Family - December 2007

Me and this married man were messing around/talking to each other for about 2 weeks. I have a b/f and he has a wife. Yes I know it was wrong and everything but I learned. Please just answer the question I am asking. We met at the gym cuz we both play racquetball. Well we stopped talking a couple of weeks ago b/c his wife was finding out and going w/him everywhere including the gym. There is still an attraction there def.! Tonight I was up there playing with my b/f and the other guy was also there playing his friend. One time, I got up and walked by him and he smiled at me.Then later he walked passed me and banged his racquet right by my leg up against the bleacher thing I was sitting on and looked at me and smiled and asked me if my b/f was mad cuz of him. I catch him looking at me when he is playing w/ his friends. I just want to know from a guy what all this means? I feel like he still likes me... he is still flirting with me... am i right? Will he come back for me one day?

2007-12-13 16:37:11 · 7 answers · asked by greenturtle 1

My daughter is 18. Her mother and I split up when she was like two and a half and I haven't had any contact since. I had to sign custody rights over allowing my ex's husband to adopt her because I was not in the position to be any kind of father at the time and he was. Now I've managed to get in touch with my ex and I'm trying to get in touch with my daugher just to let her know my side and try to form some sort of relationship with her. Now, I'm scared . What if she doesn't want to talk to me at all? What if I never get the chance to speak to her ever? Granted I'll have the answer to my question but what then? I can't see just giving up if she refuses but what??

2007-12-13 16:36:44 · 9 answers · asked by Mikey D 5

My husband & I recently sold our house & we have to move in with family for 3 months until our new house is ready. My husband works & I stay home with our son, he' 2. I get along good with my inlaws but the thought of staying with them is making me REALLY nervous & uncomfortable. I get a knot in my stomach just thinking about it. I guess I feel that I'll have to be this super perfect wife, mother & cook while we stay with them. I would LOVE to stay with my mother (she loves my husband & we're really close) but her house is smaller & my inlaws have a SUPER huge house with lot's of rooms. We'd still have room at my mother's but not as much & she has a dog (small one) but I know she worries about him & my son. Soooo...I don't know what to do! My inlaws offered for us to stay with them a long time ago & my mom did but she was kinda reluctant about it cause of the dog but she seemed unsure. Please help me decide...I just want everyone to be happy with our decision

2007-12-13 16:30:09 · 10 answers · asked by Another baby boy! 3

My Grandmother is coming from mexico.And she is pure mexican and i dont know what i should give her for chirtmas i really what it special becuase this is her first time here for chirstmas.

2007-12-13 16:23:32 · 5 answers · asked by M queen 1

Should I be afraid of this moron - husband of my niece who's been abusing her and is threatening to come to my house with a gun? I am trying to give her some kind of protection so she can get the nerve to denounce him. She totally stricken with fear!

2007-12-13 15:59:08 · 5 answers · asked by Pivoine 7

My Dads girlfriend of 3 years passed away 11-03-07 ... He is in complete shock because they had a big fight because he had to move from Miami to Tallahasse for a job and she didnt want to go . She stayed in Miami and a week later she Drown in a lake ... My Dad was on his way back to Miami to pick her up because she changed her mind and before he got there she already passed away... I came from Texas to my dads place to go to her services and ive never seen him so depressed... My sister and brother told me that i needed stay with him for awhile so he wont be alone and when i asked him if that it was he needed he said that he didnt want me to wate my time on him but im worried cause now all he does is drink and cry ... Should i move in for awhile and take care of things for him ????????????? ... What do you think?

2007-12-13 15:57:34 · 5 answers · asked by LEXI ♥ 1

im 40 and my daughters 17 and shes pregnant. my husband kicked her out of the house ( i was very upset) and shes in with her boyfriend. he has another kid and the mother left the baby with him. they are very responsible. the only thing is that in the house its the boyfriend,mydaughter, step sister, and 3 step brothers and step mom and dad. one of the step brothers have a crush on my daughter and he walks in their room when shes changing or when shes in the shower, how can i get her to come back home and make her boyfriend and her step child come live with me and my husband.

2007-12-13 15:49:26 · 11 answers · asked by Cheyanne L 1

my girlfriend is wanting to find her dad who she has not seen since second grade. her mother is now deceased and she has no information on him or family members other than his first and last name.

2007-12-13 15:46:42 · 2 answers · asked by amc_1970_sst 2

My little brother has a speech problem. He's almost 11. Speech pathologists don't know what it is. He says "awh" "uh" and he tends to repeat his words alot, but not like stuttering. for example: "awh, mum? awh, awh, awh mum?..." he also sometimes says a sentence and repeats the last phrase 2 or three times really quietly. Yet whats weird is that he speaks fine when he reads out loud. Me and my mum and dad feel bad for him, and he doesnt even know he has a speech problem. How should my mother or i approach this?
Man, i wish kids werent so cruel. hes actually really funny haha

2007-12-13 15:31:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

im thinking about moving out and i just wanna know how much money i would need a month to survive!!!

2007-12-13 15:28:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my granddaughter's mother..said she would had nightmares if she saw her father (my son) in the casket i said if there is someone to instill nightmares then she just might have them..I told her that would had been the end of the story .(seeing him in the casket ).and my grandduaghter won't have to be waiting for him to come home...i have a 6 year old daughter and she saw her brother in the casket and 2 other close family members she never have nightmare.i tell my daughter god took her brother because he needed a gardner to plant the trees and flowers ( seeing her brother in the casket. was the end of his store only memories) .my daughter in law tells my granddaughter her daddy is in heaven with the angels ..but my grandduaghter keeps asking when will daddy come home?..what do you think?

2007-12-13 15:21:24 · 19 answers · asked by gengen 3

While I was out of town, my husband went to his parents for dinner. We see them all the time (uhg). Since I was gone, his mom and sister started questioning him on all our recent personal decisions in our lives. They grilled the poor man.

We have had a rough year, but we have a plan, we have faith, and I know things are getting better. Maybe to outsiders it seems that we haven't made progress, but this is about us.

My mother in law says that when we are unhappy, it affects the entire family. **What do you say to that? It is not her business.

Supposedly "I" am the one causing my husband to be unhappy? By the way, we have a great marriage and we make decisions together, my husband just doesnt talk a lot to them. I have tried telling them things, and THEY JUST DON'T LISTEN!!!

I am really hurt be many things they said. I am back in town now. *Do I bring this up to them? *Or just stay quiet the next time I see them so they feel guilty?

2007-12-13 15:19:00 · 13 answers · asked by lefttheroom222 4

I mean he will always be my "daddy", but now it kinda makes since through the way he treated me different from my siblings, and I really dont look like him.... Can anyone give me any help on how to find my birth father. Also when I talk to my parents about it, they freeze up and really dont tell me much, so any help would be great

2007-12-13 15:09:10 · 7 answers · asked by Jenn 2

i have a older sister that is only 5 year older and she isn't the smartest but she boss me around so much i just want 2 hit her!! but she isn't even that smarter then me and my parents doesn't even care because they think i'm in less tm dumb which i'm not. i just can't wait till she gone off to collage in less then a year.

But i wonder if i can stand that long?

2007-12-13 15:01:56 · 2 answers · asked by Loan C 2

My brothers are very stubborn and consistently make very bad decisions. Earlier this week they snuck out of the house at 1:00 to go to a party hosted by some high school dropout friends of theirs. There was drinking but they said they didn't do anything. Then they walked over to a gas station nearby at 2:30. There had been a shooting right before then in the area. My parents finally got there (I was at college at the time) and picked them up.

My brothers refuse to think things through. They are fascinated by drug culture and one of them strongly considered doing something really strong (I don't remember what). They don't listen to me (older brother) or their parents or their grandmother (who they love and respect). The only people they listen to are their stupid friends, who are getting them into this stuff. In fact, they have the nerve to be MAD at my parents, who only took away phone priveleges and the right to take walks (they were too relieved to be mad). What can we do???

2007-12-13 14:46:17 · 10 answers · asked by silver40596 2

We are a family that lives pay check to pay check, then 2 months ago my husband me lost are jobs. My husband was gettig unemployment but they stoped it 11-9-07 and we were told we could figt it but it will take 2 months. he found a job this week and he will not get piad until after christmas. I have been looking with no luck! I don't know what I am going to do for cristmas for my children. we have 4 children (Kiya 7, Matthew 6, Kaley 3, and Lillian 1)
If anl one can help I will very great full. lovemybob119@yahoo.com
thank you

2007-12-13 14:44:27 · 9 answers · asked by rebecca c 1

In the past year, I won an North East Coast multi-state Lottery jackpot that after taxes, came about to a little over 48 million.

I was living on SSI due to anxiety problems caused from a violent and abusive childhood. I had been dating this guy for almost six years. He left for two of the months without even saying good bye b/c we'd been arguing about his rock & roll lifestyle partying. n the past few years he's been back, he plays a lot in bands at bars coming home drunk and high. His sisters have been demonic to me. He warned me they are drama queens. His mom and dad have been sometimes warm sometimes cold. They side with their daughters.

I have decided to give a quarter of my money (12 m) to charities around the world that I've already chosen based on reviews.

I am keeping half (14 million in a Swiss bank account and 10 million in USD here. *At some point I'd like to marry and get out of cold East coast for NW coast or maybe abroad. IDK.

I will ask questions now:

2007-12-13 14:41:57 · 9 answers · asked by Lil Blousou 3

My brother was an A hole to me growing up. I always hated it when someone smacked their food, and he knew it. He would always smack on purpose just to make me mad, whenever he could. Handing out gum to everyone around me, all that stuff. He always did it with that same smile on his face. Even after years of this, after begging, pleading and crying for him to just leave me the hell alone, he wouldnt. I don't think I can forgive anyone for that kind of mental torture. We are both older now and live outside the house and in our own apartment. Recently, he stayed with me for three days and it was the worst three days ever, because all those feelings came rushing back. Who is he to stay at my place after what he did to me? But I just held it in. He comes over every now and again cuz he left his phone charger, or some papers, he gets his stuff but then stays and sometimes even tags along with me and my friends. This is NOT cool. I;m gonna have to tell him to stay out of my life from now on.?

2007-12-13 14:37:24 · 43 answers · asked by Keith 2

okay, this morning, i asked my dad if he would drive me to school, but he said no cuz he had too many appointments later that afternoon to be able to come and pick...so, i asked my friend for a ride...when school ended i called my grandma to see if she could come pick me and my friend up - we were originally going to walk home, but decided otherwise...to call my grandma...i used my friends cell phone...a little bit before my grandma got to the school...my friend and i spotted our other friends riding their bikes towards the library...so we started talking to them and decided to go to the library and volunteer with them...when my grandma got there, we had her drive us to the library instead of my house...when i was in the middle of organizing books, my dad walked in and said, "ur in trouble, we're leaving, let's go." i was so confused! when we were in the car...he started telling me how irresponsible it was not to call him and blah-blah-blah...but he recently took my phone away...

2007-12-13 14:30:38 · 6 answers · asked by smashley:) 2

Even though I'm 17, I've already have 1 1/2 semesters of college under my belt, don't do drugs or alcohol, and maintain A's and B's. Overall a good kid, and 18's two weeks away, but my parent's are still smothering and controlling me. If i don't call or email at least once a week, or if I ignore/don't see/don't write back to my mom's emails, all hell breaks loose. I've tried talking to her, but every time it turns into her either getting her feelings hurt (because she feels like she's worthless now that her duty as mom is over, and gets seriously depressed) or gets angry (because she usually twists my words so that it's like I don't care about them anymore, and she flips out).

I don't know what to do...how can I talk to her to say "I'm a big boy now" without all the fireworks that's she's brought lately? I don't want to be an *** and break it to her hard and she get depressed, but I can't stand her treating me like a baby when I'm 18! PLEASE HELP!

2007-12-13 14:05:13 · 7 answers · asked by Ryan Koch 1

so my dad has recently gotten really sick and he has cancer and millions of other problems,,4 a while he was always tired and quiet but ever since he started his new medicine it causes him to not be himself exactly,,he talks a lot now, he acts diff, hes constantly singing or playing his guitar(he always does that but now he cant walk down the steps so he does it in the living room) which is where we watch tv and do hw and all that,,im happy hes getting more energy and is happier then he was but i cant handle it,its never quiet,,hes either singing,talking non stop, or having problems in the bathroom =( (yeah i didnt wanna hear about that either lol),,,but basically what im saying is i cant take it anymore and idk what to do,,i cant get away from it ever cuz even if i go to my friends house for a day its not enough,worst of all he even plays his quitar at night,,at first it was funny cuz he was acting so funny but know i just want him to act normal,theres nothing i can do 2 stop him

2007-12-13 13:50:49 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Emily♥ 3

okay so im 14 and my parents are divorced....i have been living with my mom and w e DONT get along... want to move in with my dad but my mom says i cant untill im 15...my friend when threw the same thing and went to court and they said she could leave at 14..by law...my mom is still claiming i have to be 15...do i rlly need to be 15? since i moved in with my mom i have been in alot of trouble...drugs, sex, stealing...ect. can i move in with my dad at 14 by law so i can have a chance for a better life and not **** my self over?..help please

2007-12-13 13:46:55 · 4 answers · asked by Karissa F 1

yea i told my parents that i was pregnant and they kicked me out of the house and im with my boyfriend. he knows. im living with him is other child who's 1, his step sister, step brother,step mom and his dad. he was happy but my parents freaked out . i dont know what to do anymore. between getting kicked out of the house an dliving with my boyfriend and his HUGE family. how should i handle this?

btw his older step brother hass a crush on me. and always walks in our room when im changing and stuff

2007-12-13 13:45:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had my daughter when i was 21, her "father" told me when she was 2 weeks old he wanted to sign over his rights and didn't want anything to do with her or me. i said okay.
she is now 4 1/2 and i have never heard from him.
I met a wonderful man and got married he has been there for my daughter since she was 8 months old. he has raised her physically, emotionally and financially.

i found out about 6 months ago my sister has been giving her biological father pictures and info on my daughter so i cut off all ties with my sister, because i felt betrayed she would do that.
well last week my husband and dad were at bible study and my dad brought up that he wished me and my sister would make amends. my husband said he does to but he understands why i would be upset..
my dad said, that he thinks my sister should show "tom" my daughters pics because he is her dad and he should see her.

well i am PISSED, my husband is her daddy that is raising her, her "sperm donar" took off and never

2007-12-13 13:41:35 · 5 answers · asked by 3 girls call me mommy 5

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2007-12-13 13:39:44 · 9 answers · asked by jalady 6

me and my bf have been together for more than 2 years we are pretty serious.he will be 19 a couple ofweeks before I turn 18 this upcoming february. he lived at my house with my parents in his own room for about 6 months then he just moved back to his moms house cuz since he is incollege & he has a car to pay and time for a part time job only and had to pay also my parents for rent his mom finaly desided to be nice and said she will pay for the car if he moved back.so he moved back. 3 weeks ago she is very rude to him and can be bipolar and .she never keeps her world orchanges what ever she said.... and me at my house I am out of high school now I dont start college until june08 and I am getting a job soon with my bf and we were thinking that as soon as i turned 18 and got a job and a car for myself we can move to a nice aparnment together.that is our plan i kno my mom would not approve because she said i have to be married to move out.sso weird so what should i do about that,

2007-12-13 13:31:28 · 3 answers · asked by tink 2

My sister is 14 years old and I'm 26. She's all into emo and that bs which I hate. Anyways I love her with all my heart cuz she's my sister. A while back she told me she cut herself. It brought great alarm to me and she swore to me up and down that she wouldn't do it again. So I agreed I wouldn't tell my father. Last week, I found out she did it again, cuz she posted it on myspace. Not the cut but just the fact that she did it. I was so enraged that I called her and started yelling at her and blamed it on the emo image. I was mad to think that she's following this lifestyle that teaches you to do this to yourself and thought it was all to blame. I had it finally and told our dad and he doesn't get that it is wrong to do this to yourself. He isn't seeking help for her, and tells me I'm making a bigger deal of it then it has to be. What do I do? I love her with all my heart, and don't want to see something happen to her and it sickens me that my dad isn't doing anything.

2007-12-13 13:30:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want a picture of me for myspace and i promised her to make it private so only my friends can see it and i wont expose myself or doing porn or anything but she still think its dangerous! i also want to do photography but my mom laughs at me about it.

i told her i wanted a cam for christmas but shes not going to give me one. i told her i want to save up for one but she's not going to allow it. WHAT CAN I DO? i feel left out that all my friends have pictures of themselves on THEIR private sites and all i have is a stupid picture of some cartoon

2007-12-13 13:30:15 · 2 answers · asked by stephine 1

I'm 22 and live in my own apartment. My mom and dad are going through a divorce. My dad cheated on my mom with a girl who was a lot younger than him.He is also on meth.This is the second time this has happened too. Yesterday he arrived back at my mom's house and she let him in (no idea why). I called today and my mom asked if my sister called and what she had to say about this. I said she was pretty peeved about it. My dad started yelling and freaking out. My mom said bye and hung up. She called back saying she called the cops and that she might need me to drive up there. Im freaking out. I love my mom (not my dad really) but am sick off all this. What do I do?

2007-12-13 13:27:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

she said i can get it done but won't let me she changed her mind and is being really mean i need soo much help!

2007-12-13 13:21:33 · 5 answers · asked by pellie4 2