Me and this married man were messing around/talking to each other for about 2 weeks. I have a b/f and he has a wife. Yes I know it was wrong and everything but I learned. Please just answer the question I am asking. We met at the gym cuz we both play racquetball. Well we stopped talking a couple of weeks ago b/c his wife was finding out and going w/him everywhere including the gym. There is still an attraction there def.! Tonight I was up there playing with my b/f and the other guy was also there playing his friend. One time, I got up and walked by him and he smiled at me.Then later he walked passed me and banged his racquet right by my leg up against the bleacher thing I was sitting on and looked at me and smiled and asked me if my b/f was mad cuz of him. I catch him looking at me when he is playing w/ his friends. I just want to know from a guy what all this means? I feel like he still likes me... he is still flirting with me... am i right? Will he come back for me one day?
2007-12-13 16:37:11 · 7 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have been his latest conquest. Now that it's over, time for a little excitement, give you the look, see if it stirs up trouble. I think you've entertained him enough. If you don't like the boyfriend, please break up with him. Your treatment of him is no better. Not trying to be mean, but step back and take a look at what all this could do to him. If you love him, then be honorable, and loyal. That's what a relationship is all about.
2007-12-13 16:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Yes I know it was wrong and everything but I learned"(quote). It doesn't sound to me as if you have learned anything. It just sounds as if you both were almost caught in your affair, and now you are both still playing the "game', and I called it a game for a reason that's what it is the excitement of cheating and not getting caught or almost getting caught, Shame on you both to want to hurt people that care about you...have you even thought of the hurt you will be causing others ? does he have a family for example ? Break up with your boyfriend , you don't deserve him and do the decent thing and stop seeing the married man, what goes around comes around and one day you will be the wife at home, remember what you have done at that time.To answer your question sure he likes you he's getting some STRANGE ! Is he going to leave his wife and start a fairy tale lipe with you ? NO, you're a cheater.
2007-12-14 05:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by mom23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The NEVER leave their wives for the "other woman"... bank on it.
Of COURSE he likes you! You are available! He thinks you are a chump and is playing you.
He is perpetually looking for a side dish and he thinks he can string you along and keep you on the side while staying married.
Don't get with him unless he can show you the divorce decree showing that he grew some b@lls and made a change.
Don't sell yourself short by giving into his high-school flirting.
Better to move on and get with a guy that will build his world around you rather than keeping you in a dark closet and feed you scraps of attention when he can get away.
2007-12-14 00:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you wanted a man to answer this question for you, I just wanted to say you are playing a dangerous game with yourself move on you have a boyfriend and if he's not making you happy and you feel like you have to mess with marry men then its time for you to sit down ask yourself do your boyfriend put you second in his life, since you willing to settle for second in this Marry mans' life.
2007-12-14 01:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by lee lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not he is flirting with you, I honestly hope you stop getting involved with this man. He is married. Please have a little empathy for the wife. How would you feel if the tables were turned? Often, we are focused on ourselves too much that we forget how our actions and decisions affect the people around us. You are only dragging yourself into a potentially unpleasant situation. STOP RIGHT NOW.
2007-12-14 12:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by fairytaler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are disgusting. You "love" your boyfriend and you are chasing married men??? Do yourself a favor, dump your boyfriend b/c you don't love him - if you did you would never do what you are doing with this married guy.
Also, once you dump your boyfriend, I'm sure the married guy will divorce his wife and be your new man. So, the sooner you dump your boyfriend the better.
2007-12-14 02:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by Dina K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take any offense to this, i dont mean anything mean but if he was wanting to be with you he would have already left the wife. i have seen it at the place I work at. there is a guy that is married and has moved from girl to girl, and once they get to close to him and want him to leave his wife, he pushes them away, but loves having his fun if you know what I mean. i'd say find you a guy that wants to be with you and only you, and stay away from married men.
2007-12-14 00:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by ladidadida 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋