How often should a woman want to have sex? I am curious of what others think since my husband says I want it too much.
2007-05-29 13:17:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no "normal" amount.
Whatever you desire is normal for you.
Did you and your husband have a difference in sex drives before the marriage? If so, then you may just have to satisfy yourself sometimes without him.
If this is a new development, maybe, as he gets older and busier, he has less energy to devote to sex.
Either way, the two of you need to work out a compromise that you both can live with.
2007-05-29 14:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband says you want sex too often? Where were you when I was single? Don't tell the truth, and say "kindergarten"!
Seriously, a wife who wants sex too often may or not be a husband's dream. Why do you want sex? Are you clingy? Insecure?
There is no set answer to how often sex is appropriate in a marriage. Some people can have sex three times a day and be gloriously happy, while others can do it three times a day and be miserable.
Sex is emotional and interpersonal and give-and-take, not just physical.
Your circumstances are unusual. Is your husband afraid of performance issues? Guilty? Wondering what you were like before you met him?
Do it as often as it works for you and your husband.
2007-05-29 13:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Pagan Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I wish I had his problem! With my wife it is either feast (every day) or famine (once a week or two) and usually the latter. Maybe you should try letting it be his idea some of the time. This will help and you can put the idea in his head and let him take it. All people are different and it changes over time.
2007-05-29 14:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by crownliftman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different wants, needs and desires. Sounds like yours are different from your husband's.
It doesn't matter how often other women want to have sex.
2007-05-29 13:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by Earl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman is different, every man is different. Each person has a sex drive and just like personalities, they are all different!
I know women that rarely if ever want sex. Personally, I like it every day.
2007-05-29 13:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god, my husband says i dont give it up enough.
Tell your husband to be greatful you want to have sex with him all the time.
I dont think theres a set amount of time a woman SHOULD have sex though.
Buy a vibrator at least that way if he wont give it to you, you can still satisfy yourself
2007-05-29 13:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you crave your husband and only him, there is never too much sex. My husband should be so lucky!
2007-05-29 13:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you would be a godsend to us married guys that have to beg and plead to get some from their wives.
There is no standard for sexual desires, we are all different. Don't let him make you feel like you are some sort of freak. Tell him to shut up (all due respect, of course) and enjoy.
2007-05-29 13:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have the same problem i do, i have a wife who thinks i want it to much. i say dont give in, if you want to have sex, make him do it. maybe try doing something you say is off limits a couple times and that will sure excite him
2007-05-29 13:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by brian a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What difference does it make what other women want, the fact is that his drive isn't as high as yours, because there are probably many women who complain that their men want it too much. Try to find a compromise and ask him why he feels he has to criticize you and compare you, why can't he simply admit that his drive isn't as high as yours?
2007-05-29 13:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋