Family - November 2007

Would she be lifted and taken straight back to her real parents immediately to satisfy them, or would she be given time to come to terms with whats happened.

2007-11-19 20:33:00 · 18 answers · asked by Manhattan Skyline 4

I recently bought some winter tyres for my car. I paid the deposit and left. He argued that I should let him pay for it, it was $1100 for the set of 4. I told him no, as I make more money than he does...but being a father he kept on insisting. Finally I go to pick it up, I ask a friend to come with me, because if I asked my dad he would just pay for the types. I go to Costco and take out my visa to pay for it...they said, oh no we don't take Visa, on AMEX....

Well my dad is the only one I know who has AMEX, so I had to call him to come pay for it. He came and paid for it, but now he's refusing to let me pay him back....

It's great that he wants to help me out...but I don't like taking ANY money from my parents. How can I pay him back?

2007-11-19 20:12:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter of 15 yrs old is getting very rebellous and cunning. She would talk back whenever she is questioned on certain issues. But she terms talking back as "fighting for my rights". I feel hurt, angry and disappointed. Any suggestions?

2007-11-19 19:30:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay.. my father wants his family who lives in london to come and live with us in NZ forever. but i do not want that for many reasons, they have very bad habits like talking loud creating fights with ppl and moreover they hate me.
second and the main reason my cousin, their son has tried to touch me in places which are not suitable...i told my dad he said he will do something about it..all he did was growl at him..but is that enough when he says if anyone does that to me..he will u know what they say. and when my dad went to visit them my cousin sent me r-rated movies to watch...i was so angry and confused...because no family would do that...it was hard for me to tell my dad as he does not like anything against his family...i told my mum about this and then she told my dad the problem is that it has been around 2yrs since this happened and they think that i have been watching these films.. where as i have not.. otherwise y would i tell mum. how do i stop them 4rom coming ...

2007-11-19 19:11:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't stand my ******* step mother. My father and I use too be able to go too baseball games and football games, whenever we wanted to, but ever since he met and married " the *****" me and him can't hang out like we used too. If I ask to go to a game with him, he says that his wife has to go? why? Plus, she follows him where ever he goes. If he goes to the kitchen, she follows, if he goes upstairs too his bedroom, she follows. She never seems too leave him alone. I know that it's him that should what things too change, but I don't see that happening. I wish that she would pack her stuff up and walk out of are lives. My father use too be a happy, fun guy too hang out with, and smoke weed with, but she changed him. he doesn't seem to notice and I an afraid too point out the truth too him...she's needy and contolling. The man is 46 years old and can't hang out with his friends, because she doesn't like them. HOW CAN I BREAK THEM UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-19 18:41:27 · 11 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1

ran away from home at 16 or any other teenage year?

2007-11-19 18:40:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tell me a real life story of your past. My Grandperants are not living. They pass away 2 years ago.

2007-11-19 18:33:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, i was just sitting here after i cut my hair into a pageboy, that i am 32 yrs old suddenly and i have no clue what i am supposed to look like, clothes and attitude......well, i have an apt, a car,. a job, a longtime relationship, that;s fine, a kid i look after - that is not mine- a nest egg..but i am not a drinker or a partyer...i have no f*****g clue what i am to do now with my self........help.

2007-11-19 18:32:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

we try so hard and sacrafice so much for our children, my husband and I have a 3 and 1 year old together and he has a 9 year old that only comes on visits, I have been in her life since she was 1 year old. we try so hard but there is never a thankyou, Is this just how it is being a parent, was I once this way. and how do you dicipline differently being the step mom they are all girls. and I know that I need to let my stepdaughters dad kinda do the diciplin there but what about when he is not here. I have the responsibility to all 3 and it is not fare to the younger ones to get in touble for things and not the 9 year old she is my kid too. kinda I have been an important person in her life since she was one.

2007-11-19 18:31:48 · 10 answers · asked by Amie 2

My dad has anger problems and they were pretty bad. Now I'm 17 and i got to bugging him too much about getting me a new computer so he completely went beserk and pretty much tossed everything in my room. What I don't get is that Im about 5 inches taller than him, can probably stop him or more likely sock him yet when he goes crazy I start crying and shivering? It's like he has this unknown power controlling me that well gives me more fear than ever. Why or what pshycological thing causes this?

I've been having problems with my father throughout my whole life. I don't really have a relationship and I could really care less about him ( hes only been maybe 1% part of my life in seeing me. Somedays he doesnt even say a word to me) had it not been my dependance on his income. But usually when I cry, I think about how I see families on TV or see how my friend reacts with his dad and I just feel this emptyness. I don't know what to do..

2007-11-19 18:29:06 · 9 answers · asked by Panda WafflesZilla 3

As usual, there are few misunderstanding between my wife and mother. How can I manage to maintain both the relationship always better? Please advice friends.

2007-11-19 18:21:33 · 2 answers · asked by The Best 3

I found this website about 6 months ago that you answer questions about the person and they give you ideas for what to give the person. If anyone knows the name can you tell me.

2007-11-19 18:19:30 · 2 answers · asked by shadylane1992 3

could i have ur advices?
what would u do?

2007-11-19 18:00:55 · 8 answers · asked by hydaya 1

I'm visiting family and they're around my age (18). But I'm not exactly sure what relationship I have with them.

2007-11-19 17:56:24 · 10 answers · asked by osfan092589 2

I have nothing againts her but i'd rather go early and shop alone. This way, i can cover all the shops i want and not have to wait for anyone. My husband is going elsewhere and will not go near the mall.

2007-11-19 17:46:45 · 6 answers · asked by lovemeorleave 1

2007-11-19 17:45:26 · 8 answers · asked by kayla b 1

I live with my mother and little brother and sisters. I am a 16 year old mother. I was wondering if anyone knew if it was legal for me to move out of my mothers house. (I live in Missouri) I am fully capable of taking care of my daughter and myself. Which I have been, along with my 7 other brothers and sisters. I have been watching and taking care of them since I was 8 years old.(There was 3 of them when I started out all under the age of 5) My daughter and I need to get out, I have my own child to raise and I feel like I have no time for her because I am too busy raising my mothers.I need to have time for myself and daughter. School, work, housing would not be a problem. I just need to know; If I do move is it legal? And if I did move out would they take me back to my mothers house?(if she sent the police) I need to know all of this because the last thing I would want is for my daughter to be taken from me, for my mom calling me a runaway. Any information would help. Thank you.
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2007-11-19 17:38:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

She used to be so happy until I proposed to her. She accepted but now when I talk to her some days she will just be mad at me and constantly worrying about our wedding, that it is not going to be perfect enough. It is not everyday, but sometimes she is just completely miserable and makes me feel really bad.

She knows I am not a rich man and I have a mortgage to keep up with, and says she will try and limit what she wants to spend but sometimes she just make me feel terrible about it.

She thought I was trying to get by with spending as little money as possible on our wedding which is somewhat true, the last issue was that she wanted a full meal for a hundred plus guests. Sandwiches were suggested as an alternative to save money, big mistake though.

It is still three months away and I really thought this would be a happy time,. She is not a bitter old shrew or anything, but now I am just miserable. Maybe this whole idea was a stupid mistake

2007-11-19 17:35:39 · 23 answers · asked by Wylie Dun 4

she says i should not complain about my nausea or other discomforts as its all part of the deal (very rudely) and says 'no big deal...we've had children too.....' I absolutely hate it as this is my first baby and I am pretty excited about it. She just wants to trivialize my feelings about my pregnancy. I husband argues with me if I try and tell him how she is behaving. I can't even stop crying and stressing as this is a weekly programme where she has to make some such stupid comment. I don't know how to handle this on my own without my husband's support (actually his anger with me!!) I think this stress and crying is surely going to affect my baby. Suggest a way out of this madness please!!

2007-11-19 17:26:57 · 29 answers · asked by The Sorceress 3

My friend invited me and my daughter to the beach with her two kids (a boy & a girl). Since we just moved it was our first time at this beach.

Anyway, when one of her kids had to p℮℮, she would just take them to the back of the beach. She'd hold up a towel so they could do their little p℮℮ onto the sand & weeds. Soon my daughter had to p℮℮ too, and not knowing where the beach houses were, I did the same for her.

What do you think? Have any of you let a daughter or son p℮℮ somewhere on the beach?

2007-11-19 17:00:34 · 8 answers · asked by moonfall 1

i have school tommorrow and they are having a party and they have one twice a fricken week and they HAVE to ******* have the music blasted..
id dont know what to do.

2007-11-19 16:50:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any advice of things I should do BEFORE becoming a mom.

Anything before that I can't do later? Thanks.

2007-11-19 16:49:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting my whole back tattoed. 1 they will always have my back, 2nd they will always be behind me and pushing me foward, and 3rd no matter where I am I will always have them. But should I?

2007-11-19 16:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by Salvation 2

my brother, well step brother, he bosses me around and tells me to do EVERYTHING..

he wants me to take out trash, do laundary and other chores around the house..

and i am only 17, and he is 25

as soon i come home from school, he will give me things to do..
like today at 10:30 PM, i was doing coll stuff, he told me to get laundary..! and he expects me to fold it and put it in his room nicely..

he sometimes says, that he wishes i was a boy.. ( so he cud beat hom up)

i dont knw how to deal with it.. i am scared that he will hit me if i talk baq..
and my step dad and my mom arent supportive either..

any suggestions on what i shud do?

thanks

2007-11-19 15:43:39 · 16 answers · asked by meee 2

i was sorta told that i could take them as long as there is no open custody case which there isnt, am i gonna be told to come back and or am i gonna get in trouble??

2007-11-19 15:34:03 · 14 answers · asked by go away 2

around a 1month back i went 2 germany as exchange program...its like i had to stay wid a family ovr their.....in the starting it was nice .. but after tht its got quite .. a shock to me ... the use to celbrate nude day in their house nd evry family member use to go nude around their house ... its cme as a shock to me ....!!!they evn invited me to join it ... then they took me to nude beach ....all d people boys & girls were roaming nude out there....i dont know how these people move around nude .. nd tht too in front of their family members ... they told me to join them .. i tried but couldnt ....!!so i want to ask is this behaviour a normal thing in these countries ... hav nyone tried it ....or roam nude in their house in front of their family ...????

2007-11-19 15:27:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father had a stroke and him and his wife were seperated. Well he lost his memory and can not do for himself so he stays with my grandmother and my aunts take care of him . He gets a check every month and the wife gets it. She does not spend any of it on my father and I was told because she is legally still his wife and that she is entitled to it. I do not know what to do but my dad is suffering. As his daughter do I have any rights

2007-11-19 15:06:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 15 years old and my only sibling went off to college this year. My mom doesn't have a job and monitors me CONSTANTLY. She even had my dad install a program on my computer that turns it off at 10:40. She has me on a very tight leash, not letting me go places after school unless they are planned things (like sports), and won't even let me do things on Friday after school unless they have been preplanned the night before, which is awful because teens are spontaneous! She is now having me sit at the dinner table for 2 hours a night (sunday-thursday) to do homework. Oh, did i mention that she sits in the kitchen and and constantly comes in and checks up on me?? I could understand if I had awful grades, but report cards came out and I had all B's and an A. She is e-mailing my teachers all the time asking what assignments I have not turned in etc. and has made a schedule that can earn "points" when I'm on time in the mornings and go to bed promplty at 11:00 which will earn a dinner out...

2007-11-19 15:03:51 · 19 answers · asked by *Kaia* 2

I am a junior in college who lives with her brother and wife while my parents live in Texas. I hate living here and cant wait to move out of here! I plan on pursuing a career that demands a graduate school...and none of those schools are in the state that i live in. The idea of going to a new and strange place is really scarey to me unless my boyfriend comes with me.

But here's the deal. My parents are strict and old fashioned and oppose in us living together before we get married. I on the other hand, agree with my boyfriend that it's too early to get married (we're going on four years, but i'm still 20 yo!) and i cant imagine a long distance relationship or not having his support through all the schooling i will be putting my self through.

Is there anyway i can brake into my parent's beliefs and have them understand!? How can i get them to realize im not a little girl anymore and that i need to create my own life now?

2007-11-19 15:03:44 · 4 answers · asked by mrazle 2

of being a serial rapist-Should I send him a Christmas card?What would I say? Serious answers please-

2007-11-19 15:00:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous