My Dads girlfriend of 3 years passed away 11-03-07 ... He is in complete shock because they had a big fight because he had to move from Miami to Tallahasse for a job and she didnt want to go . She stayed in Miami and a week later she Drown in a lake ... My Dad was on his way back to Miami to pick her up because she changed her mind and before he got there she already passed away... I came from Texas to my dads place to go to her services and ive never seen him so depressed... My sister and brother told me that i needed stay with him for awhile so he wont be alone and when i asked him if that it was he needed he said that he didnt want me to wate my time on him but im worried cause now all he does is drink and cry ... Should i move in for awhile and take care of things for him ????????????? ... What do you think?
2007-12-13 15:57:34 · 5 answers · asked by LEXI ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Im 23 and i was staying with my Mother in Texas ...I just also moved back from Miami .
2007-12-13 15:58:23 · update #1
If it is possible for you to move in with your Dad and not risk loosing a job or neglecting school studies. It would be a kind thing to do to keep him company for awhile. I would just go there uninvited. You will know yourself ,when he no longer needs you. Good Luck
2007-12-13 16:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say anything intelligently.....but ask "what do you think" and what can you do?
You only get one Dad but he is suppose to be self supporting
this question has no "pat" answer. Only you and your future plans and your Dad's dilemma can conjure an answer.
Good-Luck my heart is with you.
If you could take the time from your life to be there for him...
I don't know you people so am not equipped to OPINE...
search your heart..can you help or will his mourning take its course so that he gains acceptance and goes on living.
sorry
2007-12-13 16:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by tagway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. For his safety and for his healing, someone has to stay with him. You also have to talk to him about this because he might be blaming himself for what happened to her.
2007-12-13 16:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes help him this is a really hard time for him thats what family is for
2007-12-13 16:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by i<3music 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately stay with him. he needs you and doesnt know how to say it and is ashamed to say it. be there for him because he needs you.
2007-12-13 16:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by ladidadida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋