so my dad has recently gotten really sick and he has cancer and millions of other problems,,4 a while he was always tired and quiet but ever since he started his new medicine it causes him to not be himself exactly,,he talks a lot now, he acts diff, hes constantly singing or playing his guitar(he always does that but now he cant walk down the steps so he does it in the living room) which is where we watch tv and do hw and all that,,im happy hes getting more energy and is happier then he was but i cant handle it,its never quiet,,hes either singing,talking non stop, or having problems in the bathroom =( (yeah i didnt wanna hear about that either lol),,,but basically what im saying is i cant take it anymore and idk what to do,,i cant get away from it ever cuz even if i go to my friends house for a day its not enough,worst of all he even plays his quitar at night,,at first it was funny cuz he was acting so funny but know i just want him to act normal,theres nothing i can do 2 stop him
2007-12-13 13:50:49 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Emily♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
trust me,,,but do u have any ideas of how i can get away from it,,like what would u do if u couldnt get sleep,concentrate on hw, or just relax even,,, my life is so stressful lately, my mom is always worried about my dad,,and my sis is visiting so they go out 2 lunch 2gether and my dad gets fed but i have to make my own food cuz my mom and go out while im at school,,i feel so left out and alone and crazy lol,, my mom doesnt understand what im going through,when i try 2 explain it 2 her she gets mad and stuff. uhhhh i just dont know what to do about all this,,im gonna explode here
2007-12-13 13:54:28 · update #1
grr why dont people read questions right,,to the 2 people who said i should be happy hes alive,,i am, im not anoyed as much cuz hes being so talkitive and everything thats just 1 thing,,its mostly cuz of all the stress, and we found out hes not gona live much longer possibly and my mom just doesnt have time for me cuz shes always taking care of him so i feel like i have to take care of myself completly and im just a kid
2007-12-13 14:02:31 · update #2
Be happy he is still alive to annoy you. Speak to your mom about the music during the night but during the day find somewhere else to hang out. You have to realize how awful all of this is for your parents and grow up a little. Would it hurt you to make food for yourself?
Addition:
I lost my mom two years ago and the process of someone dieing is very difficult. I understand that you are a kid and I am sorry if I came off mean but this is one of those times you just need to grow up and take care of yourself for a little while. Think of how scard your mom must be knowing she is loosing the person she was supposed to grow old with and help her raise her great kids. Your dad must be scared that he is dieing and won't be there to take care of all of you. I am so sorry that all of you have to go through this because it sucks. The best advice I can give you is to just let it happen and stop trying to change him and the situation becuase you can't. All you can is to try to help your mom and find the best of it. No one deserves to loose their parent at such a young age and I am sorry that you are going through this. Just please take the time and spend as much time with your dad as you can handle. Can you find a project or something the two of you could do together? It might help him stop the annoying behavior. Good luck and your family is in my thoughts.
2007-12-13 13:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by sanzoe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always read the insurance CERTIFICATE, not the policy document. This is because car insurance policy documents always contain all possible variants of insurance that you can buy and it can be confusing if you are not absolutely sure what you're looking for - and you obviously don't. Even comprehensive insurance policies have lots of variations possible, which is why it is not the best place to look. The Certificate (and the schedule which accompanied it when the documents were delivered to you) will have the constraints (what you can and can not do) clearly written on it. If your dad's insurance Certificate contains the words "the policyholder may drive any vehicle not belonging to him or hired under a hire purchase agreement" (or something very similar) then he can drive your car under his insurance. It will only be 3rd party cover so if he dents your car then you can't make an insurance claim for the damage, it will only cover damage to other people's cars. If his Certificate does not have that permissive wording then he can not drive your car under his insurance. He can only drive under YOUR own insurance if your Certificate either: a) names him as a driver (named driver); or b) if it contains the words "...any person driving with the policyholder's permission" (or similar), which is called an Any Driver policy and is very rare these days. If your certificate does not have one or the other of these provisions then he can not drive under your insurance.
2016-05-23 11:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a selfish little thing you are. Would that my father was here with me, he could sing his heart out! Stop thinking of yourself, be glad you have him. And also be glad that the medicine isn't making him angry like it does to many others. I don't know how old you are, but you have obviously never experienced loss yet in your life. I hope you never do, but until then, chill out, and when he gets his loudest, join in. Laughter is the best cure for what ails.
And call hospice. They have lots of good advice. They can also send someone over to keep an eye on dad, so you and mom can go out and have some time together.
2007-12-13 14:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like everyone is going to explode. Get some earplugs, they will help with the noise. Ask your mom to pick up some frozen dinners and pizza for you because you understand she can't cook for you right now, but you need to eat. Check with your school and see if they don't have a support group for people who's parents are ill, or if there is someone for you to talk to. Good luck and I hope your dad gets well soon.
2007-12-13 13:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, your Dad, he's sick he wants to live his life to the fullest while he still is in it...just go to your room when he starts singins and playing his guitar.
2007-12-13 14:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by ツLuv~u~2ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for noise-cancelling earphones or earplugs for Xmas, and do your homework in your room.
2007-12-13 14:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i wish i had my dad your lucky hes is there to annoy you
2007-12-13 13:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋