what should i do?

Question

yea i told my parents that i was pregnant and they kicked me out of the house and im with my boyfriend. he knows. im living with him is other child who's 1, his step sister, step brother,step mom and his dad. he was happy but my parents freaked out . i dont know what to do anymore. between getting kicked out of the house an dliving with my boyfriend and his HUGE family. how should i handle this?

btw his older step brother hass a crush on me. and always walks in our room when im changing and stuff

im 17and hes 17. hes not going to leave me bc he has anothier kid and he was planning to marry her but she left and left the baby with him.

Answer 1

i think you and your bf need to get your own place, the main reason is because i think if u keep staying in that house you might do something with your bf's brother, i think its better if you leave his house, both of you are going to need more space for the baby and for yourselves. about you parents give them sometime and go back and talk to them with ur bf, i think they will help you if you have any problems.

Answer 2

tell ur parents that they are horrible parents becuase they can;t except the fact that you made a big mistake. I hope u don't get an abortion but anywayz i will probably get pregnant at 14 cuz my mom and gma and sister have all gotten pregnant at 17 16 15 and i am next. just live with it and chill bcuz u know once the baby is born ur mom will not keep her lips off ur baby's cheeks if you decide to let them see ur baby

with the best of luck to you and have some happy holidays

Answer 3

Parents usually cool off and become happy. When my husband and I got pregnant my mother-in-law threw a huge fit. Now my daughter is two years old and I cannot trust anyother person more than my mother-in-law. From hating her I know love her. Give your parents time. About your boyfriend's step brother... Talk to your boyfriend. Don't make any accusations, just say you feel uncomfortable when he does certain things. You don't want to make accusations and have a fight with your sister-in-law and end up getting kicked out with your boyfriend. What ever happens your parents DO love you. They just feel dissapointed. Put yourself in their position.

Answer 4

You may want to move out with your boyfriend. There is a huge chance of conflict when you're living with a big group. Take care of your health. Prioritize your baby inside. You're baby is the important thing that happened to you. Make sure you eat healthy and sleep on time. Let your parents be for a while. Of course they feel very upset. Let them cool down for a while. When you feel like you're all ready to talk, go to them and have a talk. Tell them you're plans about you're baby.

Answer 5

Well first of all..

Are you pregnant?
or did u just tell you're parents that?

second.. I think if they are kicking you out.
then two things I suggest..

1- Move in with you're boyfriend's family, Try to live with that.
or Second.. I suggest moving in with a friend?

Answer 6

i cant believe your parents kicked u out!!! Thats definitely NOT love.
I suggest u and your bf find teh means to move out, as you will have to do it eventually when teh baby comes anyway. All the best

Answer 7

I would ask your b/f how he intends to handle his new family.

I read your other questions, obviously you were not using birth control. I would suggest you talk to your mother now and ask her to help you. You are too young to be anyone's mother.

Answer 8

maybe you should talk to your parents i mean they have to understand and if you dont have the guts youll be living with that big family oh and by the way bout the big bro tell ur bf or tell him off idk hope it helps

Answer 9

First of all how old are you if your really young you should not be having sex .Because your not ready for this.do you even have a job does he? ps his going to leave you