Marriage & Divorce - 31 May 2007

well been married 6years now wife works away,am at home work partime and look after son of 4years,i get so bloody horny and lonley at times,wot do i do then help

2007-05-31 12:26:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night my husband came home and completly tore into me. I was told that the the house was to messy or in his exact words "You must like to live like a pig" They house wasnt perfect but it wasnt trashed. There was a few dishes in the sink from dinner, a load of laundry in the bathroom I hadnt gotton to and a few toys on the playroom floor. Thats it!!!! I was then told that I had let myself go and gotton fat since I've had our 2 kids. I stand 5 ft tall and where a size 2 for christ sake!!!!! No my tummy isnt as flat as it use to be but after a c-section with my last one it never will be short of having a tummy tuck. I mean I'm not one of those stay at home moms that run around in sweat pants day in and day out. I do my hair and make up , etc...... 90% of that time as long as my kids arent sick or we arent having a super crazy day. I dont get what his problem is???? I've refused to speak to him since this last night.

2007-05-31 12:23:13 · 34 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4

I have had uncountable recurrent dream about my ex-girlfriend that i had dater for over 10 years. It usually goes like this... I meet her somewhere to see my son and she is there always trying to make me jealous. when I dont react with jealousy then she tries to get back together with me I refuse.. Then my son and her both vanish and I cannot figure out where or why they disappeared.. It's really wierd. She comes to flirt with me... Then tries to make me jealous..then disappears with the kid into thin air.. we have been broken up for 3 years...

2007-05-31 12:12:40 · 5 answers · asked by Robby R 2

i was never married to this man but we have two children.he pays child support every wk, he sees the kids, and he is now married to someone else. what are my rights can i have someone live with me even though we're not married, can he have his support reduced? help please

2007-05-31 12:11:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really don't feel like my husband appreciates me like he did when we first got married and I just don't feel attracted to him any more.

2007-05-31 12:10:03 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-31 12:05:11 · 15 answers · asked by giggly33 2

and house and all the other normal family stuff.
he broke it off saying he didnt love me no more he loves someone else a 17yr old he's 28 !!

anyway im trying 2 move on. a girlfriend from work has asked me if i want go away 4 a party weekend in 2 months i said yes and as a nice gesture told him in case he wanted to book the time of work (has to give lots of notice for hols). the next morning at 8am i get a phone call from him out of the blue making all the arrangements getting the house on the market. then yesterday he asked what i was doing over the weekend told him a couple of guys from work had invited me down the pub so then i get a phone call today he started telling me all this stuff about how it feels like he been with this girl forever when in fact its been 3 wks that thier going 2 get a place together. what do we tell our child. its only been 3wks im not ready. its like hes either trying to break my heart over and over or trying to prove that hes moved on. what do you think

2007-05-31 11:52:38 · 9 answers · asked by kitty4 2

My boyfriend and his ex wife were texting and she became a pain and started texting and telling him all kinda things. So, he told her to *f**king grow up!" She inturn called the police and forwarded the message to them. The police officer came and spoke with my boyfriend and told him that is was boarder line harrassment...... How can telling someone to grow up be harrassment? Is there anything that we can do to stop her from being a pain in the butt anymore?

2007-05-31 11:49:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-31 11:45:42 · 14 answers · asked by Diana C 3

My husband is incarsarated & he won't be coming out for at least a year. I'm worried that I'm forgetting how to give head. Do you have any suggestions on preventing myself from forgetting? Its been bothering me alot lately because I've been thinking about it too much. I guess its 'cuz I can't wait to do it to him but I'm worried I might lose my touch & forget the whole thing.

2007-05-31 11:45:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would be your GUT reaction?

2007-05-31 11:35:19 · 36 answers · asked by Silence 1

Summary: I was his friend for 6 years... he had a lot of disfunction in his home... Wife always drunk, almost ran him over (he got hurt very badly), wife was physically and verbal abusive... total disfunction. I had no intention of falling in love with him... it wasn't an instant attraction... I and all those who viewed his disfunction felt bad for him... Then he finally left... we became closer and closer and started dating... I fell in love with him... his warmth... He says that he is not going back to her, but he continues to pay all the bills and has not filed... He said it's because he wants to fix himself first... How long do I wait... I can't stand the fact that I'm dating a married guy. But I love him so much and believe that he loves me too. When I try to walk away, he cries and begs me back... I don't want him to divorce her for me... but for himself... He's been seeing a counsellor for about 6 months now...

2007-05-31 11:32:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know someone that is married and she keeps throwing herself at a married guy. She will walk to his place of empolyment 5 to 6 times a day. She will get on his myspace page to keep looking at his pictures. On top of that she wants to join a auto college just so she can be around him. She finds stupid reasons to have some type of conversation with him. She doesn't have a good marriage and she is not all that attractive. She doesn't know how to fix herself up. What would you do? Would you tell her to back off and work on her nonexciting marriage or just say nothing?

PS. He is happily married. He only talks to her because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. There is no flirtation on his part only hers!

2007-05-31 11:24:53 · 17 answers · asked by Ash Kat 4

I have waited for my guy faithfully for two years whilst in prison, I have written to him everyday, visited in various prisons around the country every week. Our relationship has grown but always had problems, i.e. will he change and stop doing things he was doing and the ' is there another woman visiting you arguments etc' but we've seen it through and we decided to get engaged. we were engaged for 1 month and after hearing he was going to use money from his sister when he got out we got into a discussion where I stated if we were to marry I would not want to live out of someone elses pocket. He opposed this and also told me if I made him choose between his family and me I would loose, ended up where he stormed off out the visiting room shouting I'll stick with my family, you stick with yours. I decided to break off the engagement and did not visit the following week, told him it was over. He has rang and asked me to visit this week but I didn't. Am I right or am I wrong?????

2007-05-31 11:19:45 · 21 answers · asked by mymanomer 1

My husband cheated on my with one of his friends he has known for about 9 years (we have been married 7 1/2 years) 3 weeks ago. He told me the day after it happened but i always had a thought in the back of my mind he was always cheating i just couldn't prove it. Anyways he told me that he did sleep with her 1 time that was the only time But i have a feeling hes still messing around with her they work together so he talks to her every day He saids its only business I have been keeping track of his phone records but it only shows is outgoing calls the incoming just say his name before he was all definitive if i asked him if he talked to her because i didnt want him to because she & i had had a fallen out so i didnt want him talking to her ether out of respect for me he didnt do it he basically chose her over me, anyways hes acting the same as he did before he told me am i baing crazy & just seeing things or do i need to spy on him or just leave him i just dont want to through away 8 yea

2007-05-31 11:15:24 · 34 answers · asked by xxx_bobbie_jo_xxx 1

she's married. We talk more than once per day and found that we have lots in common. We talk are also very attracted to each other and think the other's hot. We seriously want to act on our feelings and desires but feel we shouln't. Her husband does know about me and also allows her to see me but really isn't ok with as it as you would expect . I feel like a horrible person for possibly hurting a couple's marriage. Any comments and/or questions? Please be honest.

2007-05-31 11:06:45 · 23 answers · asked by Bones00 3

When my ex guy had gotten his cell phone, he did the same thing. I found out he was meeting these girls from myspace at the local gas station and screwing them in their cars down the street. I called the wedding off after I had had enough og him leaving me and my daughter at home so he could "have fun".

2007-05-31 10:53:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-31 10:47:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been having trouble for years. I have cheated on him 3 times (same guy). He knows about 2 of them and still wanted to stay and work things out. I love the other guy and we have started "seeing" each other again.
Hubby is very possessive and I feel like he is smothering me. He always has to know where I am going and when I'll be back. He calls me 4 times a day just to check on me. I haven't worked in over 10 years because he says he is the one who is supposed to bring in the money.
I just want to be happy is there anything wrong with that?
Any ideas?

2007-05-31 10:45:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my ex has my son for the school year...now i will be getting him for the summer...this is the first year of this arrangemet...previously I had him on the weekends and she had him during the week...my question is..should i still pay child support during the summer when i have him full time?? I'm not even asking for her to pay me during this time... I just dont think its fair to pay her when i have my son. What do you think?? And how should I bring this up without sounding like an *** to her?

2007-05-31 10:40:00 · 8 answers · asked by drbramucci 1

I think i am a bit down in the dumps!!

2007-05-31 10:38:24 · 23 answers · asked by bornagainandy 2

What is marriage supposed to be like?
I feel so miserable, remembering the past and present issues, and even just the issues with him.
I feel like I can't talk with him, especially when he walks away when I'm trying to explain how I feel about the things that upset me. It's like I'm not supposed to get upset, sad, or mad at his **** all these years.
He tells me things and does things that really upset me and acts like he doesn't care, and like I'm supposed to get over it (all the stuff he says and does).
I don't want to see a counselor with him, because I've been there done that and I don't want to go through a third or fourth party taking sides anymore. I don't mind so much me going to mine and him going to his, but not together.
If I call it quits, how do I go about gaining control of my life, self respect, and some dignity?
If I stay, how do I get him to understand and respect me? And is there anything else that I can try (that I haven't already)?

2007-05-31 10:38:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since I was a child I wanted to be a pro chef. I loved cooking since I can remember. I just don't want to impose it on my wife. She hasn't said anything and seems to like it but I do wonder if it makes her feel any less "womanly" (not trying to be sexist).

Should I give up the pans sometime? She does seem to smile a lot at what I cook.....

I just need some anonymous female advice.

2007-05-31 10:32:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some serious help...I am about ready to call a 9 year relationship off and cut me losses...Here is the case: He is 26 I am 33.. we have 2 sons together..during our first few years we had sex maybe once a week then it went to once a month. I belived something must of happen in his childhood that made him maybe resent sex but all that changed the day I found out he had been having an affair with the town Slut! I was devestated to say the least. I have trusted and belived in this man and now 2 kids later...I couldn't accept the fact that he left me and I did everything right...I waited his affair of course did not work out..We have tried to get things right but its just impossible...I cant forget the pain he caused and the betrayal and not to say we have NO SEX Now...I have to practically BEG!!! I have asked him several times if he is still cheating he says no. I am a very attractive, educated person with a man who thinks I am nothing but his kids mom!!! Do I leave? Do I cheat?

2007-05-31 10:29:33 · 17 answers · asked by r_greeneyes_2003 1

Is it normal to continually help your ex-wife? (i.e. lend her your car, fix her car lend her money) and let her treat you like sh*t. Every two weeks he is doing something for her and then tells her he’s not going to help her with it again yet he always does. He’s not really nice to her or anything. She'll be rude to him and has to have things her way there is no compromising with the woman. The relationship ended because she cheated on him and he gave her another chance and she continued to cheat on him. So he got a divorce. And she tells her friends she want's to have another kid with him. He doesn’t want anything to do with her like that. They have one and he has full custody and I know the custody thing isn’t an issue. He says he hates her. Being nice and letting her take advantage of him is just easier? I just don’t understand.

2007-05-31 10:26:50 · 11 answers · asked by sugar_lumpkin84 2

My husband and I have been maried for 2 1/2 years. I love him very very much but lately I feel like he may be up to something. In Feb. of this year he was beat up in a bar pretty badly and swears that he did nothing to provoke and has no clue what could have happened but then he admitted that he was drunk and was dancing with some girls. Last week he didn't come home and at 3 in the morning I called the cell and I heard some chick in the background yelling "he's with his F***ing friends". When he got home I asked him who that chick was and he said that she was some girl in the parking lot who was really drunk and the cops came to take her away. Then today he left a note saying that he was going to a friends house but when I stoped to see if I could get some money from him he wasn't there. He said he would be home by 3:30 and he's not home a hour later.
Would any body else suspect that he is cheating and how should I go about aproaching him? thanx for the advice.

2007-05-31 10:21:51 · 19 answers · asked by Alicia G 5

afther my 7 year old marrage ended up in divorce i got into a new relationship now going on 9 years. so i have not a lot of exprience in bed, my courent boyfirend has been with quite a few partners before me, i feel that i might be compare i would like to try diffrent thing but am affraid to seem stupid. there are so many books out there on how to please your man but how do i know what book is the best. I don't whant to go over board and then he might think am desprate.

2007-05-31 10:21:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm a muslim and i had sort of an arranged marriage because my family is strict and very cultural, its been about two years now that i am maried,the guy is from pakistan. Its been nearly a year since he's *** to UK. At first he was such a sweet guy,he was so kind to me.BUT now evrything has changd,he is very bossy, he wants me to do everything his way, he doesnt want me to work but stay at home and be a housewife. Ive always been the independant type who likes to do things for my self. He says very nasty things to me and is very violent. Ive spoken to my parents but they are not understanding. I thought i had found the right guy, but he is really changed, he has a bad temper all the time. When i speak my mind and stick up for my self he tells me i am a bad wife. when i ask him that we need to talk to sort our marriage problems he says he doesnt want to talk to me becuz i am dumb. i am sick of being treated like this. He doesnt speak to me any more but stil wants me to do things for him

2007-05-31 10:20:44 · 11 answers · asked by Princess 2

Well, I decided to give it a shot. I just found out yesterday we are having a baby boy... so, for this baby I'll do my best. Now, he wants to get himself a break... a F@@#@ Month Break. I don't know what to think... he's saying he loves me and he wants us to be very happy for the rest of our lives... but, a break??? He is renting an apartment, I guess. As soon as we fix our differences, we move back together, he says. How can he see I'm changing? How can I be sure he is not living the Vida Loca? How? If we are not together... and I don't even think we are going to even talk to each other during that F@#@ Break. I'm exhausted. Is this going to work, I ask? He seems to be happy about this thinking it'll work fine. He says he would do stuff with me over the weekends (he works his *** off anyway suring the week). Today, I came home and he already took one of our things... I guess everyday coming from work I'm going to find one thing missing from the house. Is this a man thing or what? HELP

2007-05-31 10:16:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am newly married and what does it mean to pay attention to wife? Everyone is advising me on that? can you give me some example of paying attention and not paying attention? Does
this mean listening to whenever she talks?

Please advise

2007-05-31 10:13:33 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous