Or should both partners be in the mood and willing?
whats your opinion?
2007-05-31 19:03:31 · 12 answers · asked by :) 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's give and take. Sometimes you both want but other times only one, and the other one accommodates because they care for their spouse's needs.
2007-05-31 19:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After being married a time, you know one another so intimately, you KNOW what the other wants, etc. There will be the obvious respect if the other really doesn't want to make love, but there's always cuddling or something else one can do! However, most sensitive, loving husbands know the right buttons to push - even with a look that gets the wife to melt.... And the reverse is obviously true, as well.
2007-06-01 02:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation is a two way street. So I'll say first that if you wanted tohave sex with your husbandand he did not he should do it anyway because his partners needs should be put before his own. The same should go for you.
2007-05-31 19:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Esoteric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, If he wants it, give him a helping hand but it doesn't have to be the whole deal.
Just because he is your husband does not mean that he owns your body.
I agree with the lady who answered above but your question implies that you aren't worried about your husband not wanting to have sex with you when you feel like it also.
2007-05-31 19:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the cercumstance if you are ill no but if you are fine yes the reason why I say this is because the arguements stay down I know been there and when I denied it the next day was hell for both of us plus sex actually brings the percentage down on your stress level plus relaxes him afterwards!
2007-05-31 19:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself one simple question, when is the last time your husband said no when you were in the mood.
2007-05-31 19:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol that depends.....Nah, seriously, to me, when only one of the people truly want it, that's just sex (f***ing). When both want it and are committed to satisfying each other, that's making love. Myself, if I don't want it, he don't get it.....although, I don't remember telling him that for a long time..lol
2007-05-31 20:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by lilbeamlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman should only have sex if she WANTS to have sex.
2007-05-31 21:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say both people should be interested. Personally, if I don't want to, it's not happening.
2007-05-31 22:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes relationships are a give and take type of thing.
open discussion of your and his feelings are important.
but as you meet his needs (inc. sex) he must be willing to meet yours.
But please DO NOT use sex to get what you want, he will resent it.
2007-05-31 19:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ken W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋