2007-05-31 21:43:17 · 19 answers · asked by greatgal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm guessing that you are living with him, or at the very least, having sex with him. As the old saying goes; Why buy the cow when the milk is free? If you really want to get married, stop having sex with him, if he leaves you, he wasn't worth having anyway. Then save yourself for the right guy. True love isn't a feeling, it's a commitment.
2007-05-31 22:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will get excitement from your motives for desirous to marry him. decrease than the floor you're fearful of dropping him, and marrying him will make you psychologically sense closer to him. do no longer throw this all away because of the fact he has desires and objectives which you think of you're no longer component to. you have been there each and each of how, save on being there for him, he's doing such a terrific interest and you need to be proud. some adult males do exactly no longer pick to get married. If my companion did no longer, i could be pleased with it. it relatively is love that concerns, no longer a sprint paper. Marriage is a romantic perfect, yet you have coped this far without it. only take the assumption out of your ideas and luxuriate on your relationship. I reckon it's going to arise faster or later ;)
2016-11-24 21:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A weak man subjects himself to the unwillingness forced by a woman. Ever heard of that?
You cannot force a man to marry you. If you do--he will have a deep unspoken resentment for you, and retalliate in the worst way. He'll cheat, lie, and do everythng possible to get away without saying it. If a man has no intentions of marrying you...then why are you still with him!?
Dont believe me? find out for yourself.
2007-05-31 22:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by Born to be wild 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is so important for you to get married? That's what you might want to ask yourself. If your happy and in a committed relationship, what's the big hurry? Is it a religious thing? Want a big ring? Some people today think love is important, not what a paper says at the courthouse.
2007-05-31 21:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by penelope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't given enough information for anyone to seriously help you. How old are you and you boyfriend? How long have you been going together? How well has the relationship been working up until now. Are either of you still in school?
2007-05-31 21:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Go find a willing boyfriend. If you "make" him marry you, you'll both be miserable.
2007-05-31 22:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop living with him, having sex with him, doing his laundry, and dishes. Read the Parable of Free Milk and a Cow. Like you didn't already know all of this.
2007-05-31 22:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you nuts?!!,,your a Child of the King!! you are royalty!,,dont you know that? you should never ever have to BEG someone to want you forever...they should be BEGGING YOU TO MARRY THEM!,,i',m not yelling , i'm just saying you are WORTHY!!! believe in yourself,,,i wasted 7 years of my life trying to convince someone to love me back and commit...finally met a man who wanted to commit from the get -go ,,I,realized the loser i was with for those 7 years ,was wasting my time, energy, AND my youth,,dont waste yours,,get rid of him!! he's poison,,,your "good enuff".,,just try to believe it!.
2007-05-31 22:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
key word- unwilling! if you have to make him do it, it isn't worth it. find someone who will be proud, honored and willing to make you his wife!
2007-05-31 21:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by Cocobrwn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if someone doesn't want to marry u, u can't convince them, u can't force someone to do what they don't really want to do. just ask him where he sees himself in a year, ask him if he can see himself with u, if not and marriage is what u want u will have to find it elsewhere.
2007-06-01 00:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋