okay so im 14 and my parents are divorced....i have been living with my mom and w e DONT get along... want to move in with my dad but my mom says i cant untill im 15...my friend when threw the same thing and went to court and they said she could leave at 14..by law...my mom is still claiming i have to be 15...do i rlly need to be 15? since i moved in with my mom i have been in alot of trouble...drugs, sex, stealing...ect. can i move in with my dad at 14 by law so i can have a chance for a better life and not **** my self over?..help please
2007-12-13 13:46:55 · 4 answers · asked by Karissa F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You would more than likely get along with your mom and have a better life if you would stop doing all of that crap. They could get it changed but they would have to go to court and that would cost a fair amount of money. I suggest you just clean up your life and start getting along with your mom.
2007-12-13 13:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by sanzoe 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
14 is old enough in most states.
Talk to your dad... ask him to take you to the court that handles your custody and talk to the judge about getting your custody transfered to your dad so you can live with him.
Explain to them that your mom has not done a very good job and you would like a fresh start with more guidance. Point out that you have a lot of ground to make up before you hit 18.
2007-12-13 18:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey at no expense is this funny. It is very hurtful to blame your mother for your trouble. I don't know what kind of mother she is. But do give her the respect she deserves. And the trouble you are getting in while with your mom, can very easily follow you to your dads. I can understand you wanting to make a better life for yourself. But you are not by yourself.
2007-12-13 14:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by springful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about taking responsibility for your actions now, just because you move in with your dad doesn't mean these other things stop, if you can stop doing drugs, sex, stealing, etc when you go to dad's then you can stop now and quit blaming your mom like a baby, you sound like a 2 year old and blaming everyone for your problems but the person really responsible for them YOU, YOU ARE THE ONE WHO IS TAKING THE DRUGS, GETTING IN BETWEEN SOME GIRLS LEGS AND TAKING THINGS THAT DOESN'T BELONG TO HIM AND LIVING WITH DAD IS NO MAGIC BULLET SO QUIT WHINING, GROW UP AND STOP SCREWING UP YOUR OWN LIFE, get a grip the real reason that you probably want to go to daddy's to live is probably because there is probably less supervision there GROW UP AND STOP BLAMING YOUR MOM FOR YOUR BAD BEHAVIOR
2007-12-13 13:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dale T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋