i know she doed love me but not as much as my sibling it only because im overweight.so how would she really love even if im overweight.
2007-11-20 19:36:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-11-20 19:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by michael r 3 · 0⤊ 7⤋
I fully understand your need for acceptance, s'pecially from your mum!! But i am inclined to think that it is her problem for acceptance and not yours. Lets say, as an example, that you are hugely overweight but extremely successfull? Lets imagine that you weigh a ton, but, you are a succesfull lawyer,doctor, whatever, you have a hundred friends and are about to be engaged any day now. These things are likely to be available to you. If you feel that they aren't, its because of the way you have been brought up. Honestly, a fat person may not be as attractive as a skinny person, but they can easily be just as, or more even, succesfull than anyone else, these days being successfull is a huge turn on to the opposite sex, it exudes confidence and taking charge of life, this is a major attraction in later life for people who are ready to settle down.
2007-11-20 20:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by jukette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your mum and she will always love you no matter what. all mums would surely love their own child. its maybe because you are overweight and she does not know how to show her love to you. try to talk to her and let her know how you feel. i think if you really want the best answer to cure yourself, you should talk to your mum. well what can i said she's your mum, and she will always love you. just talk to her. what can i said we are all humans... right.... be strong and stop thinking about it because you will fell even more desperate.... take care...
2007-11-20 20:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweety dont feel this way of course your mum loves you and she loves you just as equally as your siblings, you could always talk to her and tell he rthis is how you feel i am sure she wil reassure her love for you but never think she she loves you less because you are over weight .... good luck and cheer up
2007-11-20 20:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she loves you JUST as much.
If you think it's about you being overweight, try to pick up some gym classes, to show her you want to change it.
2007-11-20 19:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by adilicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, but she does love you. Just because it seems like she cares more about them than you, it doesn't make it true. Talk to her and tell her how you feel.
No matter what, just remember that your mom is far better than mine:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApJ653kr7.2PIiv5NbkqmEi_7BR.;_ylv=3?qid=20071121000616AAMauYQ
2007-11-20 19:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by and so it begins... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mothers love is unconditional. She should love you regardless of your weight.
2007-11-20 20:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u gotta show her that
offer help and assistance, make friends with her
lose a little of ur weight to show her that u can change anything?!
its not as difficult as u assume?!
2007-11-20 19:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by A's 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just forget her. Don't think about it and try to just have fun and enjoy life. Her love isn't that important.
2007-11-20 19:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by crazygranny72 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she should love you no matter what. she's your mom and her love should be unconditional. It's a problem with her and not your fault.
2007-11-20 19:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by deejaymommy 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
thats sad
2007-11-20 20:05:58 · answer #11 · answered by idunno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋