theres this girl thats absesed with me but i dont like her and i kinda dont want to say anything to hurt her feelings so what so how do i tell a girl i dont like you without hurting there feelings
2007-05-31 21:59:55 · 14 answers · asked by Gabe G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't.
Be honest.
She'll get over it.
2007-05-31 22:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the girl you are not looking for a rlt. Thats the only option besides blatantly telling her that you are not interested at the moment. Believe a stranger when they say 'you cant sugar coat candy'.
2007-05-31 22:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by Born to be wild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the golden rule, my friend.
Surely you have been in a situation where the tables were turned? (Even if not) Think about it from this end - how would YOU like to be told that the object of your affections does not feel similarly?
Be honest, and gentle.
2007-05-31 22:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by howtoms 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is that you can never do it. It is impossible. No matter how mildly or how nicely you tell her, she is bound to get hurt. So, keep the ceremony as short as possible and be sure that she does not mistake your pity and kindness for your love and gets false hopes.
2007-05-31 22:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by greatgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her frankly. She will be sad definitely but, she needs to move on.
2007-05-31 23:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its impossible,,women are always "feeling " things ,,no way around it,,suggest you let her know immediately so she can make herself available for her true "Mr.Right",,tell her you want her to not miss her "mr. right",,so you thought you should let her know...hopefully she'll appreciate you for that as well as your honesty
2007-05-31 22:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how you feel...
just tell her her that you are focused on somethjng (don't know where you're focused)... and you don't have time for girls... anyway, she has a courage to confess so i assume she'll understand you easily.
2007-05-31 22:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are flattered that she is interested in you, but that you have feelings for someone else.
2007-05-31 22:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Hey b i t c h, back up off my nuts. You're not really my type. So the next time you want to try and talk to me, be sure and wipe the semen off your mustache first. Preciate it." Then say, "I'm going to look over here now."
2007-05-31 22:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
you must act rudelly to disappear the feelings that she feels about you generally
2007-05-31 22:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
honesty is always the best policy.. just say it straight out!!!
2007-05-31 22:02:44 · answer #11 · answered by idgaf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋