Family - November 2007

AHHH they suck! They just grounded me from swimming in our indoor pool and from playing my Nintendo Wii!!! All of that just for getting a D on my math test. What losers. I'm grounded until Thursday and it's only Tuesday!!!!!!!!! How can I divorce them?

2007-11-20 11:43:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's my newiest question, if a Brother & Sister who was adopted got married is it wrong?

2007-11-20 11:37:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or can I put the two of us last name on her?For example:
smith-davis.I need some suggestions.If there is a web site that you know of please let me know.I dont really care about the child support thing.Just what the last name will be.I need help please.

2007-11-20 11:35:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

: if they see the side of ur face and say oh u look very handsome in the side when u have a wife they will be like let me c the side of ur face...
lol i know shes jk bec she does say im handsome like all the time but i really think i look good on the side and not so much in front lol so idk? i got mad at her and teased her back and she said im jk
iim in my 20btw

2007-11-20 11:25:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately I have not wanted to gao vistit my Dad for reasons that are my own, but he's made a big deal about it. He's called the police and he's taking my mom and me to court.
Any ideas in how to cope with the stress?

2007-11-20 10:16:47 · 22 answers · asked by Stitch 2

My brother is nine c(:

2007-11-20 09:35:58 · 7 answers · asked by bballcutie11 1

I am divorced.
My 4 y/o daughter goes to dads house in another city 2 hours away every other weekend.
On one of her visits she returned & told me that she saw her dad and his GF having sx.
She gave me details on what he was doing to her and the facial expressions she had, the things she was shouting, and how she'd touch her body..etc.

I'm completly devistated.

What do I do from here?
How/should I take legal matter?

I confronted him & he denied it... he said "kids have imaginations, they make things up"
HELLO!!!!!!! NOT things like this! GIVE ME A BREAK!

His mother told me that they have a queen and king bed in their one bedroom apartment and they ALL sleep in there (2 adults, my daughter, and their child together)
Couldn't they give it a rest TWO days a month while my child is there????

In my home she has her own room & I have enough SENSE to lock my door if needed..

What do I do???????????????

2007-11-20 09:06:59 · 4 answers · asked by Hard at work *wink* NOT! 2

My daughter amy whos 12yrs old told me her older cousins was beating her up, So out of anger i teached her to kick them where it hurts, That was six months ago. Now my friends son told her that she kicked him afew times and she had one of her friends over and right infront of me she kicked him in groin over the remote.... i punished her and told her "You only kick a boy there if hes hitting you or your in danger",

That didnt seem to stop her, She kicked one boy in school and got in some trouble. She tells me he touched her which i know how boys are but i cant seem to believe her... what do i do.... I was young once to and yes i kicked boys more than twice just cause i wanted to, but i feel horriable about it now. I didnt know how much pain it could cause let-alone destroy his stuff for kids in the future...

what do i do to stop her from being a ball kicker...LoL

2007-11-20 09:02:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

17 year olds sisters feeling and probly ruin her relationship with her older sister ok here is the problem my 17 year old sister is in absolute love with this boy i know puppy love ..they see each other off and on but not committed in a relationship now my 19 year old sister has this friend which she calls her best friend .....she actually slept with the guy that my 17 year old sister is in love with and i know this because my 19 year old sisters boyfriend has a big mouth and told me by accident
now i live on my own i have a wife and a 2 year old daughter i have my own problems ...but its killing me to see my youger sister in love with kid and she has no clue it happened and i want to tell her and i cant bring myself to do it .....and my older sister doesnt seem to care she just says ...well who cares its not like they are going out ...and i was like you know how much your sister is in love with this kid ....you should tell your friend she crossed the line ..... please help

2007-11-20 08:35:20 · 38 answers · asked by Dan M 5

she is my blood sis to but our mom doesnt know me and her got really horney what should we do? please answer back!

2007-11-20 08:01:16 · 20 answers · asked by Red 1

My husband comes from a big family and EVERY year since I've known him we ALWAYS have to go to his mother's house. He's one out of 7 kids, so you could just imagine the crowd in her little tiny house. I try and get out of it every year but it doesn't work and we end up fighting about it. We have two children and I wouldn't mind if he took the kids. Ok the real anger probably comes from him never agreeing to spend Christmas with my parents, my dad passed away not too long ago and so here I am not with NEVER being able to spend time with both of my parents. The last Christmas my dad was alive, I tried to compromise with him, I said let's split our time between both families, he refused. It was my dad's last Christmas on this earth (although none of us knew it), I had just became a new mom. I come from a small family and although we celebrated Christmas it was not based on gift giving, which is exactly what Christmas is like in his mother's house. I don't want to go this year.

2007-11-20 07:41:44 · 24 answers · asked by Yasmina 2

She wants to let him share her room, which if he stops is the only practical thing as we have no spare bedroom. She is 12 years old, but will be 13 in February next year. I know I can trust them, they are both very mature, and they will not abuse that trust. I think they should wait a bit longer. Am I being unfair?

2007-11-20 07:02:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

she's constantly talks down on me and my son(3 yr old) to her two kids and she leaves messages on the vm. (my son is their half brother). she states -my house is dirty, my son is a brat, she claims her kids talk down upon me and their brother. she claims her kids need mental help...which they need it bc of her. she constantly brings up that their dad's father killed himself. which i think she has no right because she tried to od on pills on serveral occasions. i'm just tired of her bipolar psychotic manipalating pill poppin lush mood swings...and if things doesn't go her way... she threatens to sign "all" rights over. what kind of mother does that??? we have to obey by court orders and she flips out because she's illiterate and doesn't understand anything. she's very jealous of me because i've been raising her kids for 5 yrs know. SO HOW DO I KEEP MY NAME AND MY SON"S NAME OUT OF HER MOUTH??? and by the way we do get help for the kids...

2007-11-20 07:01:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, my mom doesn't want me living in her house, and i don't want to live with her, so we agreed that i go live with someone else, but my relatives live the whole country away.

So, her friend who is also a parent decided to take me in under her roof, but my mom wants it to be legal so she doesn't get arrested.

Does anyone know where i can find a form that gives my mom's friend full legal custody of me?

2007-11-20 06:59:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is 17 month old when we filed for taxes last year i took it to the place with me and i cant find it ,my question is :
if i let the ss office know will they issue another number or just a new card .
Thanks.

2007-11-20 06:48:36 · 14 answers · asked by Pregnant with baby # 2 :) 3

ok so i am 16 and my dad is 48.... him and my mom split when i was 2 so i never really new them together.. so now my dad is dating a 22 year old and it is really weird. espesialy becasue i have a sister that is 21 (we have different dads) and i feel akward when we my dad and his girlfriend and I are hanging out. what shoul di do to tell him how i feel. she is a really cool person its just we are close enough to be sisters!

2007-11-20 06:40:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Came home from a nice day seeing my bro and my mum goes on about a rubbish day she had, so i let her talk about it. i go for a bath and she puts on tea. i come down for tea and have some but i'm not that hungry. and she starts shouting at me for not being hungry. i explained that i wasnt that hungry at the start but she could've eaten with me. then she starts saying i am selfish and i do everything my way etc. Basically just trying to starta row, saying i should make tea etc. I don't really understand why she went totally crazy for basically nothing. I said id speak to her if she'd let me speak but she said 'no listen to me'...i dont get it, have i dont anything wrong? Whys she acting like this??

2007-11-20 06:37:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am the stay at home parent and i cook all the meals and when she tries the kids hate it, every thanksgiving which my wife wants to cook she makes things the kids hate except the turkey, last year she put sour cream in the mashed potatos, it was awful, i am not looking forward to this again, what can i do

2007-11-20 06:30:10 · 12 answers · asked by MR MOM USMC RETIRED 3

I just got my report card, I had 1 B and all of them are A's. Then my parents nag at me, they said, "you're so lucky that you're in the US, and everything is handed to you on a silver platter". Then I got lectured by them. That upsets me because they want me to be perfect all the time, I'm not perfect. I feel bad, like I'm not good enough for them. I'm so extra grateful I have them, I know they want me to be successful in life, but crying over a B, that is extreme. Is it because their Asian (no offense) or most parents are like that? Why are my parents hard on me?

2007-11-20 06:24:37 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am living with my parents currently and well i wont lie they fight alot and i feel like i hold them together sometimes...thats one thing keeping me from doing this right away another is finding a new job and not knowing if the place i have to live at is going to work out. Dont get me wrong i love my parents very much but i feel like i need to go, like if i try and keep them happy i wont be doing anything but making myself unhappy. but i guess i just want some thoughts and answers as to how you all felt the first time you left. was there alot of...anger or maybe crying lol or just nothing at all. i want to know if what im doing is the right thing to do.

2007-11-20 05:39:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-20 04:15:43 · 14 answers · asked by SexyB 1

my step daugher is 9 and has been coming to my house for quite a while but before there was not a court order and the mother and the kid decided when it was ok to come. and her mother also tried pushing my husband out of the picture. now neither of us think that it is appropriate for her to have a cell phone her mother got it for her her first court ordered weekend to stay. she has fun with us but can not show that to her mom. I have been involved for 8 years now. so it is not that I am taking her daddy or anything. but her mother tells her to defy our rules. we have a phone and allow her to use it to call her mom any time she wants we also allow her mother to call her. we just do not think that it is appropriate for her to have it all the time flipping it around. when she is here she should not be on the phone with the other family we should be spending time and doing our family things. is it appropriate for her to have this or does mommy need back off. we have other kids and theydont

2007-11-20 03:39:42 · 33 answers · asked by Amie 2

3 sisters and we've always been really close growing up.But as we grew older and became adults, we are distant now.My younger sister and her boyfriend stole from me and the entire family knew about it.Well the entire family became real angry with me because I pressed charges on my sister.Well my other sister took her side and was angry with me as well.None of us have talked since that happen.That was a yr ago.The other sister got married,not the theif but the other one and I wasn't invited.She even had my sister to stand in her wedding and the thief of a boyfriend 2.I have always help them with everything,I gave then a place to live when they did not have anywhere else to go.I gave them money and with no questions ask either.Well the other day,my sister invited me 2 her house 4 Thanksgiving.Not the thief,but the other one.now keep in mind that the 2 of them hasn't spoke 2 me in a yr.now they keep calling and wanting to know if I am going 2 b there b-cuz they really would like me ther

2007-11-20 03:15:42 · 12 answers · asked by loretta l 3

I'm thankful for my marriage staying strong.

My business doing well.

The health of my children (we had a scare with my youngest earlier this year).

The end of my mother's suffering (she was very sick and in a lot of pain for a long time- she was able to go to Heaven in May- terribly sad, but at the same time a blessing)

2007-11-20 02:48:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i do NOT get along with my grandmother, i know she will try to get into the hospital when i have my baby in a couple days. how do i write a letter saying that she cant come into my room to see me or my family??

2007-11-20 02:47:54 · 4 answers · asked by mrepsher1@verizon.net 1

Do fathers still spank their daughters?
If so how.
Best answer gets 10 points.

2007-11-20 02:13:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with this man for 7 years. We have two kids together. He is very immature and I don't trust him.
Friday his sister got out of rehab and she told me he was over there telling her how bad he wanted to get high. It is just pot but still. So I went off on him telling him I didn't want to be with someone who does drugs. He persisted that he didn't.
Yesterday, he had some friends over and was outside in our barn. I called his cell and he didn't answer so I went out to the barn and it smelled like pot. So I went off on him and told him he was a lier. Just Friday he said his sister was lying and blah blah blah. So I told him to pack his stuff and he could be a pot head somewhere else. So he did but he didn't leave. He changed the subject and started being nice and kissing my butt. That didn't work with me. So then he tried to flip it around on me telling me he was sick of being accused stuff and I was being a jerk.
I am going to school working and running a daycare.

2007-11-20 00:46:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was fixing him breakfast and then he tells me during it that he is gay and I was like upset so I told him to eat healthier and take vitamins so he wouldn't be gay and he said no! I am so frustrated with him now because he should know this isn't normal. I don't know if this is a phase or if he isn't eating healthy or not. He is like 17. I don't know what to do.

2007-11-19 23:43:42 · 25 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

I will be going to my bf parents house on Thanksgiving Day. We get along great and I really love them. Here is the dilema...They are both very heavy smokers...we are not. My bf has asthma and I am very sensitive to cigarette smoke, so when we normally visit with them we only stay an hour or two because after that we simply cant take the smokey environment any longer. Asking them not to smoke is out of the question. It is their home and they should be able to do as they please there. We would hate to leave after such a short time especially on a holiday. Any ideas on what to do? Thanks

2007-11-19 22:41:07 · 9 answers · asked by Renee 3

My dad is very overprotective over who I should go out with. He says I'm too young, but I'm already 18! My future stepmom says, "She's 18 years old. She can date whoever she wants, when she wants!" Is this normal?

2007-11-19 20:36:28 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2