Family - November 2007

2007-11-22 00:20:04 · 4 answers · asked by cathy 1

2007-11-21 23:58:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

can any1 help i have this evil M.I.L in march 2006 i got pregnant and i moved into my patrners mums and dad house everything was great!! until towards the end of my pregnancy she started taking over i never chose my pram my M.I.L she always made the decisions when the baby was born and when you give the baby his first bath and bonding and stuff me and my partner coulnt have tht time togethner with our new baby cuz she was there and didnt allow it .when the baby wud cry she wud snatch him away frm me and tell me tht she wud get social services on me & my partner if i didnt do wot she wanted i told my boyfriend about it and he tried and now my sons 11mnths old and she still goes on now my boyfriend always listens to his mum and aggressive with me i feel like im on my own no support frm my partner she has wrecked my life i cant forgive her ever is tht evil ?all i wanted to be was a family and MUM wot should i do truthly thankyou xxxx

2007-11-21 23:57:46 · 9 answers · asked by sarah j 1

A few weeks ago I asked my mom and sisters about Thanksgiving and they said they didn't know what they were going to do. Last week I called my mom and she told me all of my sisters were going to her place and they were all bringing food and they had everything planned out. No one called to tell me and my mom changed the subject. Last night one of my sister's called and asked what was I bringing to mom's and I told her I don't know, no one told me anything about it. Then she called my mom and called me back going off about how I never call them and I need to call mom. I do call my mom and sisters, but they hardly ever answer. So I called my mom twice and she never answered her phone. Some friends of mine invited me to share Thanksgiving with them. I think I should go to see my friends. I just don't want to even deal with my sisters and mom. What would you do?

2007-11-21 23:18:42 · 7 answers · asked by Jaylynn 1

I have 5 brothers 2 older and 3 under 5yrs. 1 set of identicle twins! They all have big mouths and tell my best friend lies! So now she thinks i'm weird! How do i stop 3 younger bro's from doing it!!!!!?

2007-11-21 23:16:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I used to be really cheeky and think that everything that I got I deserved, as in material things and love etc. As I've grown earlier I realise that my mum and dad have given so much to me and that I dont deserve to have it all.

They have given me everything that I ever wanted growing up and I only remember being a stroppy teenager not thanking them for anything.

I also had a boyfriend at 17 and I just rebbelled from school etc all the while my mum and dad were supporting me etc. I feel so bad.

Now I am in second year uni I feel so guilty for being like this and I just want to make my mum and dad proud.

I also dont like things about myself and I know my mum and dad wouldnt like my uni way of life sometimes. The way we go out, all the boys etc. I feel as if I need to be perfect.

What do you think?

2007-11-21 22:15:50 · 6 answers · asked by lozziebach 1

im thinking i should start a diary

2007-11-21 21:24:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

okies so i just got home from class around 10ish. So i walk in the kitchen to ask my mom why she call me, and she called me during class when i didn't want to pick up. She goes and asks me AGAIN to borrow more money. >:[ how am i suppose to go early Christmas shopping? than she goes and says that oh ill pay you back on that 15 of December, when i know she doesn't have the money to. Anyhooters ... i went upstairs to go check my e-mail and such. Than she comes in my room and asks me again O_o I didn't give her a answer but now she's getting all butthurt cause i wont let her borrow 300 dollars and saying that if you wont let me borrow than FINE, . Why would she say that? and she knows that i need to buy new cloths and the stupid thing is i gave her 700 dollars from my financial aid not so long ago like i said in my other question i gave her 400 to fix her teeth cause she broke it, 500 is to pay back her friend. I only received 1,500 and its like she is taking it all.

2007-11-21 17:48:15 · 9 answers · asked by nancy 2

I knew our family was hurting a little but I asked my husband if I could put today's groceries on the credit card and he said it was on the verge of being maxed out and if things don't change we are going to be bankrupt after Christmas.
He usually pays all the bills for the house I have asked him to show me and he has yet to sit down with me and show me where our money is going. I know he's not spending it or hiding anything from me. We can't seem to make ends meet aparently.
We have 2 kids and are expecting a third. We have gotten my brother to take over my car payments and insurance (as he needed a car and we did not need 2). I have gotten my parents to take over the cell phone bill and the satellite dish bill as we share and we payed for them for a year and now they will pay for it for a year. We have quit smoking and eating out as much. I can't figure it out.
I'm a stay at home mom and my one daughter goes to play school 3 days a week so she can socialize with other kids.

2007-11-21 17:43:11 · 5 answers · asked by niknac 1

omg!! i cant stand myy mom anymore! i hate her!! she is getting on my nerves i am getting blamed for everything! even when its my brothers fault!im 13 and he's 6 he makes a mess who gets in trouble for it? me! he yells who gets in trouble for it? me!!! im getting in trouble for every little thing!! sometimes i jsut want to kill her!! i think about doing suicide because of her!! she spoiled and she's happy as long as she gets what she wants! she doesnt care about me at all!! only my brother!! what do i do?????

2007-11-21 17:29:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My aunt got married to this guy who is NOT as wealthy as the rest of our family!! My grandmother can't STAND her new Step-son. Neither can I!!! Or the rest of my family!! Its so funny to be sitting at the dinner table when ever something about him comes up. HA!! ALL of the stories are told! He is like suicidal, gothic and a CREEP!!
NOW before you go off, let me explain!!
HE comes to visit with his father and my aunt for a short while because they were picking up this old furnature. HE DID NOT LEAVE THE CAR!! He STARED at the dash board, was TOTALLY uninterested in even registering us as human beings!!!!
He didn't even dress up for my aunt's wedding. He wore his GOTH crap. He is like 17, and he didn't even bother to rent a Range rover or something to show up at the reception in. He did NOT fit in with the rest of our cars!!
Me and my sister and cousins are planning to dress really preppy and anti goth to make him feel uncomfortable tomorrow!! to show him how much money we have!

2007-11-21 17:23:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My uncle (I'm thirteen), watches sex videos and looks at pictures of naked women. I know this because when I look in Recent Documents, it says a title of a GROSS video or picture. My uncle and aunt have a 2 1/2 year old son, who very much loves his mom and dad. I don't know if I should tell someone about this, because when I open my mouth to say it, I get a bad feeling in my stomache and imaging my little cousin crying while my Aunt yells at my Uncle, and I see them both yelling at me, "IT''S ALL YOUR FAULT THAT MY FAMILY IS TORN APART! I HATE YOU!" Should I tell at least my Aunt, who I have told many secrets to?
And no you f'ing ______ out there, I won't tell you where he got those pics and videos.
Please don't report this question, I am pissed of a lot already.

2007-11-21 17:09:08 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to be a nanny,then i want to travel to shimla to find a family that needs help with their kids &house hould stuff. PLZ i consider this rather than trying to kill myself as a coward & not face the tough situstions. By being a nanny i can atleast have a shelter over my head, food for my stomach, decent job by helping out another human being with their lives,so that they don't get fedup & take wrong decisions. Finally i will be earning some money by myself. I seriously need help.

2007-11-21 17:03:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK I was following instructions from a turkey recipe. He then comes along and just adds this extra ingredient and then it was too late when I told him off. Then I didn't care no more and went off since he ruined the ingredients. I sat and watched him take over and he added 5 times more salt and added in sugar when we're not suppose to.

I am so fu**en frustrated. Hes old fashion Chinese with South Asian influence... I'm an American born and I have a way higher level of education. Why is he such a barbarian? He thinks his way is always right and never listens to others unless my mom yells at him, too bad my mom wasn't home...

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-21 16:52:16 · 11 answers · asked by Closed 5

My Daughters boyfriends family is having dinner, as the same time our family is, and she won't go to either? If you were choosing which would you go too. and Why? And or if could she actually make both, and not be to late, dinner is at 12 or so at the boyfriends family and 1 or so at out 45 minutes a part in drive.

2007-11-21 16:36:55 · 6 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4

telling other people my personal business... talking about me behind my back... calling me obscene names behind my back... and so forth... someone please tell me why friends have to such a thing...

2007-11-21 16:34:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister who is 14 started going out with a guy who is 15 yesterday. My parents gave her permission to go to a movie with friends and the boy. I went to check on them in the theatre and i saw they were making out. I told my mom she went in and took my sister out. I am worried that their relationship is progressing fast. How do i stop it? should i stop it?

2007-11-21 16:17:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been messing around with a married man for about a week now and today I got a phone call that I didnt know the number and I answered and said hello twice and a woman came over the phone and said "You're in trouble" and then hung up. I called the number back and nobody will answer even on a different phone that I use. So then I text messaged the guy and asked him if she called me and I told him the number and he said he had no idea wat that # is and that she asked him this morning if he had been talking to someone on the side. I told him i DID NOT WANT to carry on anymore with it and he told me to just lay low for a little bit until it cools down w/his wife. He also said that he still wanted to talk to me & he is still gonna text me and asked me if i work this weekend b/c its a gym and he works out there. I guess he wants to see me? All I am asking is... DOES THIS SOUND LIKE HE IS PLANNING ON STILL CONTINUING ON W/ME? I am not saying I will either......please dont criticize!

2007-11-21 16:15:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems like his drinking has gotten worse since he retired. We can't even have a nice day ever beacuse he is always bitching about what my mom makes for dinner. And her meals are good too! I hate seeing him belittle her. And now tonight, mhelping make thanksgiving dinner he comes home drunk (which he is usually drunk by this time at home anyways) and is swearing around my daughter (his granddaughter) and being a buligerant jerk. Please do not even suggest a inertvention or rebahd or AA. It wont ever happen, he is to old and stubborn. He would seriously have to be drugged and kidnapped to be taken their.

We pray for it to and we pray for him to find God. Thats all we can do. But I can't stand this anymore. Its not right the way he acts around my daughter. By the way we are living he temp. Can anyone share some exp they have with this kind of thing? Thanks in advance.

2007-11-21 16:07:25 · 7 answers · asked by MiMi ♥ 4

you know, the black sheep of the family or just a 'failure' in their sight.

Thanks for answering!

2007-11-21 15:59:19 · 15 answers · asked by CaffeineLover 3

i live with my dad and stepmom not to mention her two kids which convinced me that the devil is real. well im really tired of the situation, i cant live with this any more. its senior year and i dont need more frustration. well my mom lives like 40 minutes away. do you think i should move over there for now?

please help me :]

2007-11-21 15:50:01 · 12 answers · asked by dreamer 2

Six years ago I began dating a single father. His son is 13. We live in NY. His sons mother lost custody of her two children (she had each child with different fathers). I won't delve into nasty details. My boyfriend has sole legal & residential custody. The children spend two weekends a month together w/mom and a few hours during the week as well. They are both happy and thriving living with their dads. The mother is very nasty and angry. All the time. She is verbally abusive. When we have to deal with her we are filled with anxieity, and her son is frightened. There is absolutely no way to respectfully deal with her. It's her way or else. She's also the type to falsely allege. CPS or cops when mad. This leaves my boyfriend and I mentally exausted and almost ill when we know we have to see her. We're considering a move. Not to keep her from seeing her son, just an area we want to live. 3 hours away. We worry that if child is asked he may choose to live with her out of fear. Thoughts?

2007-11-21 15:49:34 · 3 answers · asked by sad_in_ny 1

what would u do if your cousin from india called you ans said "we were looking forward to seeing you as well...would u make plans to visit india..my last trip to india was in december 2003

2007-11-21 15:40:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was laying by me earlier and we were watching tv and she was rubbing my arm and she said "thats gross you need more fat in your body" and it really hurt my feelings and she always says im too skinny

i'm 17 and I'm 5'6 and 105 pounds and when I went to the dentist to get my wisdom teeth pulled out my dentist said i was perfect and my mom sees me eat all the time whats the deal

2007-11-21 15:38:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend's mother and sister are really starting to get on my nerves. They dont talk to him any day other than Friday when he gets paid. They always ask for money and if he ever says no, they tell him that he is the man of the house and he should pay for whatever they need then they hang up (until next payday). He moved out of the house 10 years ago, he's not responsible for them. I told him to quit giving them money and he hasn't given them money in a couple weeks so now they've resorted to asking him to buy them things instead of asking for cash. He often talks about getting married but he says he wont do it until he is in a better financial position. I don't think he'll ever be in a better position if he keeps giving them money. We've only been dating for about 5 months, how much can I say?

2007-11-21 15:34:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister and i got into a huge fight today that ended up with us hitting each other. our mom pulled us apart and sent us each to a "cool down" spot, which was one of us at each end of the kitchen table, while mom was cooking for 2morrow. this is not anything new, mom makes us do this if we get into a fight. but 2day my sister looked at me, even tho mom was right there and told me it was my fault, then we started arguing again, mom told us to be quiet, then before i realized what was happening i told my sister to go f*C% it. My mom came UNGLUED! she sent my sister to her room then turned on me. She started lecturing me about the CORRECT way to handle a situation. Then she stuck a bar of SOAP in my mouth! i am NOT FIVE! My sister ended up hardly getting into trouble at ALL!! I got also got grounded for the rest of the break and mom said that she might not let me go shopping on friday that she would have to think about it. Is this fair? we both did the same thing but only i really

2007-11-21 15:31:14 · 4 answers · asked by Aireyaunna A 1

Whenever I do something wrong, even the tiniest thing, like spilling a little bit of juice, my eleven year old sister would always threaten to tell our mom. Sometimes she even lies about the things I did, like I hit her or something (even though I didn't) just to get me in trouble. Also, when she thinks I swore, (which I never do, but a lot of words, like duck sound like swear words) she runs to mom, and I get in trouble, no matter how many times I say I didn't do it. When I do something really bad and I get caught, it's okay with me, but the tattle-taling on the tiny things drives me nuts. What should I do?

2007-11-21 15:29:18 · 32 answers · asked by Lily 5

I mean its thanksgiving....and yet here i am sad....even though we're going down to spend time with the family

and ill visit with my cousins/brothers.....having a great time but....

Im sad, why?

2007-11-21 15:27:54 · 9 answers · asked by The Keeper Of Secrets™ 2

My daughter is 13, she stole my moms car the other night.
My son is 26 and he stole $100.00 from me so I took his truck and sold it to a friend to repay the money he owed.
My mother is 76 years old, and has custody of my younger two kids, one which is my 13 yr. old daughter. who I have now been given full discipinary authority over finally.
My one son is a great kid, and needs to find a job.
I am out of work, birthdays are around the corner, along with one on christmas.
My boyfriend is mad at me for having to go and take care of things for thanksgiving instead of staying with him the night. and he doesn't celebrate thanksgiving.
My 26 yr old's ex girlfriend just got out of jail and my mother is letting her stay here now and I don't like her. She lost my grand daughters to the state here just recently and seems to think that she will get them back. after she had already lost her first 3 kids to the state years prior.
I am so stressed out, I just want to run a way.

2007-11-21 15:20:57 · 7 answers · asked by ? 5

Well Im going to go with my boyfriend to his grandparents house tomorrow to celeberate Thanksgiving..And I was wondering if this shirt was appropriate to wear...His grandparents are really religious and strict so i dont want to make a bad impression..
tell me is this shirt too revealing?? I think its cute but it shows a little clevelage..not a lot but well you tell me what you think...




here is a picture of the shirt..

http://s100.photobucket.com/albums/m3/xty06/?action=view¤t=rsz_untitled.jpg

2007-11-21 15:19:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous