not pay to use them. Cheating is a choice and your husband is more at fault disrespecting you than the hooker. She has no feelings for you or your husband and only cares about the money she get from him. Your husband is the one totally at fault for what he did with the hooker and hurt you. He is the only one guilty here where your marriage is concerned. Prostitutes are everywhere and this bussiness has went on way before we were born. You can't stop it because it 's the higher up officals that probably use them the most. They protect it a lot of the time and turning to them is a joke. The only revenge you can seek out of this would be to divorce your husband! You will never be able to trust him for as long as you live. He isn't worth the fight because he ruined your world as you once knew it. The best thing you can do is to focus on you and take care of yourself and find someone that can be right to you. Thats is honestly the only advice I can give to you. I would have to walk away from my husband still loving him but I could not be in his life anymore. Best wishes and I hope everything works out for you....You deserve much better.
2007-05-31 15:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your husband CHOOSES to use the hooker there is nothing anyone can do. It's not the hooker's fault that your husband CHOOSES to use her services. She is only providing a service, your husband is partaking in that service. Blame him.
2007-05-31 22:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't be having any problems IF your husband wasn't a cheater!
Sounds like you want to punish the wrong person here!
HE should be punished for his actions- not the hooker.
2007-05-31 14:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is your husband paying a hooker? Maybe you need to look at yourself. If you were satisfying him he wouldnt feel the need to pay for it. So, if you want to play the blame game heres how it works, He's to blame first, for cheating, you're to blame secondly for not satisfying his needs, forcing him to get it elsehwere, and the hooker is to blame thirdly. But since she is paid for her services, she really isnt to blame at all. She is doing her job at YOUR HUSBANDS request. She dont care about your husband and likely doesnt even care about the sex, she cares about his money. So, you need to remove her from the equation all together and focus on you and your husband.
2007-05-31 14:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't you be more concerned about saving your marriage, instead of getting even? Getting even won't save your marriage. Reaching out to your partner and spend quality time with them. Quit focusing on revenge. You won't change anything that's already happened with revenge. But you might still be able to save your marriage if you get your priorities straight.
2007-05-31 14:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by clabou81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the hooker did not break up your marriage. you broke up your marriage by going to the hooker. do not blame her for something you started.
2007-06-04 09:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by jackie11418 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send your husband a very "official" looking letter that says he needs to be tested for HIV since his name came up on a list of someone with the disease. That oughta scare the living crap out of him.
2007-05-31 15:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never really said HOW this "hooker" is breaking up your marriage... keep away from the hooker...
2007-05-31 14:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your husband...not her...she's just 'doing her job'. He is the one that is doing something wrong. You don't want to be with a man like that anyway.
2007-05-31 14:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask her for some 'marriage-saving' tips. !
2007-05-31 14:15:03 · answer #11 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋