I know someone that is married and she keeps throwing herself at a married guy. She will walk to his place of empolyment 5 to 6 times a day. She will get on his myspace page to keep looking at his pictures. On top of that she wants to join a auto college just so she can be around him. She finds stupid reasons to have some type of conversation with him. She doesn't have a good marriage and she is not all that attractive. She doesn't know how to fix herself up. What would you do? Would you tell her to back off and work on her nonexciting marriage or just say nothing?
PS. He is happily married. He only talks to her because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. There is no flirtation on his part only hers!
2007-05-31 11:24:53 · 17 answers · asked by Ash Kat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
FLIRTING IS GONE TO FAR WHEN OTHERS TEND TO NOTICE IT IS GOING ON... THERE SHOULD BE NO FLIRTING WITH ANYONE WHO IS MARRIED THOUGH.
2007-05-31 15:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by passion4fashion07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say a thing to the poor girl she sounds like her life is crap anyway . Nothing is going to happen between the 2 anyway . I would try to teach her to fix herself up though if you can
2007-05-31 18:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the guy to ask her to stop it. It sounds like she is stalking him if she comes to his employment 5-6 times a day. He has to take control or she'll keep following him around and bothering him. If you say something to her, she might attack you so he's the one who needs to do something about it. All he has to say is, "I'm married."
2007-05-31 18:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lorraine_us 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah that's called being an obsessive stalker. You should have the married guy let his supervisor know that her behavior is making him uncomfortable. He should be able to handle it from there...maybe get her banned from the building.
2007-05-31 18:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh goodness yes, tell her (in a respectful manner) that you are uncomfortable with her think layer of attention and you don't want it to cause any misunderstandings in YOUR marriage.
2007-05-31 18:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not your business to say anything at all.
"Flirting" by either spouse is only acceptable if it is something you would do RIGHT IN FRONT of your spouse. Nothing else.
2007-05-31 19:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's more than flirting....more like stalking. I would advise her to back off, before his wife gets a restraining order against her. HE needs to tell her politely that he loves his wife, and wishes NOTHING to do with her. Afterwhich he may need to get a restraining order against her!
2007-05-31 18:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So its his problem, not yours. why get involved?
If he's happily married nothing will come of it and eventually she will find someone else to stalk.
In the mean time you get someone to laugh at!
2007-05-31 18:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not just flirting, that's creepy (almost like stalking). She needs to back off before married guy's wife catches up with her .
2007-05-31 18:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by Luvitall 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
not trying to be mean but, its none of your business....if you say something to her she will think you are just being a hater. you need to let her learn from her own mistakes and pray that she doesnt get hurt too bad.
2007-05-31 18:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by Carmen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋