Family - November 2007

My sister and niece started some chaos with me and got my mother involved in it saying untrue things that I supposedly said and I didn't. My mother was upset and confronted me about it and began yelling at me and I had to hang up the phone on her and we didn't speak for a few weeks. Well now my mother knows that I didn't say what they implicated that was said by myself and she is now talking to me. However, my sister and niece are still acting like they are high and mighty and better than me and have always treated me in this manner. I don't want to be around them and I don't want there to be any problems at my mother's home during the holiday. My sister cannot leave things alone and I know she will say something smart and I have had it with her and my other sisters with the way they act because they married into money and thing they are better than everyone else; should I stay away or should I go and hope that nothing will be said to start any problem.

2007-11-20 19:12:00 · 12 answers · asked by Gypsy 2

Last month my son told us that he was beginning the process of legally changing his name to Cash-Money God. I don't know the significance of it, but I figured it was just him being a rebellious 17 year old boy. He claims his real name, Ralph Finkelstein, isn't "gangsta" enough. Today he showed me the papers and all he has to do is submit them to city hall on Monday and it's official! I never thought he was seriously going to do this! As if this isn't bad enough, when my daughter found about what her brother was doing, she thought it was cool and told us that she decided to legally change her name to Jenny Juicy-Legs. She also doesn't like the name my wife and I gave her, which is Agnes Finklestein. Plus, she's only 16 years old! I tried to talk them out of this but they say I have no moral authority since I legally changed my name last year to Super King when I launched my rap label. What should I do with my 2 rebillios children

2007-11-20 18:43:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was recently cought smoking by my dad. he tottally freaked and my computor, cellphone, and i-pod were taken away. My mom said that i would get my cellphone back if i apoligized to her and my dad. it was easy to say sorry to my mom but its gonna be hard to say it to my dad. anytime i want to talk to him i start to cry and he gets angry and ends up yelling at me. How do i say sorry to him?

2007-11-20 18:42:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 20 yrs old and live with my dad. Im going to currently going to college. I help out around the house, keep my crap picked up and when my sibling come and visit i make sure theres food in the house and help while my dads working and so he can go out.

When should i move out so i don't over stay my welcome?

2007-11-20 18:24:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, my father has always been really hard on my about my school life. So the other day, after a severe mental breakdown, My mom took me in and i dropped my math class [ i was failing] and was demoted to another class next semester. During this whole time, i had a tutor. I forgot about my second meeting with the tutor, in which he chewed me out on harshly. Then, thinking tutoring was cancelled for the Thanksgiving holiday, i did not go tuesday as well. My father called to day and sounded like i was the biggest piece of s*** in the entire world. And on top of that i have to go to his house for Thanksgiving, AND i dont think the counselor EVER told him about the class drop like he said he would. i really really dont want to go see my dad, because every time i talk to him, i come home wanting to put a bullet through my brain. And a few times i almost did it to. What should i do??

2007-11-20 18:14:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story!!!!!! :(

2007-11-20 16:38:25 · 39 answers · asked by Bo-bo22 1

my 94 yr old father has a serious brain injury complicated by alzhiemers disease and my 89 yr old mother is in a nursing home recouperating from a fractured hip bone,heres the problem,with my father the way he is and no one home but me should my brother look into getting a nurses aide to help me cope with my fathers illness? i think so,but my brothers excuse for not getting one is this" your living home with dad,therefor you take care of him"! whos right? i feel that dad is getting to be a little cantankerous and he looses things and is constantly misplacing utensils parts of coffee pots,address books,i end up in a big argument with dad,i tell him where did you put the address book and i get a stupid answer.he always denys loosing things and blames me!what can be done,im slowly loosing my patience!

2007-11-20 15:24:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, here it is:

I am 30 yrs old & currently living at home with my father. A few months back, I asked my husband to move out because we were having problems. He was never home, stayed out late & came home drunk from time to time. Eventually we will divorce but here is the root of my problem. We always lived with my dad because were saving to buy a house. When I realized how unhappy we might be, I asked him to leave. We split our joint acct evenly but I flew through that money paying bills. I have no real way to save money because now I'm going half with my dad on the rent. I feel trapped. I thought about taking out a loan to facilitate a real move- out of state perhaps for a fresh start, but I don't need more debt. I partly blame my father because he always wanted me close by & that's some of the reason why my husband stayed out so much. I am miserable. I'm often at the mercy of whoever comes over for my dad because I have nowhere else to go. I'm losing my mind. Any advice?

2007-11-20 15:15:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

im almost 16 and shes 45.. she drinks alot of popov vodka everyday andwont admit it .. shes fine all day the around 6 she just slowly becomes drunk.. my whoel family knows about it but she wont talk about it. if i try and talk to her when shes sober she just trys to change the subject or just stops talking to me and gets mad if i talk to her when shes drunk she acts like a jackass and just says im drinking water and im fine and stupid stuff liek that when its 100% obvious shes drunk..so i can talk to her about it and she hides the vodka throughout my house..its a big house but i have found it a couple of times and dumped it out.. im not sure if i should do something or just let her live her life how shes wants something i noticed is before maybe 2 years ago she would buy vodka in the store while i was sith her and she would acually drive with it and drink it and i would be like can i have a drink of your water and she would say ya and i would drink it and be like ew..add details

2007-11-20 15:08:29 · 26 answers · asked by Chris Webb 2

I have a million things going on in my life right now and I have all of the weight on my shoulders. I work a full time job, have a family, and a Mother in a nursing home that I feel guilty about not going to see every day. How am I suspose to lift some of this? (and don't say talk to my family because they all seem to think I have nothing to do or be depressed about)
I am a really fun, and easy going (which is one of my problems, I let to much slide) person and I want to be that person again.
Any ideas?

2007-11-20 15:01:26 · 8 answers · asked by MomToDavid 5

how do i tell my sister that i hate the birthday present she got me?? she seemed so happy when she gave it to me and i was kinda disappointed. id rather she not give me a present at all. btw, she gave me a bright pink lehenga bordered in blue and gold and i REALLY hate it and might prefer it in a different color, but how do i tell her??

2007-11-20 15:01:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i got married on july 7,07 and you know the part when they say if their are anyone who thinks these people should not oin in marrage speak now or fover hold your peace? well my mother in law raised her hand and said " that i really dont think they should get married wait scratch that i dont feel like they should get married because she is a cry baby, she wants everyone to like her but i don't and my third eye is telling me that they will not last and that my son is making a huge mistake and he is way to good for her!" i started to cry and all i could think of is that she ruined my day. but since no one agreed she walked out and we got married instead. i am so hurt of what she did and then when we were on our honeymoon and called and told my husban d oh you made a huge mistake and you would regret marrying a b****. and now my dad in law invited us to go to their house for thanksgiving and i really dont want to go but my dad in law already paid for the tickets we are leaving tom

2007-11-20 14:57:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom is a very sensitive person when it comes to anything. And i've been dating my boyfriend for a year now and want to move out and in with him. Im 21 years old and very responsible. But everytime I bring it up with my mom she starts crying and we can never finish talking. How should I bring this up with her? Or should I just move out and let her feelings go wild. I need help and don't want to hurt my mom. Thanks anyone.!

2007-11-20 14:53:01 · 9 answers · asked by kissable_chipmunk 1

ok i have a problem and im only 14 so there isnt much i can do..... well my mom has been drinking for some time now and its starting to get bad i mean to where she drinks every day. It never used to bother me b4 but its got to the point where she picked me and the neighbor up from school buzzed. and it really makes me mad b/c i am starting to have parties and she drinks during them and comes out and starts to be really anoying........ we can all clearly tell she is drinking to...... and its really tearing my family apart my dad almost went up to our cottage one time b/c he could take it anymore idk what to do most nights i cry myself to sleep b/c shes not doing anything to stop and when shes sober and we confront her she denies it or blams it on us..... also we tried to dump her liquore and whisky but she buys it and hides it..... then she promised if we stopped dumping it she would slow down but again she lied..... i really need help my dad and brother dont know what to do!! :'( plz

2007-11-20 14:43:55 · 7 answers · asked by UrbanGirl 2

My biological father who I have rarely seen in my 32 years of life is coming to Txgiving dinner for the first time. I am not happy about my brother inviting him, however, I am taking everyone's advice and am going to go anyway. My brother refers to this man as "Dad" (they rekindled their relationship a few years ago). I have yet to rekindle our relationship; I barely know this guy since he hasn't been involved most of my 32 years. My question is when I see him this Txgiving, do I call him "Dad?" I have always referred to him by his first name "Bob" when talking about him. I don't want my brother to get upset, however, I am not comfortable calling him "Dad" nor do I feel as if he is worthy of me calling him "Dad" What do you think?

2007-11-20 14:33:47 · 9 answers · asked by renea_phd 2

he walks in on my and my boyfriend without knocking all the time, he goes threw my stuff, flips my bed over, breaks and steels things. i've tried putting things in my room that will scar him for life but he just thinks its funny and tells his friends. i have tried locks, yelling till im blue in the face, matury explaining this to my mom, imaturly explain this to my mom. nothing works im at a loss. what. do. i do? im on the border of insanity

2007-11-20 14:31:52 · 10 answers · asked by Notyret 2

he is just trying to make me responsible!!but he pays my moms bill!!

2007-11-20 14:11:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate him.. He doesn't let me or my sister out of the house except for school, and when we're with him or my mom.. I feel left out all the time around my friends, and they stopped inviting me to do stuff because they know the answer anyway. I'm not even allowed to go to birthdays. I'm turning 19 in four months.. What should I do? I had it...really sometimes I think about ending my life because I can't stand it anymore.. Please help, and don't tell me to try to talk with him because I've tried like a million times, but he doesn't care about me or my feelings, and my mom knows he's wrong but she deosn't do anything, she won't even talk to him..

2007-11-20 14:06:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my school, a boy I just see i the hallways, died of a disease a few days ago. The teachers and counselors told our class today that he died. I never knew him or talked to him. But I was crying, from hearing this and it hurts. Now Im very worried if a loved one (mom,dad,siblings) dies, how much more will it hurt?

2007-11-20 14:03:11 · 9 answers · asked by AC 2

So I barrowed a movie set that was 7 disks long. She told me to return it when I was done and I was so I gave it to her and it was missing 2 disks. I lied and said that it was my brothers fault. Now I regrete it because she has a attitude and she mad. She said, "You best hope that you find it or im going to hit you!"I wrote 25* each that I was sorry, but I dont think she forgives me.I need help what should I do?

2007-11-20 13:16:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay I'll make this simple and clean k? my mom bugs me about the smallest stuff nowadays(AND DON'T TELL ME SHE'S WORRIED ABOUT ME CAUSE SHE AINT'S YA JACK@$$'S) and personaly I want to tell her to go away somewhere unfortunatly I never tell her due to the fact she's a ***ch whens she's angry and blames me for my own faults..............either way point is I hate her but I don't know weither to cause her great misery( and people I luv seeing people in pain too) or just don't even akknolwdge(sp? sorry) her as a human being but as a stupid worm below me

2007-11-20 13:11:37 · 20 answers · asked by RC 2

My boyfriend is definately a man's man...he is way into sports, is very rugged looking and sometimes says things that make my jaw drop. Today I was having an issue with my son, and he went and sided with him making me out to be the ogre mother picking on her son. I've had to play both the role of father and mother where my boys are concerned and I've had to be tough.
Why can't a man just mind their p's and q's and think before they speak?

2007-11-20 13:10:49 · 3 answers · asked by Rogue 5

2007-11-20 12:57:14 · 8 answers · asked by lei 1

My dad thinks that he can read people's minds and that he knows what you'll do and say. Like just now, he was criticizing me and my sister (mostly my sister) and i'm on computer trying to do my essay. Hearing this argument, I turned my head to see what the hell's going on. And he starts saying how i feel about this and how i'm going to defend myself and my sister...what a retard.

what should i do? he's going to drive me nuts soon with all the guessing "what people will do" and guessing "how he/she is feeling about this". and the funny thing is, 95% of the time, he's wrong (actually 99.9%).

2007-11-20 12:41:56 · 5 answers · asked by Lilyan 1

I'm 15 (16 in Jan). Currently I live with my mom and aunt (have since I was 5 or 6). My aunt is mentally unstable (she's been diagnosed) and she used to hit me (she won't now because I'm bigger than her) and she constantly insults me. My mom is disabled and needs surgeries (she's always in pain) so there's not much there. Even tiny things can get to her. I have no friends. I'm not allowed to make friends with the neighbor kids because my aunt believes they constantly spy on us. My dad's a drug addict. I have almost no other family and they're old and I don't know them very well. The other part of my family doesn't speak to me. The last grade I completed in school was sixth grade. I barely leave the house. I have a problem with cutting. I asked my mom for help but she did nothing. I don't want to live with my family anymore. What can I do?

2007-11-20 12:37:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know what to do..I am all alone and its 7pm and there won't be anyone else here till 10..im so bored and sad and alone!

2007-11-20 12:24:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I came home from work about 30 min early and my mom and dad were naked in the bedroom having sex.. it was not my fault that i saw this because i told my mom im comming home early and thedoor was wide open. I havent talked to my mom or dad for the whole day. I just feel so gross and dont even want to go into their bedroom. What should i do?

2007-11-20 12:23:42 · 42 answers · asked by J.C_22 1

I dated an older married man for three years off and on. I am 32 and he is 50. After I realized that the divorce was not going to happen I ended our relationship. Then he became friends with my mother all of a sudden. My mother hated him initially because she knew we were seeing each other and he was her age but she would put her feelings aside because I am an adult. She would just turn her nose up when she seen him as if he were a child molester. Now I haven't spoken to my mother in 2 months because the man I slept with for three years is now banging my mother and he is always at her house. This ordeal has drove my little brother away, he lives with me now becuase he can't stand to hear the sounds of love making knowing who it is that's having relations with his mother. I think it is sick and I have lost all respect for my mother. My kids (her grandkids) are dissapointed because they know too. Oh and yes if you are wondering he is still very married.

2007-11-20 12:18:13 · 22 answers · asked by Lightning 1

in school last year my gpa was 3.0 steady this year its just the 1st semester and i got a 3.5 alreay but they treat it like its nothing like "oh yea i expect that from you your the smart kid out the bunch" when i reall worked hard to get all a's and b's on my report card and then they was happy with my little brother when he got c's and b's on his report card and gave him $$ for it and like i said i got a's and b's and didnt get nuthin not even a pat on the back.....why

2007-11-20 12:12:15 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 17(i'll be 18 next month) i'm n school in my parents treat me like a little kid.... i can't talk to them about anything for example when me in my friends go out i always have to take my brother with me! i stay in the house all the time because they don't want me going any where.... i really don't know what to do HELP ME! i just feel like running away!

2007-11-20 12:07:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous