I want my husband to want me. What can I do?

Question

In the bedroom.

Answer 1

You can do a number of things..

a) wash dishes in nothing but an apron...so he can come home and find you easily undressible for sex...

b) be willing to have sex when ever where ever (drive in movies, hotel, every room of the house at least once, jacuzzi, on the floor in front of the fire place) etc etc..

c) leave him dirty voice mails...

d) leave him dirty post it notes in his briefcase or lunch bag so he can find them later at work

e) call him up during the day while he's at work and tease him a bit..and give him an idea of what you could or would do to him or to him if he'd be there with you at home now

f) maybe be spontanious, drive off some where together, have him maybe pull over and give him a bj on the road..or while driving ?

g) have sex in a public bathroom stall somewhere..

h) if he's out of town for a business trip, surprise him at his hotel room maybe in nothing but a trench coat..and no underwear underneath... ?

g) talk dirty every now and then..he'll get the surprise out of his life..hahaha hearing those dirty words come out of your mouth ?


Have fun trying some of this out...i guarantee some of this actually works every time... :)

Answer 2

The best way is to make a nice romantic dinner for the two of you. Dont forget nice relaxing music. Than when dinner is over go into your bedroom and put on a sexy outfit , little as possible. call him into the bedroom and then there u go.

Answer 3

A little more information would be helpful. Some men just aren't very affectionate. He may not even know you feel that way..but I know it can mess up your self esteem if you feel that.

I mean does he treat you ok? Pay the bills..don't complain or fuss at you? If so he might just not be an affectionate person but his other qualities might help make up for some of it.

Try talking to him. Let him know how you feel is the best I can tell you..

Answer 4

Just change a few things up a bit. Get your hair done and buy a new outfit. Light candles and wow him in the bedroom.

Answer 5

First, find out what he wants and needs in a woman and in relationship. You don't have to be direct. Use tact. He's the only one who knows what he really wants.

Some basic things you can do to be more desirable:

Improve your confidence.
Don't nag.
Be a little flirtatious or romantic from time to time.
Compliment him sometimes.
Be sexy often.

I hope that's a start for you in the right direction.

Answer 6

this is SO open ended.

try to become the best person YOU can be for you.

from there, your disposition will improve, perhaps your figure will improve and hopefully your self respect will improve.

be clean, do not smell bad, wash clothes, pick up trash. obvious to most, but not too all.

try to open up better communications...
perhaps he already DOES want you.
perhaps he has a peeve or two that you can fix.
just sharing can bring you two closer.

and alas.
perhaps you must agree to disagree and not fix it.

Answer 7

in what capacity?? do you mean sexually?? if you do its not hard to make a man want you LOL .... treat him with respect and admiration and don't ***** at him the moment he walks through the door.... and a sexy nighty couldn't hurt either... good luck

Answer 8

way to a man's heart is through his stomach.cook him smthng delicious frm his mom's recipe book!

Answer 9

Hate to be honest, but probably lose weight.

Answer 10

communication, talk about your feelings, talk about his. ask what he likes, tell him what you like.
communication solves 98% of all problems before they start.