Whats So great about women?

Question

She only loves you because of what you can give her then eventually either she's taking you to court to split you in half or leaving you for a man with a bigger wallet.

They seek men for security and are ready to put them down if they struggle instead of help along the way. She wants a wealthy man to spoil her so she can shop all day and look good in his money. The type that is only a good woman because of somebody else's resources. She sees a nice car and nice cloths and all of a sudden she's capable of doing anything for you. She wants you to have potential, yet she has none of her own. She'll make you drunk with sex to make you forget she's useing you.

Work so hard to have your heart betrayed.

2 times in different ways? I don't think it's me. I think it's their own greed,both women pretended to be supportive but in the end brought nothing to the table in time of need.

It's the new trend now, unfaithful women are being worshiped now.
Desprate housewives,Footballers wives, Army Wives (a new show)

T.V. is giving lessons on how to betray your man. I'm a good man with occational bad luck.

Like John Lennon said
"Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans,"

I'm not bitter, It just seems like everytime a woman gets a chance to step up to the plate to prove her love she takes the easy way out.

Don't judge me. Listen to the patterns. Some of you still don't get it. Only 2 of you have.

I didn't meet women in clubs. I'm not controlled by sex. I don't tolerate what I don't appreciate.

I honored my wedding vows.Yet when the hard times came they turn out to be an imposters.

*Women pretend to love, but I've never met one that won't betray you for her own security.

Answer 1

Wow, being a woman sometimes we forget whats important in life. Not all of us, but some do get side tracked. Instead of love they partner for money. In which most of the time ends badly. I have been married almost 6 years. My husband and I have been through the best of times and the worst of times. I have tried to be supportive, even though. I as well have gotten side tracked. To be honest I didnt realize how selfish I had been until I read this. So while your asking a question, you have answered one of mine. It's not easy and I am truly sorry you feel betrayed.
I know as a woman, I am guilty. I stay home with my 3 yr old son while my husband work's. I have found myself bitching at him here a lot of over money. It's not his fault. atlest he is trying. He has also been supportive of me going back to school so that I can make things better around her as well. So. maybe I didnt exactly answer your question, but nonetheless. YOU have helped me. So I thank you for that.. Good luck hun, I hope you find the best in life, because it really is there.

Answer 2

I had to think a little bit on this one.

A lot of women are so different than what you portray.

Using that same mentality, I could say that all men are dogs. They are cheating, drunk, abusive, stupid, horny ALL the time, etc.

BUT that would be stupid of me and very immature to think like that. My husband is a wonderful man and not at all anything like I described above. To think all men are the same is rediculous just as thinking all women are the same. I know that when I married my husband, we had little and survived off beans and rice sometimes for weeks on end. Now I sit here pretty much well off but it came with many years of hard work. Now I get to stay home and I so appreciate it. To this day, I have never had a new car, nice clothes that I did have before I married, I don't shop all day, and any man who can be controlled with sex is weak and he's not the type of man you want to marry. Marriage is so so much more than that. My husband and I struggled together, that's why we are where we are in our lives. You sound so hurt. I wish that you can see that woman for who she truly was and not judge the rest of us by her low standards. You will find a good person when you allow them to see the real you and not your money. Good luck.

Answer 3

Whoa, slow down, sounds like you've been hangin' with the wrong crowd if that's your assessment of women. Also, sounds like you've had your heart broken and may be a little bitter? Many of us women are down to earth with no expectations but to live a good life and, if it's what you want, have a good man in our lives with the same values. I think it's about who you are associating with. Get out of Dodge and see what else is out there. There are some very nice women out there. Now that you know what not to look for because of your previous experience, hopefully you've learned what to look for in a woman. Do you know what you want? If your self-esteem is intact, you shouldn't have any problem not settling for anything less than what you really want.

Answer 4

Sounds to me like you've had some issues with gold diggers to say the least. But, you can't judge ALL women by what a FEW women have done to you. Maybe you could try being more selective in your choices of women. Most men (and women) can spot a gold digger a mile away. Sharpen your senses and try not to be so bitter. Not all women will use and abuse you, my friend. There is someone out there that will love and respect you for who you are.. NOT what you can give her. Best of luck.

Answer 5

Not all women are like that! Not saying I don't know a few of those myself. There are nice girls out there that are looking and the person, not their wallets...Just find that person that you can sit and talk w/ for hours and you have something in common with...Don't let them know you have money from the get-go...the guy I married I fell in love w/ for the whole package and if we were dead broke tomorrow I wouldn't love him any less, we'd just put our heads together and get back on our feet together...we said for richer or poorer and our love is strong enough to make it through anything! Don't give up on all women!

Answer 6

Well dude, its biology isnt it. Men and women are made for each other, and women are people - all of them different. Yah there are users, and its hard to resist when the one you care about wants something..you want to make them happy. But its all about finding the person who is right for you.

If you dont want to be used, just dont give everything away. You have to be secure in yourself, and know who you are before you can really find the right woman.

The right woman for you wont care about money, cars and taking half. Hey, in a mature relationship you talk about all of that stuff anyway. It takes time and a bit of work...and not just chasing someone for sex. (Though that has got to be good as well).

Keep looking but remember to look after yourself as well.

Answer 7

You sound really hurt *hugz*


Not all women are like that.Im not,never have been.What I look for in a man is personaility,sense of humor,how im treated..those type things.If you TRULY love someone money doesnt matter. Of course now women do want a man that had a job and can provide for his family.But imo..you learn to live with what you got.

I know a women like that though and it makes her look bad.
Every time someone with more money comes along,shes gone.....this last one treated her like $hit.What comes around goes around.....


You'll find you a good woman...the h*ll with the one who lost out :)

Answer 8

Men! Boy do they think they have it good! They never have to worry about losing their figures giving their wives children. Much less go through hours of pain to bring offspring into the world. Just so they can go without a decent nights sleep for 15 months.
Men, who often easily forget how the wives they have still fell in love with them when they had a old beater car and milk crates on boards for coffee tables.
Men, who had no sense of style and it took their wives years to get them to wear Big Boy clothes.
Men, who had the same job since high school when we met them and through our love, encouragement, and constant drive, gave them the courage to go after jobs they would have not gone after otherwise.
Men, who married and had children before we arrived, wives who endured the pissed off ex wife, court battles, and your love your other children, investing our time and wisdoms making the family as a whole functional.
Men, who after all the good we bring to their lives still make an *** of themselves when a pretty girl is around knowing fully well if WE behaved like that you would be scared to death of losing us.
There are two sides to every story. And I can tell you, it is much harder to be the woman than the man. So, until you turn gay, and live your life as a woman, don't disrespect something you obviously take for granted. She got cheated if all your wife ended up with is half.

Answer 9

Wow, someone's been scorned more than once...We're not all like this, sweety. There are just as many good women out there as there are good men....
Maybe you should take a look at yourself and find out why you seem to attract these kind of women ( and I mean that in a nice way....so don't get defensive.....we all have to step back and take a look at ourselves at one point or another)

Answer 10

Wow you are bitter, you are seeking and dating the wrong women dear men know upfront how some of these women are from jump street but they are blinded by looks,beauty and sex, it is as much the mans fault who allows himself to be tricked as much as the woman who is a hustler. The places you go attract women like this to, some men are willing to give all these things since there existence and desires are as vain as they women, they give these women money till there looks fade and move on to the next young hustling thing. Some men complain about women like this but seem to land this type over and over youve been looking in the wrong places or its just you