well been married 6years now wife works away,am at home work partime and look after son of 4years,i get so bloody horny and lonley at times,wot do i do then help
2007-05-31 12:26:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The purpose of marriage is to provide a stable environment to raise kids. Just how stable is your marriage going to be when your wife finally figures out what you are up to? Isn't your wife your best friend--do you really want to betray her? Once the trust is gone, it's extremely difficult to get back. And she likely will figure things out. What about your kid? You don't care if he grows up in a broken home? You don't care if your wife finds out, dumps you, moves to Arkansas where a guy named "Bubba" is raising your kid instead of you? Then again, Bubba might be a better choice. Instead of sitting home watching Oprah and thinking of ways to screw around, why don't you go out and get a full time job? Maybe you would then be too tired when you get home, like your wife is. Have some pride, man.
Kent in SD
2007-05-31 14:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by duckgrabber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You shouldn't have an affair! Believe me, that's a path you don't want to go down. You need to talk to your wife about the issues you're having. If she values your feelings and the marriage, then she will try to find a more reasonable job where she can spend more time with you. Have you ever thought maybe SHE's the one having an affair? I mean, most wives I know actually WANT to spend time w/ their husbands. So maybe there's a reason she has this job that takes her away from home....just a thought.
2007-05-31 19:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by bestadvicechick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not! Marriage is for better or worse and you don't bail out when you get to the worse part. Hold on for the better will return again. Maybe you need to get your wife to work closer to home or move to where she works. You need to look at you life together and see what you can change to make it better. If you are that horny take care of yourself and then make sure you do have sex as much as you can when your wife is home!
2007-05-31 20:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did make a commitment to your wife to stay faithful no matter what. Ya'll have a 4-year old son together.Do you want to ruin your child's life because YOU are always so "bloody horny" You have a part time job,get a full time job and keep yourself busy. Your wife on the other hand HAS a full time job and is trying to support her family. So my advice to you is to get a full time job and spend more time with your kid OR get some playboys.
2007-05-31 19:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by whathurtsthemost06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO--Being lonely and horny are not sufficient reasons to potentially ruin your marriage with an affair, especially with a child involved. Put some of that excess energy into your marriage and son. Be an adult and honor your commitments and responsibilities. If that is too much for you, divorce your wife rather than cheat on her.
2007-05-31 19:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by MNature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont have an affair. You have hands, right? Use them. Why does your wife work so far away? Would it be possible for you to move closer to where she works? Anyway, just stay faithful, you'll save everyone alot of heartache in the long run.
2007-05-31 19:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you stupid!!!!!!!!! Just because you're horny you want to ruin a little boys life and his mothers over sex. Talk to your wife and maybe get her to work less away from home, tell her your concerns about her being away so much, that you miss her and need her close. Please for the sake of the child don't blow this.
Or have lots of sex with your wife when she's home and get it out of your system before she leaves.
2007-05-31 19:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by wet_jeanlouise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be NOT!! What about your son, what about your wife? Get a full time job and a baby sitter. quit acting like a teenager.
2007-05-31 19:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by danny t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER. Cheating destroys lives. If you want it that bad leaving the relationship would be better. If you love your wife go buy porno's and lubricants.
2007-05-31 19:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself busy cheating isnt the answer take your wedding vowels seriously find a hobbie and stay busy.
2007-05-31 19:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by paultoledo34 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋