i have been messing around with a married man for about a week now and today I got a phone call that I didnt know the number and I answered and said hello twice and a woman came over the phone and said "You're in trouble" and then hung up. I called the number back and nobody will answer even on a different phone that I use. So then I text messaged the guy and asked him if she called me and I told him the number and he said he had no idea wat that # is and that she asked him this morning if he had been talking to someone on the side. I told him i DID NOT WANT to carry on anymore with it and he told me to just lay low for a little bit until it cools down w/his wife. He also said that he still wanted to talk to me & he is still gonna text me and asked me if i work this weekend b/c its a gym and he works out there. I guess he wants to see me? All I am asking is... DOES THIS SOUND LIKE HE IS PLANNING ON STILL CONTINUING ON W/ME? I am not saying I will either......please dont criticize!
2007-11-21 16:15:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hello hope your holiday is a great one,yes that is what it sounds like to me.She could have used a public phone that is the reason he does not know the no. and that is why it just keeps ringing.Sounds like she is fixing to start a little investigation of her own , by asking him if he was talking to someone. How did she get your no. in the first place ? My advice to you hon is leave this man along it is not worth it. do not answer his calls nor his text and when he comes back to the gym be firm and tell him no more,after only a week she has your no. You don't really know him after only a week nor what kind of person she is. For your own safety please drop this now.
2007-11-21 16:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably going to continue to pursue you. But you have to ask yourself if your worth that little. Put yourself in the wife's shoes. How would all that make you feel. She probably knows and is having someone else do the calling, or someone you have told who doesn't agree is calling. He will probably sweet talk you and try to convince you there is nothing left of the marriage and that he really wants to be with you, but all he wants is a roll. If the marriage was over, then it should be over. Don't let him play mind tricks on you and convince you to continue on with this little game. Would you really want to be with someone like that. You already know you can't trust him, and he probably has more "friends" on the side. Do you think that little of yourself? Move on and be firm in telling him to leave you alone or you will file a restraining order. Because this road your traveling will only lead to trouble in your life, and do you really want or need that. There is someone much better out there for you.
2007-11-22 00:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by DAWN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure... he wants to keep you as a toy for as long as he wants. You are the latest in a long line of side-dishes for him.
Why do you want to put up with being the side-dish for a guy that doesn't have the guts to divorce his wife and move on?
His wife found your phone number on his phone bill. She can look up your address from the number alone.
Why do you want to deal with all the risk associated with both a relationship, and the possibility that his wife could easily wage a harassment campaign on you? She is probably capable of being a psycho.
What happens if he gets you pregnant? Do you expect fair treatment?
Why sell yourself short?
The "other woman" has no rights whatsoever.
Drop him and find yourself a man with some integrity who will actually show you some respect and take care of you.
2007-11-22 00:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be criticle but I am trying to be truthful. Being with a married man is not safe, good or healthy. If he cheats on his wife for you, he'll cheat on you for someone else. You're worth more than that. He won't see that you are someone special because you don't see it. You'll never have his heart. You'll never have respect from him. You'll never be his pride and joy. You'll never be the apple of his eye. Why??? Because he has already got these things. You're being taken for granted. Every day you look in the mirror you should see someone special who deserve to be treated special. Top of the line. Get your own man so you can have these things. Be blessed.
2007-11-22 00:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by use 2 b lost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babe, not criticising but guess if he wanted to be with u, he'd have been through with his wife...
Looks like he's just wanting a fling for the moment but that's your call
Obviously since someone called you, TWICE, somethings on or someone knows and if he finds out that his wife knows, he probably gonna dump u ASAP...
Just cut it off and join another gym if need be. Plenty of other single guys to fish for, if you know what I mean ;)
2007-11-22 00:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by Wee... 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if he wants to continue? His wife KNOWS. I tried to tell you this was going to happen. Too many people have seen you guys flirt in public. People don't mind their own business when it comes to adultry. His wife is supposed to be someone you call a friend and love. Stop all communication with this man before something bad happens.
Women with newborns don't just rool over and let you have their man.
You are smarter than this.
Good luck.
2007-11-22 20:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's plotting to sneak around. For all you know, the person that called was another woman that he used.
2007-11-22 00:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it certainly doesn't sound like he's breaking up with his wife for you, but it doesn't sound like he wants to let you go either.
2007-11-22 01:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of coarse he does he just has to find a way so his wife don't find out. does that sound good to you?!!
2007-11-22 00:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by bluesky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not settle your self for less ????? yuo can do better >>>>
2007-11-22 00:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by lovely 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋