i go to my moms house every 2weeks the 2 sundays ago we had a big fight and she callled me my bro and my dad messed up and some other terrible things im not sure if i 4give her yet and still havent talked to her im Spose to go with her tommorow and im sitting here with the phone in my hand wondering if i should call her or not plz help me
2007-11-22 12:01:37 · 9 answers · asked by the Guru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
take your time... don't just call right away and say you forgive her while infact you didn't.. let it cool down first... that's really up to you ....
2007-11-22 12:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by c bit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi lalalal,
Give her a call & if need be say "sorry". If you feel confused now, so does she. And don't be deceived by her voice & looks. She might look cool & aloof, but believe me, inside she is relieved & glowing. One quarrel does not wipe out all the good things she has done to you. One fight doesn't make her a bad mother. For all you know, she must be problem-laden that day. Don't sit at home & make it a battle of "pride". How many relationships are ruined simply because one party just won't make that 1st call? How many marriages broke down just because nobody wants to make that 1st move. Right now, it really doesn't matter whether who's right or wrong. If you make it up with her, you can have all the time to explain your end when proper situation arises. I've never heard anybody who hold out & felt good. Always there's that gnawing sense of guilt & emptiness. Of course, the one thing that's holding people back from making the 1st move is the "fear of being rebuffed". But atleast you have a better chance to making it up than sitting & waiting for the other party to make the 1st move. Sometimes that 1st move never came & what a waste! A relationship is lost.
2007-11-22 20:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by BERNARD C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!
Have you ever had a bad day?
Maybe your mom did too.
Remember when you were a kid, and you threw all of those tantrums?
Did your mom decide to put you aside, and never talk to you again?
No!
She picked up where the two of you left off BEFORE your tantrum, and things got back to normal real quick didn't they?
You kised and made up, and everything was right in the world again.
So CALL HER!
Ask her how she's doing, and if she doesn't say anything more about the last time you were together, then drop it.
When it comes to mom's and daughters, what you argued about probably doesn't matter a whole heck of a lot. Even if your feelings were hurt just a bit. I bet you have said your share of hurtful things to your mom time and again, and she blew it off too. Give it a try for yourself. It won't kill you.
2007-11-22 21:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats entirely up to you whether you go or not. She should have never said anything to hurt your feelings. But as I am a mom myself, I know that when I get upset sometimes I say things that I do regret. We all have our moments, and sometimes a simple apology is all it takes. I don't know what was said, between you and your mom, but hopefully you both can work things out.
2007-11-22 20:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by peyton31602 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how mad you get at a parent remember they are still your parent for life. Yes you need to call your mom and let her know your sorry for the things which happened. I'm sure she is also. I also know she still loves you and wants your love.
2007-11-22 20:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by insane one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should forgive her. You obviously don't see her very often and I'm sure she feels terrible. But if you go to see her and she is being rude and saying bad things to you then I think you should rethink things.
2007-11-22 20:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u shoud forgive her she iz probably hurt and did that out of anger dont ruin your relationship wit her ova words so yes call her go wit her cuz a bound wit yo mother iz everything a lot of pple dont get that
-brezzy
2007-11-22 20:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Bre R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her...be the bigger person!
2007-11-22 20:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by nanalynnminn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should forgive---RIGHT AWAY!!
Satan wants to RUIN families.
DON'T let him do that to yours!!!
2007-11-22 20:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋