My girl friend told me that she wanted to have sex with me even do I have a husband what do u think of this?

Question

Shes pretty but im married and I never been with a girl and I wouldnt cheat on my husband what should I tell her.

im not a lesbian but i dont want to make her feel bad thinking shes ugly.

SHES BEEN MY FRIEND SINCE HIGHT SCHOOL I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HER FRIENDSHIP

SHES BEEN MY FRIEND SINCE HIGHT SCHOOL I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HER FRIENDSHIP

Answer 1

Tell her the truth, that she's your friend but you are in love with your husband and not interested in hooking up with anyone else. Tell her your flatterd and if you were a lesbian that she'd be your first choice. (then it won't make her feel that your rejecting her)

Answer 2

Just tell her what you said here, "I'm married, I've never been with a girl, and I wouldn't cheat on my husband." And if she is a good friend then she will accept that, and drop the issue.
Don't make the mistake of believing if your with a girl, and married to a guy, then its not cheating, it is. Don'tl lose your marriage over a little curiosity mixed in with a little flattery.

Answer 3

Then just tell her. Let her know she is a good friend, but just that -a friend. You are married and wouldn't cheat on your husband. Try not to act weird about it, or the friendship might start to fade.

Answer 4

Thank her for the ultimate compliment, and tell her how flattered you are...but you are married and you take your vows seriously. If she's truly your friend she will accept that. It's no different than some male friend saying it to you. If you do such a thing behind your husnband's back..it is still cheating. Marriage is all about honesty and trust right?

Answer 5

I would tell her exactly what you have written, that you are not interested, that you are happily married, and have no desire to be with a woman. Consider how you would feel if your husband was approached by a man with the same intention? How would you feel? How would you want him to respond? Think about it, and I am sure you will find the right words to tell you how you really feel.

Answer 6

If you were not married would you ? do you want to ? is having sex with another woman cheating ? Have you ever wondered what it would be like ? what part of her body are you most attracted to if any ?
Could you live with the guilt if you did ? Let me know what your answers are then I will answer your question, fair enough ?

Answer 7

If you have no interest in getting it together with your girlfriend but you don't want to offend her either, just say that you're flattered that she finds you attractive, but you don't want to cheat on your husband with anyone--a guy or a girl.

Answer 8

tell her the truth that u don't want to have sex with her.try putting yourself in your husband's shoes...what would he think? he's the man that you swore to cherish in sickness or in health, are u just gonna cheat on him like that? anyway,pretty or not,i don't think looks matter much. tell her to find someone else and sorry cause your body is for your husband only

Answer 9

i realy dont think she is your friend at all ,she knows your married and might be using what you say to her about you and your husbands sex life to get into your pants . its your call and you are bright enough to know that this sex thing could get nasty for all involved so take what you have already said about this issue and use it ,shes not for you

Answer 10

Get together with her and your husband. They say this is every mans' fantasy. Tell your friend you would not cheat on your husband, but would consider a menage a trois. This would be a blast for everyone.