i live with my dad and stepmom not to mention her two kids which convinced me that the devil is real. well im really tired of the situation, i cant live with this any more. its senior year and i dont need more frustration. well my mom lives like 40 minutes away. do you think i should move over there for now?
please help me :]
2007-11-21 15:50:01 · 12 answers · asked by dreamer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i live with my dad and stepmom not to mention her two kids which convinced me that the devil is real. well im really tired of the situation, i cant live with this any more. its senior year and i dont need more frustration. well my mom lives like 40 minutes away. do you think i should move over there for now?
please help me :]
my dad has custody of me, cause the older stayed with my dad, younger with mom. me and my mom are super cool, but i have always lived with my dad. anyways when i said "devil" i was joking. i dont believe in anything.
2007-11-21 16:00:21 · update #1
You're running away from your problems. How do you expect to get through hardships if you keep thinking you'll have an outlet?
I've been through both of my dad's divroces along with 6 younger brothers and sisters and as much as we all want to be somewhere else, i never had the choice and netiehr does my siblings. im married and have been gone from that house for 2 1/2 yrs, but i still have to deal with their crap and its not about brushing it off your shouder. You have to learn how to deal and get resolutions. You'll learn from this and incorporate it in other aspects as you get older
Hang in there and be strong (mentally).
2007-11-21 16:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all be realistic, ask yourself why you are at your Dad's house in the first place.
Talk with your father about the reason you want to move out. There must be some underlying aggravating reasons why you want to move out. I would assume you're having problems with the step-family. Are the problems able to be resolved? Discuss with your father if you feel there's favortism, or that the step-family is treating you unfairly. Also discuss this with your mom.
In the end your parents have the final say. If it's your final year in High School, and you still have to live with your father..stick it out. You're almost finished with the school year. Hang in there! Just bring the situation to your father's attention and get a resolution for the problems.
2007-11-21 16:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you switch schools right now, you may lose headway and have to wait longer to graduate.
If you have a car, it might be worth the commute to school from your mother's house. If not, keep a low profile and complete your senior year, THEN move in with your mother. You can use her place as a springboard after you get out of school. In the meantime, see if you can spend weekends with your mom just so you can get your homework done.
2007-11-21 16:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your Mom and ask about the possibility. Why does your Dad have custody of you anyway? Maybe your Mom doesn't want the responsibility. If that is the case, stay where you are. You will only get in trouble if you live with her and she doesn't discipline you.
2007-11-21 15:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by Julie H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what you feel is right...Questions you need to ask yourself first...Will it be better at moms, there is a reason why your not with her already...Will this affect the school you go to, its hard changing schools at the end of your time there...Is there anyway you can talk to your dad and tell him whats going on and how this is affecting you? Be honest with him and talk to him about you returning to your mom...
2007-11-21 15:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the reason you are at your dad's in the first place? sometimes the grass is not always greener on the other side! Just a thought!
2007-11-21 15:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by kissiebird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should discuss this with both your parents.Since you are a senior you should have some input as to where you live.I hope it turns out in your favor.Good luck!
2007-11-21 15:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by Cinderella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u want to move go ahead but make sure your mum is ok with this. If she says no try and convince her about your terrible situation.
good luck moving into your new place. hopefully she'll let u.
2007-11-21 15:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really think of your life w/out living with your dad and stepmom. if you really, seriously, would not mind living without them, go for it!
2007-11-21 15:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by renee[loves 2 cheer] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the person who has custody can determine where you live with a signature. state law determines at what age that custody privilege expires.
2016-05-24 23:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by karin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋