What is pay attention to wife?

Question

I am newly married and what does it mean to pay attention to wife? Everyone is advising me on that? can you give me some example of paying attention and not paying attention? Does
this mean listening to whenever she talks?

Please advise

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

Pay attention to your Wife!
I am an expert on this. So I will give you five exercises that are guaranteed to increase the love in your relationship everytime.

1. Before you are dressed in the morning make sure you kiss your wife on the lips, then tell her you are so happy to be able to wake up next to her. (This will always give women the warm and fuzzies, besides you want to be the main man flirting with your wife.)
2. When you make it to your job find time before your first full hour of work to call her or text her to say " I Love You".
3. At lunch call your wife just to see what she is doing, BE SURE TO MENTION THAT YOU WERE THINKING ABOUT HER.
4. In the evening always at least once, purposely stop in front of your wife or where she can see you, then act like you are staring at her (either behind or chest or eyes). Stare at whatever on her will turn you on. Let her know with your expression that you like what you are seeing. Make sure she sees you do this. ( This will always make her feel sexy and desired which is very important within a marriage)
5. At night kiss her goodnight. Also, while she sleeps you should wake up at least once from your tossing and turning and kiss her cheeks. The next morning ask her if she felt you kiss on her. (She probably didn't feel it but either way she will know that you are still so into her.)

THESE PRACTICES ARE IMPORTANT BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO REMEMBER SHE IS A WOMAN. THERE MAY BE MEN THAT ARE WATCHING HER AND MEN PREY ON WOMEN WHO ARE NOT GETTING AFFECTION FROM THEIR MAN. SO MEN SHOW YOUR WOMAN YOU LOVE HER, SHOW HER SHE IS THE FINEST THING THAT YOU HAVE LAID EYES ON. I HOPE THIS HELPS NOW GO MAKE THAT WOMAN FALL FOR YOU ALL OVER AGAIN.

Answer 3

I get in trouble for this myself. Basically not paying attention to your wife or paying attention to your wife isnt all about listening to what she has to say. Its more about lets say when you get off work, dont come in and watch tv and drink a beer. If she is home, stop talk to her see how her day was, hug her kiss her whatever, just little things that let her know she is their and that you missed her. And then again if she is talking to you do pay attention try your hardest to get involved with what she is talking about, not just head nods and yea here and there. This in the long run will make you have a great strong marriage, and will get you less b*t*h*n*g.

Answer 4

Here is a great secret to giving a wife attention, be polite.
Even after 28 years, my husband brings flowers, even if they are from the supermarket, and I love them as if they were the most expensive long stemmed roses. He compliments me on my dinners, on how nice I keep the house, we speak of current events and he tells me I make him laugh. Yes he does give me the courtesy of listening to what I say and he can disagree with me without calling me names or needing to put me down. He knows my favorite things, and if he sees them he brings them home for me. He helps without asking in the kitchen and the house. OK so he need a little asking, but not much.
Nothing earth shaking there??? Take a look around you
and ask yourself, how many marriages are like ours? How many times do you see a man ignore these small courtesies with his wife, do you think he ignored these things when they were courting? Old married couples may tease each other, but the love and respect for each other shows in exactly these small things that last on a daily basis for year and years.
If you want to be happy in a long marriage, don't cheat, and be polite...see how simple?

Answer 5

Look, paying attention to your wife is very simple. It makes her feel loved and appreciative and also makes her want to do favors for you when you ask them. Tell her you love her, help her with the dishes, let her complain to you if she's had a bad day, be a good listener, cook with her. Just do stuff together and keep doing stuff together. Trust me, it makes out for a much better marriage, and you set a good example for your kids.

Answer 6

No, it means to show Love and respect and including her in your day. It's the little things that mean a lot, observe what she likes or wants and do it. maybe it's a hug when she needs it, or picking up your dirty cloths, Or helping with house hold chores, Or maybe she just need to talk to an adult ,and your it. A wife can be a good friend if you let her. Remembering that you married her, not your friends. Who do you spend the most time with???

Answer 7

pay attention means of course, listen to her with interest, make her feel like a woman (read kama sutra!), and make her feel important. maybe you really DONT care what she did all day, but if you make her feel important she will be happy. and if you make your wife happy she will make YOU happy. just show general interest, and enthusiasm and love. really, if you love her things will go great. you two should have open lines of communication and let eachother know what you want and what you dont want. if you can be open and honest with eachother (even when it hurts, because the truth hurts), then your marriage will go on forever. you will soon learn that this question is insignificant in the endless ocean of concerns of marriage. good luck to you!

Answer 8

Pay attention to your wife means treating her well, thinking of her and considering her needs and happiness before your own, loving her, praising her, supporting her, believing in her, helping her, doing for her, comforting her, pleasing and satisfying her, communicating with her and listening to her, treating her like a queen, treating her with respect. It means never putting anything or anyone before her, or between you two.

If you do all this, she'll also be doing all this for you, and you two will have a very happy marriage.

Answer 9

It means a lot of things.If she is talking to you at least act like you are paying attention to what she is saying.Acknowledge her talk to her when you get home from work.Don't sit all weekend long in front of a t.v. with your friends and pretend she doesn't exist.If she fixes herself up for you compliment her.And just basically remember she needs to know you think about her.And that you care.It doesn't mean you have to hang on her every word.You just have to validate for her that she matters to you.

Answer 10

1. listen when she speaks.
2. watch what she does and help her around the house.
3. do things for her and compliment her on what she does for you.
4. provide for her and don't ask for repayment in any form.
5. take her places that you can afford to, maybe even out to dinner at least once a week.
6. and again, listen to her and don't be distracted by t.v., radio or the paper...she is your special gift. respect her.

Answer 11

Good that u r asking this question. Till ur marriage ur mother must have been the only important female in ur life. What ever she does may seem correct & u often 'd think..thats the way Mom does it.

Now ur wife is from a diffrent family & diffrent habbits, so give attention to her way of handling things & try to get used to it. Don't sing ur Mother's saga & irritate her.