and house and all the other normal family stuff.
he broke it off saying he didnt love me no more he loves someone else a 17yr old he's 28 !!
anyway im trying 2 move on. a girlfriend from work has asked me if i want go away 4 a party weekend in 2 months i said yes and as a nice gesture told him in case he wanted to book the time of work (has to give lots of notice for hols). the next morning at 8am i get a phone call from him out of the blue making all the arrangements getting the house on the market. then yesterday he asked what i was doing over the weekend told him a couple of guys from work had invited me down the pub so then i get a phone call today he started telling me all this stuff about how it feels like he been with this girl forever when in fact its been 3 wks that thier going 2 get a place together. what do we tell our child. its only been 3wks im not ready. its like hes either trying to break my heart over and over or trying to prove that hes moved on. what do you think
2007-05-31 11:52:38 · 9 answers · asked by kitty4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He wants his cake and to eat it, his idea off splitting up is him off on the gad and you sat home missing him.
The only thing this proves is that he's insecure and having second thoughts.
Do what you want to do whether its what he wants to or not, he left so you are in charge.
(I'm a guy by the way)
2007-05-31 12:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by cedley1969 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"What is he trying to do"? Well for a start he is trying to get you to agree to his behaviour, and secondly he is staying in touch with you because he knows you will take him back! You are not ready, able or willing to move on, you are still trying to come to terms with the situation and understand it. your primary concern right now is for the child, and of course your own well being. if you can face up to it, seek out some help from a therapist or counselor, it will help you immensly if you can talk about what is really in your heart and on your mind, dont start partying and hitting the bottle, or going out with different men, this will leave you feeling worthless and cheap.
2007-05-31 12:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is having doubts. Girl I just went through this with my ex-. Our divorce was final 3 weeks ago, and he did the same thing. I'd want to go out, and he would flip just like your ex. Now mine wants back in.
He's not trying to break your heart, I think that he probably wan't sure of what the hell he wanted and now that you are showing signs of moving on, he's scared, and hurt, so he acts out. Yes, he is trying to show you that he's moved on, but that's because he is trying to convince himself. Don't be surprised if he tries to come back, cause I believe that will be next.
2007-05-31 16:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by darknangelic77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 05:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the @sshole and move on with your life. Go to the party and let your hair down and have a good time. Why do you have to worry about what he say's? He made it plain and simple to you thhat he no longer wanted to be with you when he want's to move in with his new queen. Did you understand it when he told you? Live it up Baby, and don't worry about what to tell the kid. Don't
try to make a family enviroment with someone who clearly told you he doesn't want you..
2007-05-31 12:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to harden your heart and act like you don't give a pig's ear about him.
Good luck and don't let him get to you.
In other words, never let 'im see ya sweat!!!
2007-05-31 12:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by LilyBelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion ....he's just trying to get the best of you !!! and to be honest ..dont take it......my advice to you is to simply ...dont answer any of his ?'s ...if they dont have anything to do with your baby !!! Good luck !
2007-05-31 12:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aint life hell!
2007-05-31 14:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by bkk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont listen to him. You're not his counselor.
Start your life plan for you and your baby.
2007-05-31 11:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋