Family - November 2007

i go to my moms house every 2weeks the 2 sundays ago we had a big fight and she callled me my bro and my dad messed up and some other terrible things im not sure if i 4give her yet and still havent talked to her im Spose to go with her tommorow and im sitting here with the phone in my hand wondering if i should call her or not plz help me

2007-11-22 12:01:37 · 9 answers · asked by the Guru 1

they dont even let me go to the movies or mall without an adult there. and it sucks because i miss out on so much because im "not allowed"
so i just need to know what you think i can do to convince them to let me do more things.
please && thanks =]

2007-11-22 11:49:35 · 5 answers · asked by Ü 4

2007-11-22 11:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by lilwuteva 2

Well, my dad came over to pick me up to see my Aunt because, she came in town for Thanks giving.Well i went with him to his house..And then i started screamin @ him at stuff because it was so hot in the house.
So i just sat outside. Well then he came outside & said ''Are you coming inside or not!'' i started screaming and he took me home. I tried talking to him but he wouldn`t listen he is going to my other aunts house to get my Aunt..I tried to ask him if he would pick me up So i can see her..Well he is just being an *** now!
I called over there to see if my step dad could take me over there when My aunt is there..
My Little brother answer the phone And i asked him if i could talk to my Dad.My dad didn`t wanna talk to me So my brother was my translater..I asked him does he know what time he will be back from getting my Aunt, Then he said IDK!! And so i kept getting mad...Well then i`m like if it isn`t a prob my dad can take me over there to see her because

2007-11-22 10:57:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father died very suddenly just a few weeks ago.. he was young (in his 40s), with no health problems and basically, just fell and died for no reason within minutes. I was extremely close to him and spent the first couple of days very upset. However, I have not cried in over a week, and I feel like I should be in bits.. but I am already back at work etc and feel like this is not how I should be behaving! I feel so guilty, because I really did love my dad (I still do) and am well aware he is not coming back, but I just feel that I should be more upset. Has anyone else had any similar experiences?

2007-11-22 10:24:52 · 15 answers · asked by J-L 2

i love my Gramps but i saw his wife my Grandma die when i was young and that was worst feeling. me and him are not very close but hes my family i want to go but all i will do is cry dont know what to say to someone who knows there dying and i cant handle that i wrote him a letter for someone to give him and all i did was cry when trying that so i know ill be a mess and just cry the whole time im there i cant see him in hospital dying and me showing up just cuz hes dying if he wasnt i wouldnt just go visit him i dont know what to do im not strong enouh to go and be there.ive never had to do this as an adult losing a family member so i dont know what to expect or say to someone that dying like hey how are you feeling that dumb to say im lost dont know what to do

2007-11-22 10:22:06 · 22 answers · asked by premy57 1

PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-11-22 09:46:27 · 4 answers · asked by rjade 1

Well, my family is asian and..my cousin is just a teenager and our aunts and other relatives have decided to set her up for an arranged marriage. She actually hasn't met the boy they have picked yet, but she's about to. I don't think she wants this, and I know I wouldn't either if I were in her shoes. I mean, my parents never set me for arranged marriage, but of course I'm kind of in a relationship with a long-known asian guy friend too. I just want what is best for my cousin, just as my relatives do. However, I want them to understand that we're in AMERICA now, not back home. I've told my dad about this, and he sees my point of view, and my mom just ignores me, or makes me do something else. I don't want ppl making fun of my cousin either like how ppl sometimes make ignorant comments about her at her middle school...How can I help her with the arranged marriage, or comfort her for the time-being? Is there anything I can do to help her? Should I discuss any of this to anymore family?

btw, my family's background is kind of strict and real traditional eastern...as you may tell...plus, i think my cousin needs some real boyfriends in her life, not a slave-driven wife who has a hard-working man who won't love her till later on in life, you see my point? her pre-marrial, *when she gets established*, will be from summer to harvest in autumn...

2007-11-22 09:39:59 · 2 answers · asked by Bo K 1

This happened not to long ago. My went out for a little bit. I was baby sitting my younger brother and sister. all the doors were locked too. before my parents left the phone rang and i answered it, but no one answered back. then almost as soon as they left, the phone rang agian. agian, no one on the other end. i hung up and the phone rand agian. i didn't pick it up that time, but no one left a message. the phone would keep ringing but the person either wouldn't leave a message or the would just hang up after a few rings. i din't tell my parents, but i don't kno what to make of it. i really do not think it was a prank.

2007-11-22 09:23:33 · 3 answers · asked by hayhay12m 1

My mum as a cousin and hes my great cousin if you tell him anything he is not sistening he stops for a rest and when you have said your bit he carrys on with is talking. He makes us a curry and asks us a lot of questions about it saying if we liked it or not. and if we make one and give him some we will say did you like it and he will say its ok. We once took him to see his mum who was in hospital and we pipped our car horn and when he come out he said I ham sick of horns hooting. his mum died 3 years ago and now he lives on his own he comes to see a lady on our street and dosent come to see us. and my mum goes to bingo with him once a week and last week she said to him did you like my pie I made you he said it was ok but I have had beter.my sister works and has 3 kids and never has much time to see him . and last week my mum said are you comeing for your christmas dinner this year he said no I have got stuf in my fridge.

2007-11-22 08:45:07 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1

My husband is in Iraq... half my family hates me, the other half thinks I'm worthless except that I have a husband (despite that I'm a pre-med student and doing well)... so I'm home all by myself. Feels like I'm the only one, so I'm going to ask--

Is anyone else alone on this "holiday"? If so, why?

2007-11-22 08:37:19 · 11 answers · asked by Aia S 3

I need help like my mom love to ***** and whine about things so give me some ideas to shut that ******* mouth of hers up please...thank you .. or i'll shut it up for her ... and doing that i'll be in jail so please help me.

2007-11-22 08:02:06 · 2 answers · asked by Big Chops 1

ok my little sister has a huge tub or freakin' markers and they all work fine. my sister has a school project due in like 2 weeks and my she decided to start the project now....she needs to use markers for the project, so she sits at the table and tells my mom that she needs to use markers for her project. so my mom goes into my room and goes into my desk and takes all of my markers (btw- these markers are no Crayola they are expensive and i bought them myself) she starts to scream at me because i don't want my little sister using them my mom says all of her markers are dryed out when they are perfectly FINE! now everyone is looking at me like i am the bad guy even though i actually let her use the freakin' markers... my mom is not to happy with me now and i have no idea what to do....can someone help please...

2007-11-22 07:43:01 · 5 answers · asked by ¸.•*´`*♥Vevo(: 3

what do you do when there is a boy that youve gone out with and his three years older than you are and your mom and step dad make you break up. and we want to get back togrether but your scared your parent will find out. me and his sister are best friends so i see him every other weekend and days that we dont have school.

2007-11-22 07:40:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom joined the National Guard and she's in boot camp for 6 months right now. When she told me she was joining, I cried for a week or so whenever it was mentioned. But after a while I learned to accept it and didn't want to be the one to make her change her mind or make her feel bad about going by me crying all the time. But for some reason, now that she's gone, I don't feel like I miss her a lot. Like, it doesn't make me really upset that she's gone. It seems like it would though because she's the best mother ever and I've never been away from her for more than a week. I honestly don't know why I'm not crying and everything. Is it because I'm selfish? Or am I just trying to be strong for her?
Also, sorry for the sloppy grammar. Sort of in a rush seeing how it's Thanksgiving and all.

2007-11-22 07:06:27 · 7 answers · asked by Blargh. 1

2007-11-22 06:41:09 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous

i gave my mom temperary custody then her health was getting bad so she gave rights to my aunt i never signed anything to my aunt or her dad its been 7 years now and i want her back she want to live with me she is 12 years old my aunt wont even let me see her.
Is she of age to be able to deside who she want to live with im from ohio i need to know also what steps to take i dont have alot of money to pay an atturney like my aunt does but i do have a stable home and income i do see her when she stays at my moms and i do call her everyday i hope someone can help me becouse she is not happy there she has told me that my aunt hits her in her face and leave marks on her she wont tell becouse she is afraid i want her out of there and home with me

2007-11-22 06:35:40 · 5 answers · asked by a.hilty 2

2007-11-22 06:27:43 · 4 answers · asked by Alex N 3

my sister in law moved in with us a month ago, she has only paid 1 weeks, she sleeps till 3pm, doesnt work. I dont think its unfair to ask for her help cleaning up. I realise she doesnt make all the mess, but I cook the dinner that she eats, and I think that she sleeps all day, the least she could do would be to stach the dishwasher (I clean every morning while she is asleep.) I asked her about it, and she answered 'only if you dont use too many dishes.' every time we go to the shops she gets us to get her things but doesnt giv eus the money for them, we would be up to about $100 there too, we lent her the money for a cable 3 weeks ago and while we havent heard another word about it she is telling my husband heowes her 5 dollars for lunch. How can we all get along, coz I am working looking after a toddler, cooking and now cleaning up after 3 other people, and i think i will go insane if it keeps up

2007-11-22 06:17:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in a really rocky relationship about 8 yrs ago with a man who nearly killed me. He had a really nice brother who looked after me, and made sure I was ok. As a matter of fact the brother drove by my house on Sunday and waved. I was really surprised to see him in this neck of the woods.
I about flipped when I saw his name in the obituaries yesterday. He died. I dont know how or why or what its all about, but I am so sad. Should I go to the funeral? I am afraid I will hash up some old hateful emotions since I dumped the brother and married someone else within a short time. The family basically dislikes me.

2007-11-22 05:57:01 · 12 answers · asked by happydawg 6

Don't you ever feel blessed just to be born a human. Not a bug. Or a cell.

Don't you care that there are so many people with no roofs over their heads. That there are people suffering in hospitals. People suffering who cant afford to go to a hospital.

Arent you happy you live in a free country.
The air you breathe.
The family/friends you have.

When will people open their eyes.
I can't stand the words "I don't care"

Think about that the next time you buy the lastest shoes or ipod or car or house or computer.
Because you should be happy you were even BORN in your family, in this country, in that house, with your health, and your freedom.

Because without any of that......a lot of things would be impossible.



anyone share my opinions or care to add any of their own?

2007-11-22 05:08:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my problem is that now that i have a family i really want to stay home for the holidays. On christmas eve of 2005 my husband proposed to me infront of both familys here at my house than on christmas day we went over to his family and in 2006 me and my husband had thanksgiving here and went over to his family the day after thanksgiving {thats when they celebrate} and than on christmas eve of course my husband and i stayed home but on christmas day we went over to his family well this year my daughter is now 8 months old and we have thanksgiving here and we go to his sisters for the day after thanksgivng and this christmas the plans were to go over there to his sister but since i am lonely {mom and brother moved} i want to spend this christmas with my sister but his family wants to know why and i told his mother why and i think its only fair that if we are going to split the holidays that his siter can have thanksgiving and my sister can have christmas and switch off every year

2007-11-22 03:33:11 · 3 answers · asked by mommyandbaby 4

i had only met my father a couple of times when i was younger. he has a family with other children which is understandable. he has called me a couple of times with empty promises and then i wont hear from him again until another year or so. what is his problem why cant he make up his mind on whether he wants me in his life or not. i know i should maybe forget about him but in a way i feel that i shouldnt

2007-11-22 02:45:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother still thinks im five

2007-11-22 02:27:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

grandma and grandpa afer along period of time

2007-11-22 02:13:52 · 2 answers · asked by Raneem D 1

My husband and I will be cooking our turkey ourselves and all the other trimmings and just staying home this year. I remember all the good Thanksgiving dinners my parents had. My parents are gone now and I still miss those dinners my sister and I use to have with our families and friends. My sister and I don't talk anymore as things just aren't the same with Mom and Dad gone. We both live in different states now. Thank God for the good memories.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

2007-11-22 01:49:32 · 5 answers · asked by Nancy M 7

My parents are arguing, screaming about a divorce, and yelling at each other, so what do i do to make myself have a Happy Thanksgiving??

PS: I hope you all have a safe and great day!

2007-11-22 01:43:51 · 4 answers · asked by jscifres02 3

Hi. I am a mother of 3 small children, 5,3,&1. My husband has been in a prison camp for the past 13 months. We went to visit him last Christmas, which was my one year olds first. I want to keep the children at home this year and let them enjoy a normal Christmas with familiy. Am I wrong to not want my children to spend another Christmas in a prison camp. We visited him again in June of this year, he will be home in March 08. P.s. His crime was nothing bad like drugs or anything, he is a really good man. His charges are from a civil lawsuit. Am I being selfish, my husband says it's ok to stay home for Christmas but I am really torn. Please help....

2007-11-22 00:50:03 · 4 answers · asked by angeliab418 1

She's an honor student, wise, responsible, a good heart, even volunteered for social activities. Sure a great girl. Unfortunately she has an extremely strong resentment towards us and at home she's like a stranger. Avoid talking, avoid sharing her life with us, never askes for out advice, unles when there's no other choice. When she got in the honor rolll she didn't tell us. She got resentfil because 2 years ago she went through a crazy phase, did some bad stuff, git disrespctful, joined bad crowds, was somewhat mean to her lil sister. We had to be hard on her and unfortunately it took some time for her to straighten up. When she finally decided to changed she apologized for her mistakes but siad we had been to harsh and hadn't acted as living parents. Anyway she asked for out trust and since she didnt get it it immediately but had to earn it bach she got in despair. She proved to be trustworthy and now makes us proud, but is a stranger. Shoould we do something or just accept this?

2007-11-22 00:31:53 · 15 answers · asked by Liza 1

My mom is still in the hospital recovering from having had a blood clot removed from her brain.
She is doing so much better but still cannot walk on her own.
My husband wants us to go and celebrate thanksgiving at his parents home but all i want to do is stay home because there is no way i can make it to the hospital today to see my mom. (I visited her last night)

Would you go to someone else's home or just stay home?

2007-11-22 00:24:22 · 3 answers · asked by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7