My Daughters boyfriends family is having dinner, as the same time our family is, and she won't go to either? If you were choosing which would you go too. and Why? And or if could she actually make both, and not be to late, dinner is at 12 or so at the boyfriends family and 1 or so at out 45 minutes a part in drive.
2007-11-21 16:36:55 · 6 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She should try to got to both. She might be late for one but who cares, she already had one dinner! But do trust her to make the right choice.
2007-11-21 16:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old is your daughter? If she is under the age of 16. then you should be deciding, as her mother, to attend her own families dinner.
If she is older, then you should suggest to her that you would really like them to attend your dinner. You are trying to make her feel better, by dilly dallying around your motherly duties.
For goodness sake, doesn't any mother on this Answer site, act like mothers. Everybody seems to be passing the buck regarding their own children. What do you expect them to grow up like.
It boggles the mind.
2007-11-22 01:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen S 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she is having a hard time riht now, and does not want to cause a fight with her boyfriend. because if she goes home to you then her man can act on the rebound and say that she wants nothing to do with his family...and visa versa. you need to call her up, or go and talk to her, to see what the real problem is. Every one can give their ideas, but you will never know the truth until you talk to her yourself.
2007-11-22 00:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How I would chose the boy friend because if I was a mother and did not have the fu*king intelligence to talk to my daughter about such a simple thing then what the fu*k **** am I going to do when the dumb ***** gets pregnant.
2007-11-22 00:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should be the PARENT and tell her she is going to the family Thanksgiving and not her boyfriends! Who is running this family? The dog?
2007-11-22 02:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by G Money 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that you will save her a platefull of everything she likes if she wants to go over there for their feast.
Tell her to go over to her boyfriend's, at least for dessert... just to be sociable.
2007-11-22 01:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋