what is a cheap way other than searching yahoo to find ones long lost parent??

Question

my girlfriend is wanting to find her dad who she has not seen since second grade. her mother is now deceased and she has no information on him or family members other than his first and last name.

Answer 1

Thanks Gus another answeror for this bit of information...

Time to move to friends and relatives of the person. If you don't konw of anyone else that might have the information your after then you've hit a road-block, the only way around is with money, or some leg work to find them, friends of them. or family of them... good luck, been there before..... o yea my space might suprise you, but they'd have to be the ones to use my space....


You can locate people through the internet by the following ways.

On many "paid" sites, you can get a lot of information without paying anything! You'd be surprised just how much you can find out without agreeing to pay them one dime! Try it!

A couple of sites that are not free, but that can help you piece together information, are

Intellius People Search

http://www.intelius.com/people-search.ht...

and this one, Melissa Data People Finder, gives a lot of information before having to pay.

http://www.melissadata.com/cgi-bin/peopl...

You can take sites like those, along with WhitePages.com and www.zabasearch.com (which allows you to leave free messages for people you are searching for) and google for any information you might have, such as an email address.

So, first start with the "free" side of paid sites (don't pay them a dime; just glean from their free portion of services!) to glean what information you can, then go after the free public sites with gusto, and combine the "free" paid and "completely free" sites together to find the information you need. Sometimes you'll have to switch back and forth between the two in order to piece together your information, but the extra bit of time is worth it!

Try free public records searches, such as county clerk records and property tax records. Narrow it down first by state, then by county or city.

Top Ten Links for free public records searches, such as property tax, court records, and obituaries:

http://websearch.about.com/od/effectives...

Contains free birth, death and marriage records, including U.S. territories. United States Vital Records Information:

http://www.vitalrec.com/

Free state property tax searches: http://publicrecords.netronline.com/.......

Search state and county clerks' offices public records by state, most are free. Many links per state! A wealth of info. http://www.publicrecordfinder.com/......

Court records, criminal records, and property records: http://www.pretrieve.com/

For free military records, use Military.com Buddy Finder:

http://www.military.com/military/locator... - Search over 20 million records for military buddies.

Many links and resources for military records:

http://websearch.about.com/od/peoplesear...

Those include The Unofficial Air Force Email Locator, Navy WorldWide Locator, Shipmate Search, The Citadel People Search, and USMC Military Reunions.

If you are looking for prison records, try here:

http://www.thepamperedprisoner.com/inmat... - State prison records for every state, alphabetized.

http://www.corrections.com/ - Go under the Resources tab and click on "Inmate Locator." They have most states listed.

For federal prisons:
http://www.bop.gov/ - Has an inmate locator and a facilites locator.

http://www.vinelink.com/index.jsp...... - Prison inmate locator by state.

Obituaries 101 - Features every American state major newspaper with links to obituary sections

http://www.big101.com/obituaries101.htm....

If you absolutely decide you must pay, here are a couple of highly rated investigative services. They have unlimited search fees from $29 to $34.95.

Net Detective http://www.netdetective.com/
Reverse Records http://www.reverserecords.org/

Yahoo also has a people locator

http://people.yahoo.com/

Answer 2

Look at it this manner, in case your dad and mom are dissatisfied with you for making touch along with your organic father's loved ones. They have each and every correct to be dissatisfied. However it nonetheless does not difference how they've lied to you these kind of years. You grew up pondering your mum's companion was once your father. Your mum lied to you as good as this guy you referred to as "dad". Reasons will fluctuate: "to defend you" is also their reply or to defend themselves extra love it. Saying he's a violent guy, good, let's accept it the person within the ex dating is continuously a mad violent character, so the ex-female friend says. That's simply to take a look at and persuade you to not speak to him. As for dis-respecting your dad and mom - keep in mind they lied to you. So they didn't admire your emotions. Go to your questions and solutions. Get your organic father's aspect of the tale. Ask if he's violent or raised his hand in your mom. You could honestly uncover, he's loving and worrying and your mom threatened him to stick away.