Family - November 2007

Hi a bit of advice, my husbands grandad passed away yesteday and his funeral is on Monday, the thing is my nana recently passed away too and I was ok with it (well not ok but you know what I mean) and then as soon as ''Youll never walk alone'' started playing I started sobbing my heart out and seeing everone else upset and crying which is obviously what happens. but this same song is being played at his grandad funeral how do I hold it together, as I dont neccesealy cry quietly and end up a quivering wreck, How can I be strong, I cry if any body crys
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2007-11-21 06:50:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this sport i do which I am pretty rubbish at even though i've been doing it for a while, and I find absolutely no enjoyment in it whatsoever either.

I want to quit it but my parents won't let me, and won't even sit down with me and discuss anything.

I can't just quit either because my parents are blackmailing me into doing it by threatening to not give me any money if I don't.\

I am in very good shape.

Any suggestions?

2007-11-21 06:01:19 · 14 answers · asked by J J 1

my sister left open her myspace account and she lets me go on and search for people, well i read some of her mail and it was about her taking pills and smoking pot. she's 16 and i know when i was her age i was doing the same but i'm worried about her for many reasons. i want my sister to trust me but i feel like i have an obligation to tell my mom. we found out that she was taking pills a few months ago and my mom grounded her and my sister swore she would never do it again, liar! my mom is so laid back and will probably do nothing. i feel like i always have to be the parent with my sister. were 7 1/2 years apart. i need help, i'm soo confused about what to do.

2007-11-21 05:42:54 · 18 answers · asked by annie 3

My fiance and I are both 22 years old. We're getting married in May. Both of our families are a good distance away. (His family is about 350 miles away and mine is about 100 miles). We really want to spend the holidays together this year. Actually we always spend the holidsays together...at my parents' home. We want to spend them alone together this year.

His family is fine with it. They understand that the distance is huge, and agree that they will see us whenever we have the time/money to come up there. His mother comes and visits 2-3 times year (for about a week at a time).

My parents, however, throw a fit if we aren't there at least once a month. When we try to come up for a day, we're always roped into staying the night (or guilt tripped if we don't).

We were going to do Thanksgiving alone, but my mom threw a fit about this being "her last year" (cause we're getting married this year). Is it too much to ask to be able to be alone together for the holidays?

2007-11-21 05:37:11 · 10 answers · asked by Been here before 3

Im 24 yrs old and my bro 17yrs old. My parents got divorced 13 yrs ago and they had an aggrement that my mom would take off spouse support and keep child support. After my dad made bad desicions and now owes years of not paying child support to my bro and I now hes hurting financially with his new wife. My grandparents have gone to my moms house to ask her to take away child support. She didnt and now my dad is taking her to court to make accomodations. My grandparets want my mom to excuse my dad from a responsability that he still has and owes just because hes trying to get his lfe in order. I havent spoken to my granparents since, what should I do?

2007-11-21 05:24:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is really "home"? When you say "I'm going home", where is it that you are going?

Is it the place where you were born? Your parents' home? Or what?

2007-11-21 05:02:05 · 29 answers · asked by Belindita 5

its so annoying im 17 n my mom dosent allow me to go out past 11 1130 n wen i try to tell her tht i need to atleast stay up till 12 1230 she dosent ever listen to me!!!! she always tells me to share stuff n wen i do she never understands!!!! its not tht she dosent care and all but even i need freedom !!! im 17 n its not like i go out everyday its just once a while!!!! why dosent she get tht n how do i tell her!!!!!

2007-11-21 04:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by dialovesu 2

i am 14 years old I am a responsible caring individual i do very well in school. i play on a travel softball team and still have time to balance a 4.0 GPA. I help out around the house babysit my sister and everything. yet my mom is an OCD freak!! she tells me when to get into the shower when to clean my room when to go to bed. If i defy she goes off on me.not your avrage mom and daughter fight. she SCREAMS AT ME. i try sooo hard to get her to listen to me when i say " just dont worry abot if/ when I get in the shower weather my room is clean or not." she takes it the wrong way she stops cooking me dinner and ignores me. she thinks that i dont NEED her any more. HOW DO I CHANGE THIS!! i need some freedom. i know what is right and what is wrong im responsible. i just dont want her nagging me to do things. HELP!!

2007-11-21 04:45:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know so many people who call their grandma that. is it like a nickname?

2007-11-21 04:20:08 · 6 answers · asked by clare renee b 2

iam 28 now. Recently i have changed my carrer to software field. I have joined as a trainee in one of the software company. when ever i concentrate on my subject i always remembered of my past love, that is...my gal friend and me were in love and were very close infact we had physical relationship it continued for 3 years but finally our love story ended as our parents were against our love so we had to break our relation after that she got married and was out of touch with me. now its one n half year. with recommendation and little bit of preparation i got this job that to after waiting for one long year.but now the problem is iam unable to concentrate on my job. now i am openup for another gal but it will take nearly two years to go to comfortable stage in my carrer.so i cant get married for another 2 years. her thoughts are killing me day by day. every time i miss her emotionally sometimes i miss her physically...what to do how do i get energy to figth this situation please help

2007-11-21 03:18:51 · 6 answers · asked by Feel 1

I just got my permit like a month ago and everytime I drive they are always yelling at me to watch my speed and do this and that. I am a really good driver and haven't messed up yet. They really get on my nerves when they keep saying this to me. I dont want to tell them to stop cause they are my parents and I need to listen to them. So what do you think I should do??

2007-11-21 02:53:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so, i want it to be a success. What kinda of stuff can i do to make it fun. Its going to be on a Saturday from 1:30pm to about 4:00.
I know for sure we are going to do the white elephant gifts in a circle ( like musical chairs).
And we are going to eat. But what else can we do?

2007-11-21 02:47:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently about two years ago, I reconnected with my father and step mother. I had been abused physically, and emotionally when I was a child. My father and mother divorced when I was two. (which was a good thing). My father was abusive in many ways. My father and step mother were here for Thanksgiving Holiday and we were having a great time. I had Gastric Bypass and my father is constantly commenting on my food intake, and commenting on if I should have this or that. Well, at the dinner table in front of several people he did it again. He said, "You better watch it!!" as I was serving myself. I felt embarrassed, I felt as though I can't eat in front of him because he will constantly watch me, and I don't need a babysitter. I know what I can eat, what my body can tolerate, and how much. Granted my eyes may be bigger than my stomach but it doesn't necessarily mean that I'm going to eat everything on my plate. And I have expressed this before when he would make comments and take food away

2007-11-21 02:33:25 · 6 answers · asked by lady_bella 6

My mother just passed on Nov 10th and had little life insurance.She only had enough to cover about 1/5 of the costs.My mother in law has asked numerous times about the costs and such .I have told her over and over again.She just keeps up about my brothers helping witht he costs and stuff.I feel that that is between us and whatever happens happens.I am not sure how it will all pan out,Im not sure if they will h elp like they said they would or not but i keep telling her she is my mother and i gave her teh funeral she deserved.I just buried her a week ago and i just wish my mother in law would let up and let me get over her death without worrying about teh costs right now.If it akes 10 yrs it takes 10 yrs to pay it off..

What should i do about her questioning.. I dont want to caus problems with her and i;m not sure what to do

2007-11-21 02:09:57 · 9 answers · asked by oobie1994 2

thanx that was good answers but i hav no access to my computer i hav no body to email to and if mom finds out i miss school she'll ground me and my house phone needs charging and i hav no phione of mine and u dont wat grounding means in my house.....

2007-11-21 00:41:11 · 2 answers · asked by Tatyana F 1

sometimes i think my mom dont like me and i like to tell her how i feel but being the person she is she never listen to no one

2007-11-21 00:38:13 · 7 answers · asked by naynay k 1

2007-11-21 00:36:27 · 24 answers · asked by chicken2008 5

Ok we have a little bit of a family debate. My grandmother has fallen 3 times over the last 4 months. two of the times she passed out, and this last time she triped. Well she was soposed to come to visit me for thanksgiving but now she cant because she has broken her arm. She lives along in a house that is much too big for her to deal with. My mom and brother come over to help her whenever they can. My mom wants her to sell her house and to live in an appartment for sinior citizens. I agree I think that she would also get to solcalize more with people her own age. She wants to stay where she is. My brother thinks that she should. I would hate to see her sell the house, Its been in our family a long time. I practically grew up there too. Shes pretty sharp mentally. but her physical health isnt so good. Im 13 hours away from her and worried about her being alone. She wont live with my mom. her and my moms husband really dont get along. She never goes out and does things that are ...more

2007-11-21 00:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What kind of adults would they become?

2007-11-20 23:30:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son Sky will be 3 months on the 24th of this month and his father after kicking us out of our home, came three weeks ago to the place where I am living at now, wanting to take him for the day. Should I have let him go with his dad? I feel that he is too young yet. plus, I dont trust him with him bringing him back.

2007-11-20 23:27:27 · 3 answers · asked by Sky's Mommy 1

My mother-in-law hit our car and there is about $1000 worth of damage. My father-in-law is dragging his feet paying us....he is saying "i'm not sure if I'm going through insurance or out-of-pocket." Basically he keeps flip-flopping back and forth.

I want to be fair to my wife because she is handling this, but I also want our car fixed. The accident happened almost 3 months ago and it is still not fixed, and he has not paid us. One other thing to add is they took on two mortgages....so they are a little tight right now...but really, that is a choice that he made...call me hard-hearted.

What can I do or say that is diplomatic that will get results, get the money for the repair, maintain my relationship with my wife, and move on with our lives.?

2007-11-20 23:19:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love these kids you know the relationship between fathers and their daughters. My wife is expecting twins and we have a daughter who will be turning three on Christmas. She knew of these kids before i married her. I am currently looking after her blood sister so I was expecting that she would understand that these kids deserve their fatherly love. I do not want to chose between her and these kids because I love her.

2007-11-20 23:08:56 · 23 answers · asked by NELE 2

expand from that?

2007-11-20 23:04:21 · 9 answers · asked by la.manda_00 2

Good things to do?

Low on cash and the weather is bad.

2007-11-20 22:59:42 · 15 answers · asked by carl 4

the problem is .............he says he was in iraq ...........no way he was there . DO I PULL HIM ASIDE AND POLITELY TELL HIM TO S T F U ?

2007-11-20 22:46:16 · 10 answers · asked by Mark H 2

I live overseas with my family... my older brother and his wife are expecting a baby. We will not be be alble to fly back for the birth. It's sad because it will be my parent's first grandbaby and my frist neice or nephew.
I need to accept that we will not able to see the baby till he or she is nine months old.
Does anyone have any ideas that i can do so i can let my neice or nephew know at a very young age that I love him or her? anything willl be apprecitated

2007-11-20 22:00:18 · 3 answers · asked by klarebear 3

She thinks I'm being uptight but I feel like it was my party and I don't want to share it with the bebo community.

2007-11-20 21:18:16 · 18 answers · asked by jjfh 1

i know she doed love me but not as much as my sibling it only because im overweight.so how would she really love even if im overweight.

2007-11-20 19:36:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My oldest sis told(not asked) us that she was having Thanksgiving AND Christmas at her house cuz she wants to and plus her adult children were all coming. Mind you we all have kids but they arent adults like hers.
Normally we all go to my brothers home and have gone to her home for Christmas. My brother told her well, we normally have it here and Id really like to keep it that way as we dont live that close......so to make a story short, she didnt want to accept that ans. My family decided on impulse last week to go to my brothers like norm. My sister is now all mad due to us all not coming up to her home. She says she feels rejected . She has always had her way and it is not going over well. Is she being rediculous??

2007-11-20 19:34:01 · 3 answers · asked by AB 3

i am really scared i told my mom and she thinks i'm lieing HELP!!

2007-11-20 19:20:19 · 28 answers · asked by Willie Wilson 1